Dating & Technology Q&A: My Partner Fishes For Likes, What Do I Do?

Question from Carolyn S.: I’ve been with my partner for a long time now. I love him, but he’s always posting inappropriate stuff (like memes or outrageous status updates) on social media for likes. It’s pretty cringe-worthy to watch. Why does he do this? And why is my support not enough? I can’t figure out why he needs validation from his peers or strangers online.

Dating in the era of social media can put a strain on relationships, especially when one party is constantly seeking approval in a negative way. However do not fret, crude internet personas should not be the cause of your breakup (or at least hopefully)! Leave it up to our relationship experts who can offer their best dating advice on using technology the right way. Learn valuable dating tips from Cupid’s very own, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and relationship expert Robert Manni. Here they’ll answer your questions on how to handle a partner’s inappropriate behavior online.

Technology Dating Advice That Will Help You Deal An Inappropriate Partner Online

Suzanne K. Oshima, Matchmaker: Remember back in high school, how everyone wanted to be the most popular person in school? The one that everyone liked? Well, this is no different. Your partner continually posting on social media is just to get likes and attention from others. While you may think it’s inappropriate, I’m going to guess that this isn’t something that he was doing before you became a couple. So, as long as it’s not harming you or anyone else, don’t try to change him. Just let it go and focus on more important things in the relationship.

Robert Manni, Guy’s Guy: As long as he is only fishing for likes and not other fish, I wouldn’t be overly concerned about this fairly common social media behavior. Maybe he feels like he needs validation, and for whatever reason maybe he feels he’s not getting the validation he needs at home. A heart to heart conversation usually clarifies underlying relationship issues. Have “the talk” and make sure he shows up with an open mind. Good luck.

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Dating Advice: 5 Signs He’s Falling for You!

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Tinzley Bradford to offer their dating advice on how to figure out if he’s fallen for you. Discover how you’ve become irresistible to your man with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find Out If Your Guy Has Fallen In Love

1. When he shows you he cares. You know a man is falling for you when he makes sure you know he was thinking about you. Whether it was a good morning text or a phone call later in the day, he puts in effort to show you he cares. So bask in the attention he’s giving you, it’ll feel nice.

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2. He vocalizes his feelings. And you know for sure he’s falling for you when he takes the time to say that he is. A man that isn’t afraid to open up and show his vulnerable side is someone that’s worth holding on to. However, you also need to make sure his actions also match his words.

3. He’ll remember little details. It’s a great sign when he shows that he listens to you. You need to appreciate the effort a man puts into committing aspects of your life to memory. He wouldn’t be doing that if you meant nothing to him. Aside from that, he also wants to impress you by showing he remembers.

4. People in his circle know you. A man is not going to introduce you to his family and friends if he doesn’t like you. So take note if the people in his life know about you, or if he’s making it a point to invite you to social events. If he wants the world to know that you’re both an item, then he’s definitely fallen for you.

5. He’s talking about marriage. If you hear him talking about marriage after spending some time together, then he’s fallen for you. Men don’t have these serious conversations with just anyone. He’s having these talks with you because he’s picking your brain and making preparations for a future.

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Dating Advice: The One Thing Men Want More Than Sex!

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Jed Diamond to offer their dating advice on how to figure out what men want in a relationship more than sex. Learn how you can attract and satisfy a lifelong partner with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Reveal What Men Really Want

1. Want a safe harbor. Living in the world can be tough. It can be competitive and stressful. This is what makes men want security in a relationship. More than anything else, a man wants to be nurtured and taken care of physically and emotionally. So give your man the same love you want to feel.

2. Show him acceptance. A man doesn’t want to be criticized all the time and feel like he’s not enough for you. Constant nagging and asking for change is a form of rejection. So make sure your words are constructive, and let your man know you appreciate him for the person that he is, flaws and all.

3. Be able to love yourself. Oftentimes, people go into relationships with baggage. This is especially true when it comes to women. If you want to have a successful relationship, you need to know how to leave a painful past behind you. A man wants to support you, but he won’t be able to if you have walls built up.

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Dating Advice: What You Don’t Know About Men!

