By Hope Ankney

In the latest celebrity news, Jon Gosselin has stated he thinks celebrity ex-wife, Kate Gosselin, has changed for the worse after the couple’s fame skyrocketed from Jon and Kate Plus 8. According to UsMagazine.com, Jon expressed his concerns on an upcoming episode of Dr. Oz. Preview clips of the interview feature him stating, “I believe that her belief system is skewed. I believe her intentions, in the beginning, were good intentions. Bringing kids into the world that she fought to have, these kids. But I think once fame and money got involved, it twisted her belief system. On my end, I’ve been fighting to get my kids off TV forever.”

These celebrity exes are still taking digs at each other. What are some ways to keep negativity about your ex out of your life?

Cupid’s Advice:

Sometimes, when it comes to exes, it’s hard to stay on friendly terms. The split is messy. The friend circle is too small. The wounds aren’t easy to heal. If you’re struggling with keeping yourself out of the drama with an ex, don’t worry. Cupid has some relationship advice to help you keep their negativity out of your life:

1. Give a disclaimer to friends: If you and your ex share a friend group, make sure you have a conversation with the friends about how you feel. If you tell them that you’d rather not hear anything about your ex, they’ll more than likely accommodate your request than if you didn’t communicate with them beforehand. It also keeps the peace between the friend circle.

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2. Unfollow them on social media: Negativity seems to follow exes who stalk each other on social media. If you really want to distance yourself from the drama and pessimism that is triggered by an ex, unfollow them or even block them on your social sites. This helps you not be tempted to check their page and sour your mood.

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3. Don’t fan the fire: Most times when an ex is causing negativity in your life, they’re expecting a reaction. Ignoring someone might sound like an obvious piece of advice, but it is important to not allow yourself to give in and snap back. This only causes more drama and makes your ex susceptible to acting out again.

How do you keep the negativity about an ex out of your life? Let us know down below!

By Katie Gray

Kate Gosselin has recently split from her millionaire boyfriend. Post-celebrity break-up, her ex-husband Jon Gosselin slammed the rumors that he was joking about her breakup in a social media post. According to UsMagazine.com, “Amid the news, it was rumored that Jon posted the ‘praising celebration hands’ emoji on his private Facebook page. The dad of eight reveals the incident did happen — but on a fake account.” These celebrity exes have no current relationship and love life and are not on good terms. They split in 2009 and are the parents to eight children, twins Cara and Mady, 14, and 11-year-old sextuplets Aaden, Collin, Hannah, Alexis, Leah, and Joel.

These celebrity exes are definitely not on good terms. What are some ways to remain civil with your ex for the sake of your children?

Cupid’s Advice:

It’s hard to maintain a civil relationship with your ex sometimes, but in circumstances where you are co-parenting it is extremely important to remain on the best of terms as possible for the sake of the children. Cupid has some advice on how to remain civil with your ex for the sake of the children:

1. Don’t talk badly about your ex: It’s important that the children don’t feel torn between their two parents, because they love each of them equally and do not need to pick a side. Don’t talk negatively about your ex in front of your kids. Let the children feel okay to talk about their other parent freely, without them feeling guilty for doing so. Keep a united front!

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2. Maintain a schedule: Kids need a healthy balance to maintain a happy childhood. The key aspect is to maintain a schedule and keep that pattern. Children do well with stability. When the kids are alternating between parent’s homes, keep the schedule the same. Too much inconsistency will put stress on the kids.

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3. Stick to your rules: Sometimes parents try to come up with the same set of rules to have your children follow, even when you are split up. This is great if it is doable. If not, just have your children stick to your rules when they are with you and they can follow the other parent’s rules when they are with them. Experts say that children have the ability to adapt to this, it really isn’t an issue if you and your ex can’t come to the same terms – so don’t worry about it!

How have you and your ex remained civil for the sake of your children? Let us know below.

By Courtney Omernick

No one ever said that getting a divorce is fun, but imagine your divorce being in every magazine and broadcast all over the television on the evening news. With the stress and pressures that Hollywood brings, it’s no wonder so many star’s marriages are over before they even started. Below are five of the nastiest celebrity divorces thus far.

1. Jon and Kate Gosselin: It seems the couple was getting ready for a divorce within a few months of America meeting their eight children. Kate ended up accusing Jon of taking $230,000 of the $231,000 they had in their joint bank account. Jon denied Kate’s claims stating that he only took $22,000 and that Kate is “hiding money.” For this couple, there were multiple accusations followed by a denial, then a rebuttal.

