Chris Brown Is Upset He Cannot Move On from Past With Rihanna

Rapper and R&B star Chris Brown can’t seem to shake his past with former flame Rihanna, reports People. Brown became visibly upset and violent on Tuesday morning during an interview for Good Morning America when interviewer Robin Roberts began to inquire about his past with Rihanna. A source close to the actor says, “He’s been trying to move on from his past and focus on his music, and he’s finally putting out an album…” Brown tweeted later on that day giving a shout out to his fans, “Thank you to everyone who supports my music!!!  Key Word (music) !!! Love y’all.”

How do you start new after you cheat on someone?

Cupid’s Advice:

Nobody can answer for you or explain why you cheated, but making sure that you don’t repeat the past is imperative to your future. Cupid has some tips on how to start fresh:

1. Take some time: Take time off from dates and pick-ups. The down time will give you the opportunity to reflect on your recent relationships.

2. Figure it out: What was the reason that you cheated? Were you unhappy? Did you do it just because you could?  Knowing the motive behind your actions is the first step to correcting any future decisions.

3. Be honest: In your next relationship, be open and forthcoming. Before things get too serious, have a heart-to-heart and explain your past, what you did and why. Being up front from the beginning will show your new partner that you’ve turned over a new leaf.

 




Mila Kunis Denies Breaking Up Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel

Friends with Benefits costars, Justin Timberlake and Mila Kunis are friends and nothing more, reports People. Timberlake, who split from girlfriend of four years Jessica Biel over the weekend has been linked to his on-screen girlfriend, Kunis. Sources close to Timberlake deny that Kunis had gotten in between Timberlake and Biel, saying, “In fact, no one came between them. They decided their relationship ran its course and it was time to move on.”

Is there someone else to blame for your breakup?

Cupid’s Advice:

It’s easy to point fingers and put the blame on someone else, especially when it comes to a breakup. It may be easier said than done, but taking an unbiased look at things may reveal some surprising facts:

1. Take a step back: Try to look at the situation with new eyes. Did someone else come between you and your partner or were you simply growing apart?

2. Give it time: It may be easier to take a few months and then re-open the situation once your emotions have settled down. Think back to how things were at the end of your relationship. You may find there’s no one to blame but yourself.

3. Warning signs: You may have missed the warning signs that the end of your relationship was near, but they were definitely there. Once your excuses for his bad behavior are lifted, you may see things differently.




Teen Mom Star Leah Explains Why Husband Corey Is ‘the One’

Teen Mom star Leah Messer says the relationship between she and her husband Corey Simms is better than ever, according to UsMagazine.com. In fact, she recently told her friend that he is “The One.”  “At first there were ups and downs, but I think we’re doing really good now,” Messer said.  “The thing is with me and Corey, we do things very fast.  From the very beginning, we got pregnant.  But with [him], I feel like I’m happier than I’ve ever been in my entire life.”  She added that if he were to propose she would say “yes — hell yeah!”  The relationship between these two has been no walk in the park, including a six month break following Messer’s affair with an ex-boyfriend.

Can you regain trust after your partner cheats?

Cupid’s Advice:

Probably one of the most difficult things to do is trust once it’s been broken. It involves more than just your partner’s desire to make things right. Cupid has a few suggestions:

1. Honesty is the best policy: They broke the trust, so now they have to work twice as hard to regain it. The only to do that is to simply be honest … all the time. Set up a policy of total disclosure between you and your partner.

2. Forgive, but don’t forget: If you’re serious about making your relationship work again, then you’ll have to forgive your partner.  Remember that just because they came back, it doesn’t mean they won’t leave again. So be cautious, especially at first.

3. Find out why: This is something you may not want to hear, but there may be some opportunities for your relationship to grow if you know what drove them away from you in the first place.




Vince Vaughn & Kevin James in ‘The Dilemma’

From Academy Award winning director Ron Howard comes a tale of friendship in the January release of The Dilemma.  This particular friendship, a bromance between Ronny (Vince Vaughn, Wedding Crashers) and Nick (Kevin James, Hitched) is stretched to the limit when Ronny catches Nick’s wife, Geneva (Winona Ryder, Black Swan) with another man.  Should Ronny tell his BFF the truth of his wife’s indiscretions, or keep his lips sealed and wait for Geneva to come clean on her own?  Packed with a star-studded cast, The Dilemma promises to bring bros closer than ever before in this year’s winter rom-com.

 

Should you keep secrets from those you love?

Cupid’s Advice:

It may be easier said than done when it comes to obeying the age-old rule that “honesty is the best policy,” but nine times out of ten, it may be best to forge ahead and be upfront with the one you love:

1. Switch roles: Ask yourself how it would feel if your positions were switched.  If you would want the truth no matter what, then your loved one deserves the same treatment.  It may be hard to get the words out, but you’ll feel better once you do.

2. Avoid piling on the lies: Little white lies can come back to haunt you.  One untruth can turn into another, which can then turn into an even bigger lie.  Instead of trying to continuously cover your tracks, come clean from the beginning.

