After much talk of their romance dying out, Amanda Seyfried and Ryan Phillippe seem to be working things out. According to People, the two were seen at the Grey Goose Pre-Oscar bash at L.A.’s Soho House. Although the two were definitely together, Seyfried did seem a bit uneasy, a source says. Although it seems the two are back and forth, “When it’s good, they’re really good together.”

When is your relationship good enough?Cupid’s Advice:

Every relationship is different, and each couple has its ups and downs. Sometimes, it’s difficult to assess the condition of your connection. Cupid has some tips to help you figure out when your relationship is good enough:

1. You are genuinely happy: Although there are always hard times, the good times should outnumber the bad.

2. It doesn’t feel like work: Sometimes we get so caught up that our relationships begin to feel like chores. When it starts to feel like a second job, you may want to begin to start rethinking things.

3. You don’t constantly need reassurance: If you feel like you need to be constantly convinced to stay in your relationship, it may not be good enough.