In order to create reality show drama of epic proportions, the cast of the Bachelor Pad 2 includes exes who are anything, but on good terms, such as Jake Pavelka and Vienna Girardi.  So much for a relaxing summer!  Pavelka will be spending it watching his ex get chummy with her current boyfriend, Kasey Kahl.  According to Associated Content, reality villains Justin Rego and Michelle Money have also joined this very turbulent cast.

How can you handle seeing your ex with someone new?

Cupid’s Advice:

Seeing your ex with someone new is never easy, but it’s a reality you’ll probably have to face in life.  Your best course of action is to accept it and move on:

1. Look the other way: Believe it or not, there are more important things going on around you than who your ex is dating.  Find something else to focus your energy on.

2. Try online dating: If your ex has moved on, chances are that you should, too.  If you can’t find any suitable dating choices in your current social circles, look online.

3. Be happy for them: Even though it didn’t work out between you and your ex, it’s no reason to hate him or her.  Be the bigger person and be happy for him or her instead.

On a scale of 1 to 10, how painful is it to see your ex with someone else? Share your thoughts below.