Former celebrity couple Scheana Shay and Mike Shay have officially split, with UsMagazine.com reporting that their celebrity divorce has recently been finalized. The former spouses are settling their affairs now, with reality TV star Scheana paying Mike 50,000 dollars in order to make sure that their assets remain balanced and equitable. While Scheana once accused Mike of cheating on the hit reality show, Vanderpump Rules, the celebrity exes seem to have buried the hatchet for now, with both claiming that, “While we have made the difficult decision to move forward separately, our story will continue on through the love and mutual respect that we have cultivated throughout our 15-year friendship.” Their joint statement on their celebrity break-up went on to state that they will continue to, “support each other’s personal happiness and professional success” despite the fact that they both admitted they had “failed at [their] marriage.”
This much-talked-about split has ended up in celebrity divorce. What are some ways you know your relationship cannot be fixed?
Cupid’s Advice:
When it comes to break-ups, there’s no easy way to know just when you and your partner should call it quits. However, Cupid is here with some sure signs you should look for that your relationship may be going belly-up:
1. You no longer enjoy spending time together: Every couple, no matter how strong, goes through rough patches. However, if you can’t think of the last time that you and your partner spent time together and you parted ways feeling happy and satisfied, that’s something to take seriously. If you two aren’t that happy to see each other even on your best days, that’s a huge red flag signaling that it may be time to say goodbye.
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2. You argue and never seem to really make-up: Healthy debate and arguments are not bad signs in a relationship; in fact, it’s good if you’re able to disagree with your partner and recognize that conflict is a natural part of any relationship. On the other hand, if you two seem to be having the same fight over and over again that never really gets resolved, you should take a long, hard look at how you’re functioning as a couple. If arguments always end with slammed doors and the silent treatment instead of a long talk and reconciliation, that’s not a good sign. It may be time to consider that the best thing for both of you is to say goodbye.
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3. You’re the only one compromising: Relationships are all about compromise, the push and pull of two human beings trying to work together to create something beautiful. If you feel as if you’re always the one who is changing themselves to fit your partner’s standards, ask yourself if they’re really holding up their end of the bargain when it comes to the relationship. Do you feel like you are in an equitable partnership? Do you both compromise regularly or does one or the other of you always bend to the other one’s way? If you feel as though they’re never willing to sacrifice what they want for the good of the relationship, this might be a sign that the relationship has run its course.
What do you think of this celebrity divorce? Have you ever been in a bad relationship and realized it was time to call it quits? Let us know in the comments!