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Robert Manni to offer their dating advice on how to figure out what men do and don’t want in a partner. Learn how you can attract a lifelong partner with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Reveal Male Secrets

1. Want you to win. Men want to see women actualize their dreams in personal and professional settings. They’re supportive and want their partner to be happy when it comes to love. Don’t be misled by aloof behavior. If you’re both in a committed relationship, he cares about you more than you realize.

2. Sports win their heart. You can really get to know a guy when it comes to sports. Most men are interested in some type of sport, so get involved in his interests if you also like sports. If you can’t bring yourself to enjoy sports, then give him time to engage in his own sport-like hobbies. Don’t limit him from things that bring him joy.

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3. Guys can’t read signals. More often than not, men are blindsided by breakups. The reason for this, men are bad at reading signals of a strained relationship. Men aren’t mind readers, so if you’re unhappy, you need to express this at some point. This way your man can work with you to fix the problems you’re experiencing.

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Dating Advice: How to Manifest Your Man (A Man’s Perspective)

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert PJ Dixon to offer their dating advice on how to manifest a man’s potential. Learn how you can find yourself with a lifelong partner with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice On Getting The Most Out Of Your Man

1. Identify your best qualities. First and foremost, you need to be confident and comfortable in your own skin before you pursue a relationship. When you’re in touch with your best qualities, you put your foot forward with a smile on you face. This way you’ll attract the right man and be able to recognize the traits you want them to have in common with you.

2. Identify your ‘two top threes.’ Make a list of your absolute “must have” qualities, and another list of the things you won’t ever accept. Each list should be narrowed down to the three most important traits you’re looking for in a mate. Try to center your lists around aspects that move you emotionally, rather than the superficial: “I want someone tall, dark and handsome.”

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3. Identify your areas of improvement. Take time to critique yourself and find traits that can make you a better match for your partner. It’s easy to name all the qualities you want in a man, but it can be difficult to admit you’re lacking in an aspect of your relationship. If your man has an interest you’re not involved in, make an effort to connect with him. If you have jealousy or trust issues, find ways to healthily cope. Become the ideal woman for your man!

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Dating Advice: How to Answer ‘Why Are You Still Single?’

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Duana Welch to offer their dating advice on how to handle the difficult question: “Why are you single?” Learn how you can answer this inquiry in a smart way with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice On Handling Questions About Your Single Status

1. Explain your position. If the question offends you, you can tell the asker you don’t like being asked this and why. Or another option you can try is being honest about why you’re single in a way that’s lighthearted. “My man-picker is broken,” “I’m in a relationship with chocolate,” or “I’m in a relationship with myself” are all nice ways you can answer this question without adding awkward tension.

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2. Consider before you speak. Yes, this question is loaded and invasive, but it’s also important that you know the asker’s intent before answering. Are they being snarky? Or are they showing sincere concern? If they’re not asking from a place of love, then you can respond to their inquiry as respectfully as possible and redirect the conversation back on them. No need for drama.

3. Use your own dating service. If the person who asked you this question actually cares about your single status, you can turn this around by using their network. Tell them you’re not sure why you’re single and ask if they want to help you. This could potentially get you a date with someone special. People love being matchmakers, so enlist their help if you trust them.

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Dating & Technology Q&A: How Do You Handle Dating Someone With An Internet Persona?

Question from Shan G.: My boyfriend is very popular online. He has a Youtube channel, many subscribers and followers, and a very active social media presence. Our relationship is still new, but I’m not sure how to handle this all. It almost feels like I’m dating a celebrity, and that I’m not on his level. I’m not sure what I should do.

Dating in the era of social media can put a strain on relationships, especially when one party happens to be a popular figure online. But don’t let internet fame damage what you have! Leave it up to our relationship experts who can offer their best dating advice on using technology the right way. Learn valuable dating tips from Cupid’s very own, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and relationship expert Robert Manni. Here they’ll answer your questions on how to handle a partner’s online persona.

Technology Dating Advice That Will Help You Deal With Your Partner’s Online Popularity

Suzanne K. Oshima, Matchmaker: What should you do? Absolutely nothing! Don’t treat him any differently or put him on a pedestal. He’s just your boyfriend, who happens to be an internet celebrity. Trust me, he doesn’t want a girlfriend who is also an internet celebrity, he wants you. Have confidence in yourself and just keep being the best version of yourself… the one that attracted him to you in the first place.

