In this week’s Single in Stilettos relationship advice video, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to dating expert Des O’Connor, who shares his best love advice for someone who has a successful career but is struggling to find The One.

Dating Expert Shares Best Love Advice

Despite what you may think, you can climb the corporate ladder and have a fulfilled romantic relationship and love life. O’Connor reveals five tips to remember:

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1. What you focus on is what you become: If you’re only concerned about your job, it’ll take over your personal life too. Turn some of your attention to dating instead.

2. You need to strike a balance.

3. Men need to feel needed.

4. Stop saying, “I don’t need a man!”: If you keep sending that idea out into the universe, guess what? You won’t find a guy to invite into your life!

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5. Men aren’t intimidated by strong, independent women: If you keep running into this issue, you’re attracting the wrong type of men.

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