By Emma L. Wells

The Bachelorette season 11 promo was released this week with the tagline “50 Shades of Cray,” and judging from the commercial, the hit reality TV show will certainly be exciting. According to the HollywoodReporter.com, there will be two Bachelorettes — Britt Nilsson and Kaitlyn Bristowe, both former contestants from The Bachelor season 19 — 25 contestants (one of which arrives wearing a giant cupcake costume), and lots of drama. It now appears that, in the premiere episode, the men will have to vote on which Bachelorette remains for the season. The promo also shows Bristowe crying and saying, “I just don’t feel like this is how I should have to do it.” We can’t wait to tune in on May 18th!

The Bachelorette season 11 contestants have to make a quick decision about their feelings for the two leading ladies. How can you make good split-second judgments when it comes to relationships and love?

Cupid’s Advice:

There’s something to be said for following your heart. When it comes to big decisions about relationships and love, we can easily get wrapped up and make the choice more complicated than it needs to be. Cupid has some love advice on how to make these quick decisions easier:

1. Basic instincts: Our instincts are part of our biology and shouldn’t be ignored. If you’re on a blind date and have a bad feeling, then you should listen to it. Similarly, when you meet a great potential match, you should pay attention to your first instinct and go for it. Follow your heart and don’t waste time second guessing yourself.

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2. Pros and cons: It’s easy for our heads to get muddled in a time crunch, making us fall into analysis paralysis. You might have to be a little brutal when scrutinizing your choices quickly. If you have to make a decision fast, then logically think about the pros and cons of your choices. Don’t let the ticking clock trip you up!

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3. Que sera, sera: Unless you have a crystal ball or a time machine, you won’t be able to see into the future. This thought should actually take some of the pressure off your decision. Remember that you’re making the best choice you can with the information you have and that nothing’s permanent. Whatever will be, will be!

How do you make fast decisions when it comes to a relationship and love? Tell us below!