By Jessica Conigliaro
Only a month after they called it quits, Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez have been seen together. UsMagazine.com reports that Gomez spending the night at his house in L.A. It is unknown if they will be getting back together or have even rekindled the romance in any way; however, the two celebrities can’t seem to stay away from each other.
How do you know whether to get back with your ex-partner or not?
Cupid’s Advice:
Determining weather or not you should get back together with your boyfriend is something a lot of people struggle with. They were a big part of your life and now they are completely removed from it. You are left feeling empty and alone, no matter how the breakup occurred. Here are some ways to tell if you should get back together with your ex, or if the relationship was never meant to last:
1. Offers emotional support: In order to know if you are truly meant to be with someone, you have to figure out what is most important to you; if you are the type of person who needs a sensitive guy that lets you know how he feels, don’t settle for anything else. If your ex was not able to support you emotionally, they should remain you ex. However, if you realize the breakup only occurred out of a stupid fight, reconsider the situation.
2. Remember why you broke up: In every relationship there are obstacles to overcome. Having made the decision to end things, there was clearly a major issue between you and your partner. Don’t just focus on what you miss in your ex–focus on how bad it got as well. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself making the same mistake twice.
3. Ask what your friends think: A great way to get a second opinion on the matter is by asking the people that are closest to you. They usually know what is best for you and will have strong perspectives. If they are completely shocked by the breakup and didn’t see it coming, it is possible you made a rush decision out of anger and should try talking to your ex again.
How did you know getting back together with your ex was the right thing to do? Share your experiences below.
