Reality stars Jon and Kate Gosselin are not getting back together, reports People. The pair have been the at the center of tabloid gossip recently, and though rumors suggest the two are back together, sources close to the former couple disagree. “There is absolutely no chance of a reconciliation. They remain civil for the sake of the kids, but that’s it,” said a source close to Kate Gosselin. “It’s frustrating for Kate that people keep making up stories. They have both moved on. Obviously he is the father of her children and that won’t change, but she is feeling very happy about her decisions and situation”

Should you get back together with the father of your children?

Cupid’s Advice:

Though separating from the father of your children can be extremely complicated, it’s important to overlook the negatives and focus only on what’s best for your relationship. Here are a few things to consider:

1. The reasons behind the breakup: Think back and try to remember the reasons for your split.  If you feel you and your ex can work out the issues, then consider getting back together.

3. Your happiness: Make sure that you’re happy in your relationship. Though seeing your family together may be important to you, it’s also important to realize that a good relationship is the focal point of any happy family.

3. Your children: Though being a cohesive family unit would be nice, it’s more important to focus on your children than it is to worry about your broken relationship. Be certain you’re sure about your decision to get back together with your ex before you do it.