Robert Manni, Guy’s Guy: As a published author, syndicated blogger, and podcaster with a growing audience on social media, I assure you that developing a social media platform is hard work and initially, not necessarily profitable. Building a personal “brand” requires passion, talent, and lots of time. So unless your guy has an inflated ego I doubt he feels superior. In fact, he may even harbor his own insecurities about his career and bank account relative to your own if you work in a traditional job. If you believe in him, support his dream, enjoy the ride, but never doubt your self worth. I assure you that if he has a good head on his shoulders, he needs you and values your support.

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Dating Advice: 5 Things He Must Have

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Tinzley Bradford to offer their dating advice on what it is that a man needs to have before you attempt a relationship with them. Learn how you can win the right man over and stay happy with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find A Quality Man Without Settling

1. Must have vision. A man must be able to see a future with you for the relationship to get serious. Someone who can’t imagine themselves with you long-term isn’t the right person for you. Commitment is a goal you should both share and work toward. If there’s no common vision, then what’s the point?

2. Must have a job. Any potential mate should have had a stable job at some point in their life. If you end up with a man who is inconsistently employed, then this can be a telltale sign of what the relationship could be like. You don’t want to worry about your partner all the time, so find someone who can take care of their self.

3. Must have transportation. Depending on whether you live in a place that has reliable public transportation or not, you need to consider how important it is to you that a man have a car. It might be a red flag if he depends on you to take him places and run errands all the time. If a man doesn’t have a car or license, it’s at least important that he’s responsible enough to arrange transportation when needed.

4. Must have positivity. A quality man should have confidence, morals and be respectful towards you. If he has issues with people around him like family or friends, that could be a red flag that there is something wrong with his attitude. Don’t settle for someone who exudes negativity or has other bad traits.

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5. Must have something going for him. You should find a man who has a hobby that keeps him busy. Someone that is clingy and has no interests is a person that will get bored and try to bring you down when you’re not paying attention to them. Your mate needs to support your passion and vice versa for a successful relationship.

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Dating Advice: Who Should Pay For a First Date?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Robert Manni to offer their dating advice on who should be paying for first date activities. Learn how you can handle this delicate situation with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Determine Who Pays On First Dates

1. Whoever asked first. It can go either way nowadays, but the person who made the first move and asked for the date should be the one to pay. And since men are usually the ones to ask for a date, the responsibility of paying tends to fall on them. It’s also a nice touch if a guy picks up the check on the first date for first impression purposes.

2. Give and take. If you feel uncomfortable letting a man pay on a first date, then make attempts to contribute in some way. Picking up the tab on a glass of wine or treating a guy to movie tickets are nice ways to get equal footing in a new relationship. This sets precedent on how payment will be handled on future dates without the awkward “who pays” discussion.

3. Be thankful. Nobody wants to feel taken advantage of, so say thank you after someone takes you out on a date. Men in particular get frustrated when women expect to be taken out and aren’t appreciative. So mind your manners and show you’re grateful when taken out. The same applies when a man doesn’t show appreciation after you pay for a date. If he can’t say thank you, you don’t have to be with him.

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Dating Advice: The Biggest Turn On’s for a Man

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert PJ Dixon to offer their dating advice on what turns a man on. Learn how to attract the man of your dreams and keep him interested with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Figure Out When To Settle Down With A Man You Like!

1. Flirting. This tip seems a little basic, but don’t be afraid to flirt. It makes a man feel good and shows him it’s okay to approach you in that way. Just think of how flattered you are when someone flirts with you. Return the favor and flirt with a man you’re truly interested in. If you don’t make the move, someone else will.

2. Sexuality. A man is attracted to someone who is confident in their sexuality. The woman who can exude her sensuality is sure to turn a man on. This factor is important for a man not because they’re shallow, but because a man wants to know that intimacy is on the table if he chooses to pursue a relationship with you.

