Eva Longoria and Tony Parker are ending their three-year marriage, reports Us Weekly. Parker had been exchanging personal text messages with another woman for over a year, and Longoria found out.  Sources say, “Eva is heartbroken by the betrayal…Once the trust was lost, the marriage was over.”  Longoria filed for divorce papers on Wednesday.  Says an insider, “Eva truly thought she was going to grow old with Tony and have children with him.  She’s inconsolable.”

How can you rebuild trust in a failed relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Whatever your mistake, trust is always the hardest element in a relationship to regain once it’s lost.  Here is some advice to help you and your boyfriend or husband reconnect:

1. Tell the truth: When you’ve made a mistake, it’s best to be completely open with your partner.  At some level, they will appreciate the fact that you’re telling the truth.

2. Ask questions: Make sure to ask your boyfriend or husband how they’re feeling.  It’s wrong to assume and predict emotions.  In order to know how to handle the situation, make sure you fully understand your partner.

3. Give it time: No problem can be cured overnight.  Give your partner some time, and eventually the trust will reappear.