By Haley Lerner
In celebrity break up news, Nikki Bella and John Cena have split again only two months after reconciling and resuming their celebrity engagement. Bella told EOnline.com in a statement, “After I called off the engagement, we tried to work on our relationship to get back to where it was, and in order to move forward with our wedding. After much time and soul-searching alone and together, we have decided to officially part ways. I had a beautiful and loving 6-year relationship with a wonderful man. I have the utmost respect for John, but I know what is best for me.” A source said Bella is doing well and moving on with her life after the breakup. But, Cena has yet to publicly comment on the breakup. This news comes after Bella’s representative said she and Cena were “working on their relationship” after the two initially called off their engagement just over three months ago. The couple began dating in 2012 and their relationship has been documented on Total Divas and Total Bellas.
It looks like John and Nikki are experiencing a celebrity break-up yet again. What are some factors to consider before reconciling with an ex?
Cupid’s Advice:
Are you feeling like you might want to reconcile with an ex? Cupid has some factors for you to consider:
1. Will it last?: Before getting back together with an ex, you want to make sure that the reconciliation will actually last. For Bella and Cena, their reunion was short-lived. Getting back together just to break up again shortly after can cause you more pain than the initial break up did. If you reunite with your ex, make sure you are completed committed to doing so and you are sure things will last for the long term.
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2. Have things changed?: You shouldn’t get back together with someone if all the problems that made you two break up are still there. If you choose to reconcile with your ex, all former arguments should be quelled and you two need to have worked through your problems. If a past issue is still present, it’s likely to cause more trouble for you further on in your relationship.
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3. Are you ready?: It’s important you make sure that you are emotionally ready to be in a relationship again after already getting your heartbroken before. You need to make sure prior to reconciling with your ex that you are confident in yourself and are ready for what could happen if the relationship fails again. Don’t get back with your ex if you think you won’t be able to handle a potential negative outcome from it.
Have any more things to consider before getting back together with an ex? Comment below!