It looks like the rumors could be true; Cameron Diaz and Diddy were spotted together again.  It’s been about a month since the reported couple was seen having lunch together.  According to People, Diaz and Diddy looked cozy at New York’s PH-D Rooftop Lounge onto of the Dream Downtown Hotel.  Diaz started her night with friends at Marble Lane Restaurant before heading up to the rooftop around midnight.  About an hour later, Diddy joined the table, and ordered bottles of alcohol for everyone.  It was said that the table was crowded and Diaz and Diddy looked “very affectionate.”  However, according to Diaz’s rep, “They are just friends and are not dating.”

What do you do if you start to develop feelings for a friend?

Cupid’s Advice:

Although you may think you harbor nothing besides platonic feelings for a friend, you may eventually realize there’s something more.  Cupid has some advice:

1. Make sure your feelings are legit: Before jumping into something potentially friendship-threatening, make sure you are positive of what you are feeling.  Did you just get dumped and your guy friend is helping to make you feel better?  You may possibly be mistaking a goofy and loving friendship as flirting.  Stop and think about your relationship.

2. Consult a mutual friend: Talk to a friend who knows the both of you (in confidence of course), and see what they have to say about your new feelings.  If your friends notices some changes, and think the feelings could be reciprocated, maybe it’s something you should explore.

3. Tell your friend how you feel: When you’re sure you are falling for your friend, tell him.  For all you know, he has always been in love with you or maybe his heart has been thumping a little louder for you as well.  The worst that can happen is that he doesn’t feel the same way.

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