By Katie Gray

Bravo star Kenya Moore is an alum of Patti Stanger’s show Millionaire Matchmaker. She found a match, but along the way, he married someone else. Clearly, that now makes him her celebrity ex. According to UsMagazine.com, “Kenya Moore just revealed that her boyfriend, James Freeman, whom she met on the Bravo show Millionaire Matchmaker wasn’t as unattached as he seemed. The Real Housewives of Atlanta star just revealed she found out he married someone else behind her back while they were dating.” That being said, she has an optimistic attitude and took to Instagram to say,”Unfortunately, I just learned today that the man I met and fell in love with from Millionaire Matchmaker was married a week after the show aired. I am astounded and devastated to have learned this news VIA social media as opposed to from him directly. However, I still believe in love and my heart remains open to the man God has for me. I wish him well.”

These celebrity exes probably won’t be reconciling anytime soon. How do you know if you are dating someone who is monogamous?

Cupid’s Advice:

Above all else, you need to be on the same page when it comes to exclusivity in a relationship and love. If you want to be monogamous, but your partner still wants to date around, that’s an issue. Cupid has some tips:

1. Ask: The best way to know if you are dating someone who is monogamous or not is by flat out asking. It’s efficient and straight to the point. If you are dating this person, it’s not prying to ask about it because you are involved, and you have the right to know.

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2. Read their personality: You can tell a lot about a person by reading their actions and behaviors. Feel out what kind of personality they have. If they are honest and trustworthy, then you can believe them when they say they aren’t seeing other people in addition to you. Sometimes it is obvious if a guy is very flirty and seeing multiple people, but other times it can be discreet. Figure out the type of person he is and go from there.

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3. Learn their goals: If the person you are seeing has goals of marriage and starting a family, it’s obvious he is probably on the path to settling down. If someone is just having fun and doesn’t want to be serious with anyone, that will also be evident. Discuss what outcomes you both want from the relationship and love life and go from there in determining if you want to continue seeing one another!

What are some ways you have known that the person you were dating was monogamous or not? Share your stories with Cupid below!