After calling off her wedding toHugh Hefner, Crystal Harris is determined to move on with her life.  According to People, the runaway bride spent the day of the would-be wedding at a poolside bash at LasVegas’ Wet Republic.  Instead of a honeymoon suite, she spent Saturday in a VIP cabana surrounded by a small ground of friends.  “Ijust had to get away.  Today is the day and I just had to get away,” said Harris.  In spite of a rumored new romance with Dr. Phil’s son, Jordan McGraw, who the 25-year-old playmate identifies as only a friend, Harris and Hefner remain close friends and speak often.  “I wasn’t the only woman inHef’s life and it wasn’t going to stay that way after the marriage,” said Harris.

What are ways to be considerate of your former partner after a broken engagement?

Cupid’s Advice:

It’s okay to call off a wedding, but do so with class and consideration.  Cupid has some tips:

1. Don’t trash your former partner: Even if the marriage wasn’t meant to be, that doesn’t mean that you or your ex partner did anything wrong.  If anyone asks you about your ex or why you called off the wedding, simply say that you wish your ex the best.

2. Don’t start dating openly right away: If there ‘s someone else is the picture already, try to keep it under wraps for a while in order to be sensitive to your ex-fiancé’s feelings.

3. Get away for a while: Big and sudden changes in your life can be difficult for everyone involved.  Don’t be afraid to take a vacation from real life in order to think and get back on track.

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