Playboy founder Hugh Hefner and his much-younger fiancée Crystal Harris were caught huddling close all night at the Playboy Golf Lingerie and Pajama Party at the Playboy Mansion in L.A. last week, according to People. The duo “looked smitten,” according to a source at the party with them. Hefner, the 85-year-old husband-to-be, also received a life-sized birthday card from Playboy Golf CEO Ajay Pathak.

Does age matter when it comes to marriage?

Cupid’s Advice:

Cupid tends to think that age in itself doesn’t matter, but there are some things to consider before entering into a relationship with someone significantly older or younger than yourself:

1. Different generations: If you and your partner were born in different generations, you grew up with different commonly held beliefs.  Make sure you’re on the same wavelength morally before you get too serious.

2. Think longterm: Think about whether you want to have kids and what your age difference means in that situation. Will your spouse have enough energy to put into raising a child?

3. Energy levels: Someone younger might have a lot more energy for activities and outings than someone older. If your partner is much older than you, are you willing to deal with those limitations?