By Shannon Seibert
‘Modern Family’ star Sofia Vergara is in all of the latest headlines for her new, sizzling relationship with Joe Manganiello. Her costar, Sarah Hyland, plays her niece Haley on the show, and she recently opened up to UsMagazine.com about Vergara’s relationship. Hyland said Vergara and Manganiello looked really hot together. “They’d make really hot babies,” added Hyland.
How do you know if steamy attraction is blinding your good judgment?
Cupid’s Advice:Â
When a woman is asked to describe their perfect man the words “handsome” or “attractive” are usually some of the first words to come to mind. Looks are a vital point in chemistry between two people, but they aren’t everything. When in a relationship with an extremely attractive partner, be sure to not let his steamy appearance cloud your judgement. Ask yourself these three questions to ensure you aren’t allowing your vision to be skewed.
1. What else do you like about him? If your first thoughts on your man jump to the way his abs are chiseled, you may have to take a step back and get ahold of yourself. Yes, we all love a good washboard but what about your man’s heart? If it isn’t in the right place this relationship may just remain stagnant until one or both of you find someone to move forward with.
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2. Do you let him get away with more than you should? Say you’re out on a date and as you’re ordering your chicken marsala he starts talking up your waitress. Normally this isn’t okay by any standard. You’re starving but he can’t help it, right? It’s not his fault that he’s so attractive. So you let him get away with it. This is an example of thinking with organs other than your brain, it’s not just men who do it. Be sure to keep yourself from letting him walk all over you, or lead you to want to walk away.
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3. You find your insecurities becoming more present: When you’re dating an extremely attractive person, it’s normal to feel insecure. In relationships, couples become hyper-aware of interactions between their mate and the opposite sex. You may fear that he will cross the line but remember that he chose you to be with. You’re just as much of a goddess as he appears to be a god to you. Simmer down and cage the jealous green monster.
What obstacles have you encountered when dating someone extremely good looking? Share your story with us in the comments below!