3. Softness. Men are conditioned to be strong, so they appreciate when a woman is gentle and loving towards them. This helps a man open up to you and makes him want to be with you. Softness shows that he can trust you. So let your feminine energy flow and be open to holding your man the same way you like to be held.

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Dating Advice: How Long Should You Date Around, After You Meet a Man You Like?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Duana Welch to offer their dating advice on when is the right time to stop dating around after finding a man you like. Learn how to win over the man of your dreams and keep him interested with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Figure Out When To Settle Down With A Man You Like!

1. Note how you get involved. Are you mutually committed to each other? This doesn’t just mean making a verbal commitment. Take note of how close you both feel to each other and how much time you actually spend together. Eventually, it will click that the relationship should become exclusive. Just be careful when it comes to rushing commitment, it confuses men, so wait for him to show interest.

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2. Lay the truth out there. If you want to continue dating other people after finding someone you like, be honest with all your dates. Let them know that you’re dating around and looking for a partner you can commit to. Laying out the truth gives you more leverage and keeps you from looking desperate. Hopefully the man you like returns your feelings and makes a move to advance the relationship. Men are hunters at heart, they want to earn your affection and beat out competition.

3. Don’t shackle him. Going off of the last dating tip, don’t try to force a man to be with you. Ultimatums don’t work, and neither does manipulation. Both will backfire on you in the end. A man needs to freely offer himself to you to truly be yours. So be yourself and keep dating around until you find a man that wants to be with you for the person that you are. A man who won’t put in effort isn’t the right man for you.

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Dating & Relationship Q&A: At My Wits End, He Won’t Stop Flirting Online. Should I End It?

Question from Ashley M.: I have been with my guy for over seventeen years, we’re both flirty people, but as of lately he’s crossed a line with a particular person. I’ve warned him and have had discussions about this person he swear is only a friend, but the same thing keeps happening. I’ve offered him a way out, but he insists that he wants to stay together. I’m not a super jealous person, but I don’t want to be disrespected. We’re trying to save what we have.

Dating can have its trying moments. Add the internet, social media and electronic devices into the mix, and temptation can creep into your relationship. However, do not fret! Leave it up to our relationship experts who can offer their best dating advice on using technology the right way. Technology is here to stay, after all, so take advantage of these amazing tools! Learn valuable dating tips from Cupid’s very own, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and relationship expert Robert Manni. Here they’ll answer your questions on how to handle a partner’s online flirting.

Technology Dating Advice That Will Help You Deal With Your Partner’s Online Flirting

Suzanne K. Oshima, Matchmaker: When you’ve been with someone for a long time, sometimes the relationship may lose the spark and excitement it once had. Which may cause one person to seek out the thrill of attention from the opposite sex outside the relationship, while still maintaining the security of your relationship. Try to revive and spice up your relationship with flirtations and sexy moves in the bedroom, so he won’t feel the need to seek attention elsewhere. If he continues with his behavior with his “friend,” then it may be time to try working with a relationship coach who can help you work through the issues at hand. And if that fails, then it may be time to move on to a man who only wants to flirt and be with you.

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Robert Manni, Guy’s Guy: It’s time for “the talk”. Seventeen years is a long time, so there must be a strong bond. But, over time little things become big things when they’re not addressed. You say he’s crossed the line and you feel disrespected. He says she’s only a friend and he wants to stay together. Something has to give. I say tell him to get his priorities in order. That means saying goodbye to her and paying attention to you. If he balks or shows any sign of hesitation, it’s time to respect yourself and let him go.

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Dating Advice: 3 Dating Red Flags

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Joe Amoia to offer their dating advice on how you can spot red flags on the dating scene. Find out how you can score the man of your dreams and avoid the bad apples with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You See The Red Flags!

1. Be crystal clear. You need to know exactly what you need and want in a relationship. This way you’ll be able to see the traits and values that don’t align with your lifestyle, and will be able to steer away from those who exhibit those very things you don’t like. You shouldn’t compromise your essential needs, so be honest with a man upfront. If you don’t tell him, he won’t give you what you need, so be open and consistent.

