Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘Jersey Shore’ Star Pauly D Welcomes Baby Daughter with ExCupid's Pulse Article: ‘Jersey Shore’ Star Pauly D Welcomes Baby Daughter with Ex

By Kristyn Schwiep

‘Jersey Store’ star Pauly D is now a father to a baby girl with an ex fling.  The two hooked up in Las Vegas and according to UsWeekly, the ex fling is living with their daughter in New Jersey.  Pauly D told TMZ that he is a proud father and excited to start a new chapter of his life.

What are some ways to stay involved in your child’s life after a breakup?

Cupid’s Advice:

Breaking up is always a difficult time in any relationship, but breaking up when a child is involved is even tougher.  So what are some ways that you can stay involved in your child’s life after the break up? Cupid has some advice for you:

1. Call: If it’s  hard to see your child every day make sure you call or Skype with them as often as you can.  Taking the time to talk to your child keeps you updated on what he or she is doing or how they are doing.

2. Take them out: Make time to spend time with your child.  Make sure you take them out to dinner, the movies or the park so you get to spend some quality time with each other.  It doesn’t matter what you are doing as long as you are spending more than once a month with them.

3. Holidays: You and your ex should take turns spending time with your child on different holidays.  One should get to spend Christmas with your child and the other gets to spend Thanksgiving together.  You and your ex can plan a schedule of what holiday’s you each get and try and switch off every year.

How have you stayed in your child’s life after a breakup? Share your stories below.