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2. Denise Richards and Charlie Sheen: The breakup of this power couple was one of the ugliest Hollywood has ever seen! After three years of marriage, Richards filed for divorce in 2005 stating that Sheen was unfaithful, abusive, and addicted to prostitutes. Soon after, Sheen told Richards to “rot in ******* hell” and called her a “sad, jobless ****.”

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3. Christie Brinkley and Peter Cook: After almost 10 years of marriage, Brinkley filed for divorce after learning that Cook had an affair with his 18-year-old assistant, Diana Bianchi. During the divorce trail, there were accusations that Brinkley raided Cook’s office, scratched his face out of family photos, and copied his hard drive. Brinkley ended up paying Cook $2 million, but she got to keep her 18 properties and was given custody of their two children.

4. Liza Minnelli and David Guest: These stars were married less than two years before Guest sued Minnelli for $10 million claiming that his wife beat him so badly during rages (spurred by alcohol) that he had suffered neurological damage and had to be hospitalized. From there, Minnelli countersued and accused Guest of stealing $2 million while he produced her shows. Over the next few years, more allegations surfaced, and the pair decided to call it quits in 2007.

5. Britney Spears and Kevin Federline: While the divorce itself wasn’t so much of a disaster, the custody battle was unbearable. Spears’s breakdown involving Kevin and their two sons, Sean Preston and Jayden James happened in January 2008 when she refused to turn the boys over to Federline for a scheduled visitation. Spears ended up hiding the boys in her home for four hours until police physically removed her and put her into a medical center.

What are some other nasty celebrity divorces? Share in the comments!

By Gabriela Robles

Over three years ago, Kate Gosselin and Jon Gosselin’s marriage untangled and left a bitter taste in the ex-couples mouths. The two were most known for their TLC hit, Jon and Kate Plus Eight, but now that program seems to be ancient history. According to UsMagazine.com when Kate went on Bethenny Frankel’s talk show, she was asked if she still was in love with Jon, to which Kate responded, “Somebody once told me that if you feel sadness and empathy and pity for someone the root of that is love. I feel like the person that I married nearly overnight was not that person anymore.”

What are some ways to keep things civil with your ex?

Cupid’s Advice:

When you end things on bad terms, it doesn’t necessarily mean that you won’t ever see them again. You have to keep yourselves somewhat composed and realize that you’ve both changed and aren’t going in the same direction. Cupid has some advice to how to keep things civil if you are faced with the mention of your ex:

1. Keep calm, cool, and collected: Remember that you are different. Some time has passed and you’re put in a situation where your ex is either in front of you or someone brings him up. Instead of getting upset or angry, take a deep breath. Don’t let old feelings bother you.

2. Look at the big picture: You have to keep your mind in check that you’re different from where you were. There are bigger things in your life than what happened with your ex — better things. Keep things in perspective and you’ll be happy you did.

3. Let it go: Releasing your own harsh feelings from your ex will not only make you feel better emotionally, but it’ll take a huge weight off your shoulders. You’ll feel more comfortable when he’s in sight and you’ll feel freer when he’s out of sight.

What are some ways you kept things civil with your ex?  Share with us in the comments below.

By April Littleton

According to People, Kate Gosselin filed a lawsuit accusing her ex-husband Jon Gosselin of stealing her hard drive and hacking into her computer and phone in order to get information for a tell-all book. The book in question is titled Kate Gosselin: How She Fooled the World. It has since been pulled from Amazon since the information was obtained illegally. The former couple starred in Jon and Kate Plus 8 together before separating in 2009 and eventually divorcing.

How do you remain civil after a divorce for your children?

Cupid’s Advice:

Going through a divorce is difficult, especially when kids are involved. Just because you and your ex are going your separate ways doesn’t mean you won’t be in each other’s lives. You’ll have to find a way to communicate well with one another for the sake of the children. Cupid has some advice:

1. Stay out of each other’s private lives: The worst thing you can do is continue to meddle in your ex-husband/wife’s business. What they choose to do with their free time is no longer a concern of yours. You shouldn’t know who he/she is dating and the same goes for them about you. Don’t ask your children for any information either. They shouldn’t be put in the middle of what’s going on between you and your former spouse.

