Ex-lovers Taylor Swift and Jake Gyllenhaal were seen having a serious conversation at an Oscars after party, according to Digital Spy.  A source told People that the duo was seen at the Vanity Fair after party. “It seemed a bit more serious – it certainly wasn’t a ‘Hi, how are you?’ talk,” the source said. “It seemed like they were catching up, sorting something out.” Gyllenhaal left shortly after the talk while Swift stayed and partied with a few friends.  The former duo broke things off in January.

Should you continue to resolve things after a breakup?

Cupid’s Advice:

Each relationship and breakup should be handled on a case-by-case basis.  Cupid has some situations where you should attempt to resolve your major issues:

1. Coworkers: Nobody likes drama in the workplace.  Do your best to keep things in perspective and work out your issues off the clock.

2. Lots of mutual friends: If you have a good amount of shared friends, then chances are you’ll run into each other a lot.  You’ll need to at least be able to stand seeing each other in public.

3. A close relationship: Chances are that if you’ve been in a long-term relationship and things ended mutually, then you two were best friends and it’s difficult to just cut that person out of your life.