Eva Longoria officially filed for divorce from San Antonio Spurs player, Tony Parker this past week.  The actress was appalled after finding hundreds of inappropriate text messages from the wife of Parker’s teammate whose identity still remains a mystery, according to People.  The Desperate Housewife confided in pal, Mario Lopez, and it’s now been revealed that this is not Tony Parker’s first affair.  Prior to this indiscretion, he cheated with another woman and continued to keep in touch with her on Facebook.  “[Eva] is devastated, she wants us all to know that, but she’s strong,” said Lopez.

How can you tell if your partner is cheating?

Cupid’s Advice:

Time will always reveal the truth.  If you suspect something is going on, follow your gut.  Cupid has some tell-tale signs:

1. His phone book is full: If your partner has many names in their cell phone book that you do not recognize or which are listed by only the first name, this could be sign that they are hiding something or someone.

2. He’s not interested: If your partner begins to lose interest in you either physically or emotionally, one of the reasons could be that he’s getting affection elsewhere.

3. His spending habits change: If you notice unexplained dinners, hotel rooms, transportation services or gifts, this shady money trail could lead to a cheater.