Dancing with the Stars alum Elisabetta Canalis, who dated George Clooney for two years until their split in June, recently revealed some reasons behind her split with the actor, reports People.  Canalis has been quoted in a Questo Amore (This Love), a new book by Italian journalist Bruno Vespa, where she says she had a “father-daughter relationship” with Clooney.  “[Clooney] has been special for me, and very important, just as a father would be,” said Canalis in the book.  “Between us there was more of a father-daughter relationship.”

How do you know when your relationship lacks a spark?

Cupid’s Advice:

It’s very common for your head to make decisions about relationships instead of your heart.  Here are a few ways to know that your relationship lacks a spark:

1. You’re not excited: After a few weeks of dating, some couples experience a slump in their relationship.  However, for couples lacking a spark, this may never wear off.

2. You prefer groups: If you have more fun on group outings, like double dates or parties, than you do on one-on-one dates with your partner, then you should reevaluate your relationship.

3. You rationalize: If you find yourself supplying reasons why you should date your partner, then it’s clear that your head — not your heart — is making decisions for you.  Just because a partner seems like an ideal candidate on paper does not mean they’re ideal in real life.

Have you ever lost the spark in your relationship?  Feel free to leave a comment below.