Cupid's Pulse Article: Nick Jonas Double DatesCupid's Pulse Article: Nick Jonas Double Dates

Nick Jonas, of the pop group The Jonas Brothers, has been seen out with two different girls in the last week in London, Mail Online reported.  The youngest Jonas brother is in England performing Les Miserables, and was recently spotted out on on the town with two of his co-stars, Samantha Barks and Lucie Jones.  No relationship with either woman has been confirmed for Jonas as of yet.

How can you play the field without hurting yourself – or someone else?


Cupid’s Advice:

Jonas has a history of on-and-off relationships with other young stars, including Miley Cyrus and Selena Gomez, but there comes a time when playing the field can be taken too far.  Someone will get hurt if there aren’t clear signs of what both people want in the ‘relationship’ from the start.

1. Define what you are: Are you single?  Are you looking?  What are you looking for?  Figure out who you’re looking for in the dating game, and then make that clear to anyone you might get involved with.

2. Pick on someone your size: Only go for people who are looking for the same things you are.  If you want to be single, but the person you’re seeing wants a committed relationship, there’s no way things can end well for either of you.

3. Bounce back, not back and forth: If something doesn’t work out, you need to be realistic with yourself, and end it.  It’s not right to bop back and forth between mates, and play with other hearts than your own.