2. Communicate: Talk to your ex with respect. Don’t talk to him/her about anything personal. Keep the conversation focused on your kids. You’ll need to be able to work out a visiting schedule without arguments or other distractions getting in the way. Of course, you’ll disagree with each other, but listen to what the other has to say. At the end of the day, you’re both just trying to do what’s right for the little ones.

3. Space: Once you’ve worked out everything involving the kids, you’ll want to give each other space. There’s no reason for the two of you to remain in close contact right after the divorce. Both of you are angry, hurt and probably resentful. Take the time to let those negative feelings subside before you decide to talk on a regular basis.

How did you remain civil after a divorce? Share your experience below.

By Courtney Allen

In wonderful world of Hollywood, maintaining both a long-lasting relationship and a fast-paced career is evidently a huge challenge. The jam-packed schedules and non-stop tabloid mania in the everyday lives of celebrities leaves us constantly wondering when the next split will be–the fact they are going to happen is a guarantee. Nasty rumors of deceit, unexpected flings with co-stars and stress from an intense life can make stardom a celebrity couple’s worst enemy. Unfortunately for these five celebrity duos, losing their battle to fame proved inevitable:

1. Kate and Jon Gosselin: Jon and Kate Gosselin first captured our hearts with their hit TLC show, Jon and Kate Plus Eight, which documented their hectic life as parents of sassy-yet-sweet twin girls and a set of adorable sextuplets. The Gosselins graced our television screens for seven seasons as they traveled the globe as a family, while we all hoped their marriage wouldn’t end like many of the reality star relationships that preceded them. But Jon and Kate proved no different as the show slowly revealed Kate’s exploding temper and ego while the tabloids unraveled Jon’s late-night getaways with other women. Years later, the two had one of the most public divorces in Hollywood.

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2. Rihanna and Chris Brown: Rihanna and Chris Brown shocked the world when their relationship began in 2008. In our minds, the singers couldn’t be a more perfect match, as they’re two beautiful and unique voices with stunningly-good looks. Things quickly changed after an incident in 2009 in which Brown allegedly assaulted the female pop star. The two have made amends since then and rumors of a new relationship have spread, especially after the recent release of their song, “Birthday Cake (Remix).” But due to their long-lasting tabloid presence and heated past, we can’t help but think that a second try will end in disaster.

3. Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt: The split between Friends star Jennifer Aniston and Brad Pitt, her “Mr. Perfect,” was by far the most controversial divorces in the history of Hollywood. With Aniston’s glowing skin and Pitt’s captivating eyes, they always had America’s attention. It wasn’t until the 2004 production of Mr. and Mrs. Smith that things seemed to get off track. Pitt quickly fell in love with co-star Angelina Jolie while filming the movie, leaving him and Aniston’s happily ever after in the dust as rumors swirled of an affair. Jen filed for divorce in 2005 and Pitt almost immediately began dating Jolie. Now called “Brangelina,” the couple has six kids and have made their mark as one of the most powerful couples in Hollywood.

4. Kim Kardashian and Reggie Bush: Kim Kardashian bared it all for her E! show Keeping Up With the Kardashians, including her relationship with NFL star Reggie Bush. The reality show revealed their head-over-heels romance for several seasons. But after their final split, the unfortunate truth was revealed: Kardashian’s stardom was too much for Bush, who never seemed to adjust. Kardashian has since been searching for her fairytale: a guy who accepts both her and her lifestyle. She found love in her marriage to Kris Humphries, but that relationship ended after just 72 days. Now the star is happily dating Kanye West. Thankfully, the socialite seems to be taking her new relationship slow, because if there’s anything Kim has learned, it’s that fame comes at a high price.

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5. Katy Perry and Russel Brand: California girl Katy Perry and British comedian Russell Brand began dating in middle of 2009. The two didn’t waste any time getting serious as news of their engagement hit the headlines by the end of the same year. And in just ten months, the couple was married. The world watched the pop-star and her new hubby closely as we formed our opinions on whether they would last. Fourteen months later, the pair proved all the doubters right. Russell Brand filed for divorce last December, citing irreconcilable differences. But between both of their busy schedules and separated traveling, it’s no wonder the pair couldn’t stand the test of time.

Which celebrity couples do you think have been most hurt by their stardom? Share your thoughts with us!

