It’s been confirmed!  Halle Berry’s alleged stalker was arrested on Monday night.   The actress’ private security agents apprehended James Franco after he jumped over the fence of the Berry’s West Hollywood home.  The LAPD informed Access Hollywood that this was the second time the man had trespassed on the star’s property.  Franco has been in custody since Tuesday morning.

How do you deal with someone who has an obsessive crush on you?

Cupid’s Advice:

We all love to be loved, but being in the spotlight all the time can be overwhelming.  Cupid has some advice for dealing with those who like us excessively:

1. Avoid them: It may seem obvious, but do it.  If someone is majorly crushing on you and you don’t feel the same way, try to spend less time with them at all costs.  It may help him or her get over you.  If you’re too nice and spend too much time with him or her, it could give the wrong idea.

2. Be upfront: Don’t be ambiguous.  The last thing you wanna do is lead him or her on.  Communicate your unavailability by mentioning telling things, for example, how you’re really into a person you just started dating.

3. Don’t be hurtful: Unrequited love is no fun.  Although you may never have been “obsessed” with anyone, chances are that at some point you liked someone who turned you down.  Don’t be pretentious with whoever it is that is showering you with attention.  Let him or her know that you’re not interested, but do it in a considerate way.

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