Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity News: ‘Bachelor’ Arie Luyendyk Jr. Justifies First Impression Rose PickCupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity News: ‘Bachelor’ Arie Luyendyk Jr. Justifies First Impression Rose Pick

By Rachel Sparks

This celebrity news is stirring up some fire! Bachelor Arie Luyendyk Jr. chose who to gave his first rose to, and according to EOnline.comhis choice made a lot of people mad. Single mom from Maine Chelsea threw insults around, upsetting the other women and the viewers, but to Arie, she was taking the initiative he wanted to see. Arie is confident that viewers will change their mind about Chelsea; he hasn’t yet!

This celebrity news has us in Arie’s corner. What are some ways to know if someone appreciates you with no ulterior motive?

Cupid’s Advice:

We all dream of being on the ‘Bachelor’ and being handed that rose, but like Arie, there are many times we can doubt the true intentions of someone. A lot of people will try and use someone in Arie’s situation for their own personal gain, so how can you remain secure in others’ advances? Read Cupid’s dating advice:

1. They seek you out often: Arie was driven by Chelsea’s relentless pursuit of him. It’s confidence-boosting when someone keeps coming after you. How do you know they’re doing it for the right reasons? Pay attention to when and how they seek you out. If they’re gaining a lot of attention for it, the situation is less about you and more about them.

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2. They ask the right questions: Dating is prying in the beginning, but what kind of information someone is digging for makes a big difference. Asking someone about their interests and aspirations is a genuine connection-forming question, rather than asking about money or how luxurious their home is.

Related Link: Celebrity News: Arie Luynedyk Jr. Hands Out First Impression Rose on Season Premier of ‘The Bachelor’

3. They listen: Listening is one of the most crucial parts to building a strong foundation of communication, and as any relationship advice will say, communication is key. If they listen to you and genuinely respond, you know you’ve found someone who’s main interest is you.

How do you know when someone is being genuine with you? Share your dating tips below!