Stefano Langone may have been eliminated from American Idol after his performance of “Lately,” however, according to People, the breakout star is single and ready to live it up.  Though the singer says he’s playing the field, he’s also dedicated to putting his music first.  “I’m single and very happy, but I am mingling and having fun.  But, worrying about my music is number one,” he said.  Along with making an impact on the American public, Langone has grown very close to celebrity couple Marc Anthony and Jennifer Lopez through his American Idol experience.

Is it important to be established in your career before entering a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Having satisfaction in your love life and your career are very important parts to leading a happy life.  However, it ‘[s impossible to predict which will strike first:

1. Work hard, play hard: To have a great career, you must work hard.  However, when it comes to finding love, trying too hard is not the way to go when you want to find love.  Love strikes when you least expect it.

2. Career confidence: Being established in your career can make you exude confidence that can be very appealing to a potential lover.

3. Find balance: Never overwhelm yourself with worry about either your career or your love life.  If you’re unhappy with either of these aspects of your life, be proactive.

Do you think that someone who is confident with their career is more appealing to date?  Share a comment below.