Sofia Vergara and Nick Loeb seemed to have the perfect relationship. But, underneath their success and PDA, it turns out the couple were on completely different wavelengths. While Vergara’s focus was on her entertainment career, his was more concentrated on politics. As an insider told People, “It was never a good match. She is fiery and free-spirited and wants to enjoy life to the fullest by traveling and going to parties and events. He’s very concerned with his businesses, political aspirations and ultimately settling down.”  Though the couple are said to have broken up and gotten back together many times, the Modern Family star also has a history of sticking by her man both after a serious car accident and during Loeb’s run for the Florida U.S. Senate.

What are some signs that it’s time to call it quits? 

Cupid’s Advice:

Being in a relationship can be a beautiful thing, but not if it’s the wrong relationship. If it really isn’t working out, there’s no shame in ending your relationship and starting over. Cupid has some tips:

1. Separate interests: While having a certain amount of independent interests is part of any healthy relationship, if you are on totally separate levels of stages of life, it may be time to call it quits.

2. Infidelity: If you can’t be loyal or honest with one another, you’re not in a good relationship.

3. Lack of interest: Once you’ve lost interest in your relationship to the point where you’ve stopped fighting because it’s just not worth the energy, it’s time to get out.

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