It looks like Bachelor winner Vienna Girardi has found new love with Bachelorette contestant Kasey Kahl, reports Hollywood Life.  “Kasey is genuinely a nice, caring, loving person, even when the cameras are off, ” said Girardi.  That’s what makes the difference.  When we’re at home eating dinner or watching a movie, he’s still that sweet charming guy that he is when we’re out in public.  I want someone who is going to love me unconditionally, all day every day -— not just when other people are seeing it.”  Girardi’s dramatic split from ex-fiancé Jake Pavelka on national television taught her to be careful while dating in the public eye. Kahl is also wary of public television-based romance.  “I told myself I’d never date someone from the Bachelor franchise, but I met her, and everything went out the window,” said Kahl.  “She’s amazing.  No matter what we’ve gone through, and no matter what she’s gone through, I’m here now, and I will make sure she’s the happiest girl ever.”
How do you trust in love again after a bad breakup?
Cupid’s Advice:
After a breakup, it’s all too easy to become cynical. Here are a few tips to remaining optimistic:
1. Special circumstances: After a particularly nasty breakup, try to keep in mind that mistakes made during your past relationship will probably not be repeated in your future relationships. Allow each new partner a clean slate in order to get a true fresh start.
2. Other fish in the sea: Even if you believed your ex-partner was ‘the one,’ it’s important to remember that there are plenty of other potential loves out there. Â Believe it or not, it is possible to fall in love more than once.
3. You will need time: It would be foolish to expect happiness immediately after a relationship ends. Recovery takes time, but eventually you’ll be ready to get out there again.
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