It’s been two years, but Kate Gosselin still isn’t ready to move on.  Gosselin, 36, revealed that she is lonely and unhappy with her love life on Dr. Drew Wednesday, reports RadarOnline.  Gosselin separated from her now ex-husband Jon Gosselin two years ago, but doesn’t feel the time is right to find the man who would be willing to take on eight kids yet.  “I absolutely [want to find someone]!” said Gosselin.  “The odds are so against me, one mom and eight kids…so it would be great.  I mean, I’m so lonely.  I clean up the house, put the kids to bed and there I sit.  Ideally I would find that person…I don’t know if I feel ready for that.”

How do you get over the feeling of being lonely after a split?

Cupid’s Advice:

Living the single life takes some adjusting to, especially if you’re used to being in a relationship.  Here are a few ways to help you get over your loneliness:

1. Keep busy:  Loneliness really settles in during your extra time.  Staying busy will help keep your mind off of your feelings.  Also, getting out more may be a way for you to meet new people.

2. Call your friends:  A romantic partner isn’t the only person who can make you feel wanted.  Your friends have been supporting you for years and will continue to do so.  Call them up and organize a time to hang out.

3. Avoid routines:  Having a scheduled, routine life will only make you feel lonelier.  Shake things up, and be careful not to live on auto-pilot.  Spontaneity can be a blessing.

How did you comfort yourself after a breakup?  Feel free to leave a comment below.

Kate Gosselin spoke out to People expressing concern about her family life after her show Kate Plus 8 was cancelled, and now her ex, Jon Gosselin, has some harsh pieces of advice for her.  Speaking to RumorFix.com, Jon said, “Reality TV is not a career.  Get back to a normal life — a simple life.”  The bitter exes played out the end of their marriage on TV in in 2009.  Since then, they have quarreled about their kids and the reality TV life they lead.  “Things will work out the way they should work out,” said Jon.  “Obviously, there are families out there that have several kids — people work normal jobs, and things work out.”

How do you make life normal for kids after a divorce?

Cupid’s Advice:

Sometimes when a divorce is sparked by big differences and involves a lot of bitterness, it can be tough to make life normal for your kids during the process.  Cupid has some tips:

1. Establish a routine: One of the best things you can do during your split is to keep a routine for your children.  If things are always up in the air and unstable, it’ll make them uneasy.  Keeping a consistent schedule is reassuring.

2. Be civil to your ex: No matter how bitter your breakup may be, suck it all in while in the presence of your children.  It’s important to portray a united front no matter the circumstances.

3. Keep your differences quiet: Your child’s life won’t be normal if he or she has to decide which side of an argument to believe.  Keep your fights and disagreements behind closed doors so that your children’t aren’t forced to pick favorites.

What are some other ways to keep your child’s life normal during a divorce? Share your thoughts below.

Kate Gosselin has shown us the good, the bad and the ugly parts of her life and now she wants everyone to see she’s doing just fine as a divorced woman taking care of her 8 kids.  “I wouldn’t change my marriage because I have eight awesome kids that I would not change, but people change and they’re not who you thought they were and if they’re not for you, move on.  And I have,” she said, according to People. That’s a winning attitude!  Her show Kate Plus 8 has recently been canceled, but Gosselin continues to maintain that positive attitude and focus on what’s most important, her kids.

Divorce can be tough, but what are its advantages after the fact?

Cupid’s Advice:

Divorce is a difficult thing to go through, but there’s always a light at the end of the tunnel, and Cupid has come up with a few advantages:

1. Happiness: Yes, initially you may be heartbroken, but in the end it’s important to realize that the two of you weren’t happy.  Once you move on, you’ll be happy knowing you ended something that wasn’t going anywhere.

2. Find yourself: One of the best parts of life after divorce is rediscovering what makes you, you.  Whether it’s going back to the hobbies you used to love or jumping back into the dating pool, keeping yourself busy with things you enjoy will remind you that you’re self sufficient.

3. Open to new love: Maybe your idea of a picture perfect marriage didn’t work out as planned, but that doesn’t mean you have to give up.  Now that you’re single, you can find your true soul mate.

What do you think are some advantages of life after divorce?  Share your thoughts below.

Kate Gosselin may have finally found peace with her estranged ex, Jon Gosselin.  The star of Kate Plus 8 told People, “It’s just naturally gotten more peaceful, which is good.”  While Kate, 36, said she’s not dating at the moment, she already has a checklist for her future mate.  “I want somebody who is older, at least in their 40s.  I can’t be bothered with these little boys.”  She added, “I want someone who is strong and smart and driven.  I think those are the best qualities.”