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2. Observe him. From the very first date, you should take a good look at the man’s attitude. Watch how he not only interacts with you, but also how he treats other people- like the wait staff for example if you’re at a restaurant. If he is condescending and rude, then that’s a huge red flag because eventually it will catch up to you. Also take note of his past relationships. If family and friends don’t want to be around him, that should tell you something.

3. Man vs. Boy. Don’t get swayed by presents and sweet words if you sense red flags from your date. A boy will throw a tantrum and be manipulative to get what he wants, while a man accepts what he is given. If at any point you feel that you’re being for sex or something else you don’t want to do, then chances are you’re dealing with a boy. Find a man who already has integrity, you can’t teach an old dog new tricks.

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Dating Advice Q&A: Am I His Catfish?

Tammy J.: The guy I’ve been seeing is nice, but I’m not sure if he’s really “into” me. He’s also distant and secretive so that makes me anxious. He hasn’t gone public with our relationship online but he sends pictures of us to his mother. I want to think this is a good thing, but it kind of feels like he’s using me. Could he be catfishing his mom? We haven’t officially called each other boyfriend/girlfriend, but I think that’s what he’s been telling his mom otherwise.

Dating has always been complicated. Add the internet, social media and electronic devices into the mix, and it can get confusing real fast. However, do not fret. Leave it up to our relationship experts who can offer their best dating advice on using technology to navigate your relationships. Technology is here to stay, after all, so take advantage of these amazing tools! Learn valuable dating tips from Cupid’s very own, matchmaker Suzanne Oshima and relationship expert Robert Manni. Here they’ll answer your questions on determining whether someone is using you as their catfish.

Technology Dating Advice That Will Help You Find A Catfish

Suzanne K. Oshima, Matchmaker: It’s time for you to first get clear on what you want and need in a relationship. Once you’re clear, then you need to evaluate whether he’s meeting your needs. If he is, then just share with him that you’re confused as to what you are to him, and just let him clarify things for you. If he’s not what you want or need in a relationship, then it’s time for you to move on to a guy who is into you and is proud to declare you his girlfriend to everyone.

Robert Manni, Guy’s Guy: Unless you know your guy and his mom well, it’s not easy to have a clear picture of their relationship. So, instead of focusing on something you have no control over, have a chat with him about your relationship. Since you are not sure where this new “relationship” stands, this is a good time to ask him where he sees things going with you. Don’t pressure him, but get to the heart of the matter. If he’s into you, he’ll let you know. If he wavers or his responses are vague, you might want to reconsider where you’re investing your emotions. I doubt you want to be with someone who does not feel the same way about you.

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Dating Advice: What Attracts a Man?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Cyndi Olin to offer their dating advice on how you can effectively attract a man. Find out how you can score the man of your dreams with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Attract A Man!

1. Appearance. Yes, men are visual- but it’s not always about how you physically look. They care about how your attitude appears too. Men are attracted to positive energy, they want to see you smile and be happy. Nobody wants to be with someone who hates life. If you’re currently working on your appearance, you should still date and attract men with your personality.

2. Happiness. This goes along with the prior tip, but to elaborate- you shouldn’t stop at only appearing to be happy. It’s important that you actually are. Think about how pleasant you are when you’re on a first date trying to make a good first impression. You need to carry this attitude into a relationship instead of getting comfortable and complaining all the time.

3. Authenticity. Be who you are. The right people will be attracted to your authentic self. For this to happen, you need to know who you really are, your likes, dislikes and so much more. If you’re faking what you want, you’ll attract the wrong man. So save yourself and potential suitors time and be real. You’ll be surprised at how many men will like what you have to offer.

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Dating Advice: How to Get Men to Fall into Your Lap

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Jaki Sabourin to offer their dating advice on the best ways to make a man fall in love with you. Find out how you can make yourself irresistible to the opposite sex with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Make A Man Fall Right Into Your Lap!

1. Smile. This tip seems obvious, but it’s often forgotten. The best way to attract a man is through smiling. It shows that you’re approachable and enjoy life. Men like women who look happy, so work on your RBF if you can, and invite a man into your life with those pearly whites.

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2. Vulnerability. Men like to help women, it’s in their nature. So ask for assistance from time to time instead of doing everything yourself. Showing your vulnerability is endearing and offers a place for a man in your life. You don’t have to ask for anything big, it’s as simple as asking a man to pick something heavy up for you.

