Both the engagement and the relationship are over for Rachel Bilson and Hayden Christensen.  According to UsMagazine.com, the couple just couldn’t make things work. The pair met in 2007 on the set of Jumper. They were engaged a year later and called it off in the summer of 2010. It seems like this on and off couple may officially be on the outs.

How do you know what a relationship is truly over?

Cupid’s Advice:

Sometimes relationships work and sometimes they don’t.  If you are in an on-and-off-again relationship that just doesn’t seem to be working, the best course of action may be to move on:

1. Too much drama: If you are in a relationship where the tears of make-ups and break-ups never seems to end, get out for your own sanity.

2. Boredom: Along with being over-dramatic, a relationship that is dead in the water can also be underwhelming.  If your partner no longer excites or interests you it may be time to say, “Let’s just be friends.”

3. You don’t trust your partner: If you’re back with an ex and find that you can no longer trust them due to your painful past, don’t walk … run out of this relationship.