No serenade can change Heidi Klum’s mind. ¬†Sources say that Klum does not wish to get back together with Seal, her husband of seven years, according to ¬†HollyScoop.¬† Though Klum and Seal still wear their wedding rings, a source close to Klum says, “They have zero plans to get back together.”¬† Klum is reportedly miffed that Seal “won’t shut up” about their separation.

How do you keep from falling back into an unhealthy relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Though looking back on old relationships can be emotionally trying, it’s important to stick to your decisions.¬† Here are a few ways to avoid going back to an ex who’s not right for you:

1. Remember your breakup: Though anger fades over time, the reasons behind your breakup are still present.  Think back on the mistakes made in your previous relationship and hopefully those thoughts will deter you from reentering the relationship.

2. Stick with your friends: Spending time with friends–people with whom you have a healthy relationship–will help you realize just how imperfect your previous relationship was.

3. Look to the future: Instead of looking back at your relationship, try looking forward to future relationships.¬† Be optimistic and hope for one that’s better than the last one.

Have you been in an unhealthy relationship?  Feel free to leave a comment below.