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3. Tension. Don’t become clingy. Create some tension by allowing a man to enter “pursue” mode. He needs to miss you and make an effort to see you. If you’re too available, it can be a turn off. So make time for other hobbies and don’t overshare. Men like a good mystery, it’s sexy- so give it to him!

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Dating Advice: Find True Love After 40

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Michelle Marchant Johnson to offer their best dating advice for true love after 40. Find out why it’s easier to find love later in life and how you can find the man or woman of your dreams with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find Love After 40!

1. Know yourself. It all starts with confidence. Women and men over 40 have established their identity. Having that inner knowledge of yourself will help you find long lasting love and a quality partner. These things just come with age, so don’t fret if you meet someone later in life.

2. Know wants. The same way you get to know yourself better later in life, you find out what you need most through experience. People who are age 40 and older just make wiser decisions. Prior relationships also help you figure out how to best deal with others.

3. Know tech. It’s easier than ever for people over 40 to meet and connect. The internet and electronic devices are tools that help bring singles together. Those in this age bracket can take advantage of these mediums to find love. If you’re not familiar with tech, you should take time to learn.

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Dating Advice: The Girl He Won’t Bring Home to Mom…

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Nick Karson to offer their best dating advice on what to do when a man won’t take you home to meet his mother. Find out the reasons why men hide women, and learn how you can prevent this situation from happening to you with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Meet His Mom

1. Easy. If you haven’t made a man earn your body, this will get you added to the booty-call list. Women who give up the “goods” easily are less likely to meet mom and other family members. A man takes a woman he genuinely likes and sees a future with back home. Give a man the thrill of a chase if you want him to take you seriously.

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2. Crude. Being yourself is important, but don’t get too comfortable right away. Being crude, swearing and general messiness can repel a man and make him not want to introduce you to his mother. Take time to get to know him before you drop F-bombs and risque jokes. You have no control on how these factors will be perceived.

3. Aggressive. Men don’t like seeing women with bad attitudes or mean personalities. If a man wants to sleep with you, then he’ll put up with the unpleasantness, but if he is looking for something serious then he won’t tolerate it. Women who are “bitchy” don’t get to meet mom, so be careful with this- and just be a nice person.

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Dating Advice: Are You Intimidating Men?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Wendy Newman to offer their best dating advice on how to attract a man. Learn how you can be intimidating to men and how you can prevent these behaviors in the dating scene. Here are three great ways to improve your love life with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Be Less Intimidating

1. Saying “I got this.” Being independent is a good thing, but waving your self-sufficiency in front of a man’s face shows that you don’t need them. A man wants to feel needed, like he has a place in your life and can take care of you. Let him pay for a meal, pull out your chair and help you with errands.

2. Not having a place. Men like to provide, it’s in their nature. Find a way to let a man contribute to your life, whether it be as a breadwinner or confidant. If you show any sign that you don’t have a place for a man in your life, any potential partner will lose interest. Show him that you want him as much as you want him to want you.

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3. Don’t be demanding. Sure, a man wants to feel wanted and needed, but he also doesn’t want to be treated like a slave. Make sure you’re not too demanding or asking for help all the time. You want to be high performance, not high maintenance. A man wants to be satisfied, not overwhelmed by upkeep.

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Dating Advice: 3 Ways To Be Irresistible To a Man

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Cyndi Olin to offer their best dating advice on how to attract a man. Learn how you can become irresistible to a man and great ways to improve your love life with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Make You Desirable!

1. Be happy. Learn how to smile! Nobody wants to be around a “Debbie Downer.” Don’t let sadness get in the way of your dating life. Men like happy women, they want to be a part of positive energy and make a woman happier. At least a man that desires a healthy relationship will want to do these things.

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2. Be confident. Men love seeing an independent and confident woman. You don’t need to be a damsel in distress all the time, it’s not really sexy and can actually be scary- which will ultimately repel a man. The women that have a good head on their shoulders are the ones who attract quality men.

