Is your significant other “the one” or just another someone? Dating mentor and QuickieChick Laurel House shares her ten tips for knowing who’s Mr. (or Mrs.) Right. Our favorite piece of advice? If your partner makes you feel like your best self — or even inspires you to be a better person — than he or she may be around forever. Or use The Bachelor’s Sean Lowe as a great example. He loved both Lindsay and Catherine, but he knew he’d never be able to say goodbye to Catherine. If you can’t see yourself without someone in your life, than he or she may be the best fit for you.

Listen up for eight more ways to know who’s the perfect match for you!