Ashton Kutcher is blazing the trail for a whole new way of romance in 2011, Us Weekly reports.  Kutcher dishes on his tactics behind those flirty tweets about his wife of five years, Demi Moore.  “In some ways, it’s no different than sending flowers to the office: You are declaring your love for everyone to see.  Who doesn’t like to be publicly adored?”  But Kutcher also knows when to make the moves in person, too.  “There’s no text that can replace a loving touch when someone we love is hurting.”

What are ways to show your partner you love him?

Cupid’s Advice:

Ashton Kutcher may get it just right when it comes to maintaining a perfect mixture of digital shout-outs and personal love notes.  Take his lead the next time you want to stand out:

1. Actions speak: That old saying that “actions speak louder than words” rings true.  If words aren’t your weapon of choice, a small gesture like doing the dishes before your partner gets home from work will show that you care.

2. Give some R&R: The days are getting shorter, and the nights are getting colder.  Block out some time in the evening to cuddle on the couch with a cup of hot chocolate and your favorite holiday movie.  Go above and beyond by providing popcorn and a shoulder massage.

3. Make homemade gifts: Anyone can go out to the store and buy something, but by taking the time to crochet a scarf or putting together a gift basket of your love’s favorite homemade desserts, it really shows you care.