What are the benefits of dating an older man?

Cupid’s Advice:

They say age is nothing but a number, but sometimes there are advantages to being with someone older.  Cupid has some ideas on why you should consider dating outside your age bracket:

1. Maturity: With age comes wisdom, and if you’re sick of dating people with the maturity level of a five-year-old, try going out with someone older.

2. Stability: Older people often have a more stable financial situation and are looking to settle down.  If you’re looking for something permanent and secure, having an older partner may be perfect for you.

3. Children: If you have children like Kate Gosselin does and are looking for someone strong and reliable to be in your children’s lives, being with someone older might be a good idea.

Would you date someone significantly older than you? Share your comments below.

Reality stars Jon and Kate Gosselin are not getting back together, reports People. The pair have been the at the center of tabloid gossip recently, and though rumors suggest the two are back together, sources close to the former couple disagree. “There is absolutely no chance of a reconciliation. They remain civil for the sake of the kids, but that’s it,” said a source close to Kate Gosselin. “It’s frustrating for Kate that people keep making up stories. They have both moved on. Obviously he is the father of her children and that won’t change, but she is feeling very happy about her decisions and situation”

Should you get back together with the father of your children?

Cupid’s Advice:

Though separating from the father of your children can be extremely complicated, it’s important to overlook the negatives and focus only on what’s best for your relationship. Here are a few things to consider:

1. The reasons behind the breakup: Think back and try to remember the reasons for your split.  If you feel you and your ex can work out the issues, then consider getting back together.

3. Your happiness: Make sure that you’re happy in your relationship. Though seeing your family together may be important to you, it’s also important to realize that a good relationship is the focal point of any happy family.

3. Your children: Though being a cohesive family unit would be nice, it’s more important to focus on your children than it is to worry about your broken relationship. Be certain you’re sure about your decision to get back together with your ex before you do it.

Dashing through the snow, Jon Gosselin brought his new girlfriend along as he and his eight kids picked out their Christmas tree this past weekend.  Despite negative criticisms earlier this year, Gosselin has seemed to settle down a bit, and he and Ross are looking forward to making the holidays this year about the kids.  Although Gosselin doesn’t have a huge amount of money to spend on presents for his kids this year, a source told RadarOnline, “He wants to get them gifts that mean something and that tap into their interests.”

What are affordable yet romantic gifts for your partner?

Cupid’s Advice:

Holiday gift shopping can be stressful, especially when you’re on a tight budget.  Cupid has some tips:

1. The enhanced coupon: A coupon for a free back rub maybe too cheesy, but giving your partner his favorite movie along with a coupon for his favorite homemade dinner is personal and special.  You can always make a surprise out of the back rub afterward, too!

2. Utilize the five senses: Pick a small gift to stimulate each of your partner’s senses.  For example, pick up his favorite artist’s new album, one of his favorite snacks and a framed picture of the two of you.  It’s affordable and creative.

3. Exchange promises, not presents: Agree or vow to do something that will improve your relationship together, like setting aside one night a week devoted solely to you as a couple.  It won’t cost you a thing, and will keep giving all year long.

RadarOnline has learned that TLC reality stars Jon Gosselin and Kate Gosselin have come to a custody agreement for their eight children this Thanksgiving.  After a very public divorce, the two have decided that Kate will have the kids on Thanksgiving, while Jon and his girlfriend, Ellen Ross, will celebrate Thanksgiving with the kids on a different day.  While no agreement has been set on how the divided family will spend Christmas, a similar arrangement may follow.

What are ways to make the holidays enjoyable after a divorce?

Cupid’s Advice:

Dueling parents is no way to celebrate the holidays, especially with young ones around.  As difficult as it may be, putting aside your differences for a few days will do everyone good in the long run:

1. Make a schedule: One of the best and easiest ways to avoid fights on the holidays is to make a schedule.  One parent gets the kids one year and the other gets the kids the following year.  It’s not an ideal situation, but it’s better than holiday drama.

2. Rotate: Split up the time by day.  Perhaps one parent will always see the children on Christmas Eve while the other parent gets Christmas Day.  Make it clear that Santa Claus makes exceptions and may come more than one day in their situation!

