By Stephanie Sacco

This season of The Bachelorette has been slow going. Some of the guys have been hesitant to kiss JoJo Fletcher and others haven’t been getting the time they need. In celebrity news, Patti Stanger of Millionaire Matchmaker had something to say to them. According to UsMagazine.com, she says when it comes to kissing, “Take her hair, throw her against the wall and give her a big one! What is the problem? You’re a man. Go in there and grab your wench.” Stanger doesn’t have patience for shy guys. Her top three dating advice tips are: Don’t talk about your exes, don’t be a sloppy drunk and make sure to say please and thank you.

In celebrity news, Patti Stanger says the first kiss is super important. What are some things you can learn from a first kiss?

Cupid’s Advice:

Kissing is the first step to finding a romantic connection. It can create the spark between you and your partner. Cupid is here to help you find it:

1. If there’s a connection: When the two of you decide in the moment that it’s right to kiss, you can see if there’s a connection between you. The first kiss can make or break a relationship. Take your time and really build up to it, but only if you feel something real.

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2. If he’s boyfriend material: If he kisses you softly and romantically, you know he’s more than just a fling. The way he kisses helps you to figure out where the relationship is going. The way he pulls away can also help you to understand how he’s feeling.

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3. If he’s going to kiss you again: If the first kiss is good, there’s almost certainly going to be a second. You can really get a sense for your man based on how often he wants to kiss you. Let the first lead the way to many more.

What have you learned since your first kiss? Comment below!