According to recent sightings, Kate Gosselin has been getting closer to her married bodyguard, Steve Neild.  Us Weekly’s exclusive video talks of romantic strolls along the beach in North Carolina and reports that he tucks the kids into bed at night.  Gosselin and Neild continue to deny any physical relationship between them.  Meanwhile, HollywoodGossip.com corroborates stories of beach strolls and even discipline assistance with the kids.What are the complications of dating hired help?

Cupid’s Advice:

Whether you’re in the spotlight like Kate Gosselin or just a single mom, finding the right guy is not as simple as walking out your front door these days.  Here are some other ways to find your next mate without dating your employees:

1. Take a class: The workforce has changed so much just in the last few years, taking a refresher course to improve your skills will help you land a better job with higher pay, and maybe even someone to connect with.

2. Get online: Don’t be afraid to dabble in internet dating.  There are hundreds of sites out there that offer free trials to get your feet wet – without a long term commitment – like Match, EHarmony and Zoosk, to name a few.

3. Dare to change: When you’re ready to start getting out there, make some personal changes like a new hairstyle, or, if you can afford it, a new wardrobe.  This will do wonders for your confidence.

Being in a relationship with an employee or even a coworker leads to complications no matter how strong the connection is.  For more ways to find a mate after divorce, follow Cupid to Woman’s Divorce.com.