3. Look to the future: In a few years, the kids will be grown and what will have become your holiday routine will slowly disappear.  When the kids begin to decide on their own, act like Switzerland and stay neutral on the decision making process.

After what seemed like a heartfelt message to his family and friends via Twitter, Jon Gosselin’s ex-girlfriend Hailey Glassman is calling him out on his chronic lying habit.  Gosselin tweeted, “I am acutely aware of the mistakes I made in 2009 and I am ashamed of the choices I made.  I have apologized to Kate, my family, and to my friends.  Through counseling I have learned to own my actions.  My goal is to move forward in a positive direction.”  Despite Gosselin’s seemingly good intentions, Glassman insists that his Twitter apology was just a “negotiating tactic to gain sympathy from the public,” according to RadarOnline.  Glassman called her ex a “pathological liar” whose life coach once told her and her parents to “accept his lying and not get mad at him for it because he will then never tell the truth.”

Is there any time in a relationship when lying is okay?

Cupid’s Advice:

Honest communication is the crux of a healthy relationship, but sometimes telling white lies is necessary in certain situations.  Cupid has some examples of instances when it’s okay bend the truth:

1. You look so thin!: If she asks, “Does this make me look fat?” tell her “no,” whether it’s true or not.  Sometimes you need to fib to spare her feelings, especially when talking about her appearance.  There’s no need to bring insecurities into your relationship.

2. Thanks, I love it!: Whether it’s a diamond ring or a pair of socks, this is always the correct response when receiving a gift.  If you don’t want to offend your mate, pretend you love it… then if necessary, quietly return it later.

3. I’m not attracted to other people: Just because you notice when a total babe walks by doesn’t mean you have to tell your partner!  Some things are better left unsaid.

It’s official: Jon Gosselin has moved on.  The father of eight took his kids on a family outing last weekend with new girlfriend, Ellen Ross.  According to Radar Online, the group was on a picnic in Reading, Pennsylvania, a day after his ex-wife Kate Gosselin claimed on national television that her children are anxious to get home when they’re with their dad.  Jon quickly denied the claims.When is a good time to introduce your new partner to your kids?

Cupid’s Advice:

After you split with your ex, the time might come when you want to bring someone else into your children’s lives.  Cupid has some advice to make for a successful first meeting:

1. Don’t make it a surprise: Depending on the age and maturity level of your children, you’ll want to make them aware there is someone new in your life before the meeting.  This will give them time to adjust to the idea.

2. Make sure it is serious: The last thing you want to do is introduce a person into your children’s lives, just to take them out of it a few months later.  Children can get very close to someone quickly, and they too could end up with a broken heart.

3. Family comes first: Make sure your children know that they are your first priority.  They should also understand that your new boyfriend or girlfriend is not going to replace their biological parent.

Reality TV star Jon Gosselin, told RadarOnline that he is celebrating his “rebirth” by getting a giant dragon tattoo on his back.  According to US Weekly, the tattoo features a name written in Korean, in honor of his new 23-year old girlfriend, Ellen Ross.

Hold on there, Picasso!  Before you decorate your body in works of art, you’ll want to consider if getting a tattoo with your significant other’s name is a wise thing to do.

Cupid’s Advice:

While it may seem like a declaration of love at the time, Cupid is here to help paint a clear picture.  Think before you get inked.

1. Love is not always forever, but a tattoo is: If you’re considering getting your partner’s name tattooed on your body, don’t rush into it, and don’t get one to please the other person.  Once it’s on your skin, it’s there forever.  Removal procedure are painful, costly, and time consuming.  And never make this decision when alcohol is involved.

2. Love is stronger than body art: Do you really need a tattoo to show your commitment to someone?  About.com cites a tattoo artist who gives his opinion on the matter, and says there are lots of reasons not to do it.  “I have rarely done this type of tattoo on someone who didn’t have some notion of the possible regrets one might encounter in the future,” the artist said.  “Names tattooed upon your body won’t make you or the other person any more committed to each other and it is not like a shirt that you can take off. Think about it.”

3. The sag factor: What looks great on your young, toned body now may not look as attractive as you get older.  Your skin changes with age (sometimes for the worse), but your tattoo will still be there.  Also, be conscious of where you get the tattoo.  Placement is key, as there could be several ramifications, including a lost job opportunity, if it is difficult to hide.