3. Be present. Stay “in the moment” when you’re on a date. Don’t daydream about a future that doesn’t exist. Be attentive and engaging. Also try to avoid thinking of the past, it’s a sure way to sabotage a good moment. It’s also a good idea to put your cell phone away. Being present automatically makes you irresistible to a man.

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Dating Advice: Manifesting the Right Man?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Jaki Sabourin to offer their best dating advice for those trying to find love. Learn how you can improve your relationships by “manifesting a man” with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find A Man!

1. Find clarity. You need to address what you want and why. By evaluating your needs and wants, you’ll be able to narrow down your list of potential partners. You don’t want to waste time or send mixed messages while you’re dating. A great way to clarify your desires is by cultivating those traits in yourself, which will in turn attract and manifest in a man.

2. Thoughts, words and deeds (a creation trilogy). The best way to find a quality man is by having a positive attitude. You need to be consistent in your thinking, wording and actions. If you have doubt or tell your friends that there’s “no good men out there” while you’re dating, that is just setting yourself up for disaster. By making sure everything you do is in alignment, you’ll attract a great man.

3. Commit. Don’t give up if things aren’t going according to plan. Love doesn’t happen overnight. You need to put in the time and effort to find someone, especially if you’re trying your hand at online dating. Checking out of the process simply because you’re upset is a terrible thing to do. Give yourself a year at least to improve your dating skills. You need to evolve in order to find a man worthy of manifesting.

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Dating Advice: How to Avoid Holiday Weight Gain!

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert and fitness guru Tracy Campoli to offer their best dating advice for those trying to maintain their weight during the holidays. Learn how you can stay fit this Valentine’s Day with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find Love Online

1. Start off right. Eat a healthy breakfast, it’s the best way to start off the day. You’ll feel good throughout the day if you eat something nutritious. This way you’ll crave healthier food for the rest of the day.

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2. Calm down. Don’t freak out if you notice you’ve gained some weight. You’re busy and stressed enough, you don’t have to worry about your body too. Take a moment to meditate, and don’t be afraid to reject unhealthy food.

3. Mark calendars. Write down the time you want to dedicate towards working out. Putting it down on paper will make you accountable. Be realistic with your fitness goals also, you’re not going to work out extra during a busy holiday schedule.

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Dating Advice: How To Handle a Bad Date?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Jen Kelton to offer their best dating advice for those who have experienced disastrous dates. Learn how you should handle a bad date with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find Love Online

1. Go offline. Screen your potential date, especially if it’s someone you’ve met online. Make a point to communicate with them offline, either through phone call, video chat, or text. From the conversations you have, evaluate whether it’s a good idea to meet this person face-to-face.

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2. Be polite. Make a graceful exit if you’re having a bad date. You don’t really know this person or what they’re capable of, so don’t make a scene. Just quietly run for the hills. You also want to be polite because you wouldn’t appreciate it if someone was rude to you after a poor date. Be candid, don’t waste their time.

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3. Say something. If you’re upset or uncomfortable with something that is going on during a date, bring it to their attention. Make sure you’re not chastising your date, use humor if you have to- but don’t sit there unsatisfied if your date is neglectful or rude. If they don’t respect what you have to say, it’s okay to remove yourself from the situation.

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Dating Advice: What Attracts a Man?

On this week’s episode of Single in Stilettos, founder and matchmaker Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship expert Mr. Locario to offer their best dating advice for those looking for love online. Learn how you can improve your chances at finding love with the following dating tips!

Dating Advice That Will Help You Find Love Online

1. Appearances, duh. This shouldn’t be a surprise to anyone, but appearances matter when it comes to attracting a man. You don’t have to look like a super model, just look your best when you go out. When you’re put together, men will notice and gravitate towards you more. Don’t stress yourself out too much.

2. Good attitude. Men like being around people who have pleasant attitudes. Your behavior and energy are definitely analyzed before a man pursues. Even if you reject a man, if you do it nicely- he’ll appreciate that. Nobody wants to be treated badly, especially not in the dating scene.

3. Success is key. Those who are successful and goal-oriented are found very attractive. Men like seeing women have their own hobbies and careers. They’ll want to build with someone who already has things going on in their lives. A good man wants to support, not be relied on completely.

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