When it comes to Ali Fedotowsky and Roberto Martinez’s relationship, what Bachelorette host Chris Harrison loves the most, “is that they’re living their lives.”  According to People, Fedotowsky recently began a gig as a correspondent for the local Fox station in San Diego.  Her groom-to-be has opened a new office for his insurance business as well.  Friend and former Bachelorette bachelor Kiptyn Locke suggested, “It’s important to be away for a while and get to know each other so then when you go do those things, it’s all real.”  With things going so well, it doesn’t seem that a 2011 wedding will surprise anyone.
What should you know about your partner before getting married?
Cupid’s Advice:
While you might feel that you know everything there is to know about your partner, it doesn’t hurt to ask a few additional questions.  Cupid’s got three topics to discuss before tying the knot:
1. Skeletons in the closet: Nicole Kidman had to deal with Keith Urban’s addictions early on in their marriage.  Having a past isn’t something to be ashamed of, so ask your partner to be honest with you.
2. Finances: While commercials for freecreditscore.com might sing about extreme financial sorrows, they aren’t kidding! Â No one enjoys talking about their financial situation, but rather than let this become an obstacle after you’ve walked down the aisle, get it over with now.
3. Home sweet home: If you or your partner are currently living separately, discuss where you plan to live after getting married. Â Jobs, family and the economy can affect possible locations your partner will consider living.
