Although most are excited about Jennifer Hudson’s loss of 80 pounds, her fiancée isn’t too thrilled. UsMagazine.com reports the 29 year-old Academy Award recipient told Jay Leno on Friday’s show that her man, David Otunga, preferred the casual clothes versus her new wardrobe. Also, she admitted her fiancée is not a big fan of change. “He fusses at me like, ‘Why do you have to have to get all dressed up to go out and why can’t you just go out like you used to?'” said Hudson. “And I’m like, ‘I’m a walking billboard now honey.”

How do you overcome your partner’s judgment?

Cupid’s Advice:

1. Stay confident: If you feel good, chances are your partner will think you look good. After all, your attitude reflects on the outlook of your day.

2. Listen to feedback: Your lover may criticize if you change your look randomly, but try not to just blow it off. Listen carefully to their point so you fully understand.

3. Make your case: What’s most important is that you clearly explain that how you look now is very important to you, and it makes you feel happy. Your partner will come around.