The rumors are flying that Two and a Half Men‘s latest newcomer Ashton Kutcher has been cheating on his wife of six years, actress Demi Moore.  Although the tabloid news has yet to be confirmed, some recent Twitter behavior from each half of the duo is causing some speculation, according to People. The day before their wedding anniversary, Moore chose to share a quote from Greek philosopher Epictetus, which reads, “When we are offended at any man’s fault, turn to yourself & study your own failings.  Then you will forget your anger.”  While the actress chose someone else’s words to voice her emotions, Kutcher took the opposite approach and decided not to post anything at all on his wedding anniversary.  This may actually speak volumes, because the actor is known to be very active in showing his love for his wife via social media.

How do you gracefully deal with infidelity rumors in a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

1. Regroup: Before acting at all, take a deep breath.  You can potentially make things worse than they already are if you react badly to something that ends up not even being true.  Let the news sink in before you even speak to your significant other about it.

2. Get the facts: Don’t go public with your emotions until you’re sure you’ve gathered all sides to the story.  Avoid taking the rumors you hear as fact and simply confront your partner about it, and then hear him or her out before acting.

3. Find support: Social media is probably something you want to stay away from after you’ve begun dealing with cheating allegations.  Instead, find someone you trust to confide in, like a family member or a friend.  They may be able to point you in the right direction.

How did you deal when you heard rumors your partner was cheating? Share your thoughts below.