3. Look at the big picture: If you picture yourself with your partner for a long time, you owe it to him to keep secrets from ruining your relationship.  A little fib isn’t worth destroying your happiness.

Release Date: January 14, 2011




Kelly Osbourne Trashes Ex-Boyfriend Luke Worrall

Christmas wasn’t so merry for Kelly Osbourne, thanks to ex-fiance Luke Worrall.   According to Us Weekly, the 26-year old let her ex have it late Monday night via Twitter.  At first, Osbourne kept it cryptic, tweeting: “Just found something out that has hurt my feelings so bad 🙁 and christmas was going so well.”   Later on, she made it clear that since they parted in July, “he has been trying to get back with me, I only came home for Xmas to see him.  Meanwhile, he has been f***ing hundreds of girls…behind my back.”   The E! Fashion Police critic is back in London with her family for the holidays and plans to go “off Twitter for a while.”  Osbourne noted, “Never felt heartbroken like this in my life.”

What things should you keep to yourself in a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Kelly Osbourne was so blinded by anger that she got the whole media world involved with her relationship. However, there are many things in a relationship that should just stay between you and your special someone.  Cupid has some examples:

1. Fights: Getting people involved in arguements between you and your partner could be fatal to your relationship.  Whether it’s your friends ganging up on him or his family judging you, tension is bound to build.

2. Love life: Whether your love life is amazing or on the rocks, it’s your love life.  Even if you’re okay with others knowing intimate details, he may not be.  Respect your relationship with your partner by keeping certain details to yourself.

3. Money: If you and your partner are married or living together, money becomes a shared entity.  Many people are sensitive about the amount of money they make, whether they admit it or not.  Keep monetary details on the down-low.




LeAnn Rimes and Eddie Cibrian Are Engaged

After all the controversy surrounding their relationship, LeAnn Rimes and boyfriend Eddie Cibrian are engaged!  According to People, a source close to the couple says, “Yes, they were engaged over the holidays and are very happy.”  On Monday, Rimes thanked all of her fans for their support by tweeting, “Thank you for all your well wishes!!  We are extremely excited and look forward to a beautiful future.  It’s been an incredible last few days, I was shocked!!!  We are blessed, our families are so happy and our lives are filled with love.”  The pair was surrounded by family and friends in town directly following.

What are reasons to involve your family in your engagement?

Cupid’s Advice:

An engagement is one of the happiest moments of your life, and who better to to share it with than the people who have seen you through it all?  Cupid has some reasons to involve your family in your engagement plans:

1. Approval: Even though they have probably met your partner before, introducing someone as your fiance is totally different.  Make sure the people who know you best approve of this decision.

2. Respect: Your parents and family are the ones that have raised you and been with you through it all.  Include them in the engagement proceedings out of respect.

3. To share your happiness: Because your engagement is one of the happiest times in your life, sharing that joy with your family makes it even happier.




Elizabeth Hurley and Arun Nayar: Separated

After four years, Elizabeth Hurley and Arun Nayar have decided to call it quits.  The British model-actress and Indian textile heir were wed at a castle in England and then at a palace in India back in 2007.  On Sunday, Hurley, 45, tweeted, “For the record, my husband Arun and I separated a few months ago.”  According to Us Weekly, Hurley’s declaration corresponded with a report claiming that she had an affair with Australian cricketer Shane Warne.

What are good ways to work on a rocky marriage?

Cupid’s Advice:

Sometimes couples such as Elizabeth Hurley and Arun Nayar just can’t get their marriage back on track, but that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t try.  Cupid has some tips:

1. Make time: In order to work on problems with your special someone, you need to make time for him first.  Whether it’s romantic nights out or just a nice meal at home without the kids, alone time will play a big role in keep the romance alive.

2. Communicate: If you feel like you and your partner are distant, work on communicating with him.  Don’t forget to listen as much as you talk, because communication goes both ways.

3. Be honest: Above all else, make sure you are being honest with each other.  Always try to be open about everything, and hide nothing.  Trust is the core a great relationship.





Eva Longoria Parties with Pals After Divorce from Tony Parker

Eva Longoria was spotted out and about for the first time since filing for divorce from husband Tony Parker, Us Weekly reports.  The starlet was sipping champagne and chatting with friends at Hollywood hot spot Chateau Marmont over the weekend.  Dressed in all black, Longoria was smiling and chatting with Jason Biggs and Kate Bosworth.  Sources say she looked defeated and that,  “She had a grin on her face, but every so often she would stare off into space and looked very sad and somber.”

After a divorce, what are ways to cope?

Cupid’s Advice:

Public break-ups can be brutal, especially for celebrities.  Who can forget Shannon Moakler’s notorious divorce party?  Cupid has some ways to deal:

1. Lean on your friends: You may feel alone, but you aren’t.  Even if your friends are paired up, the BFF code means that you have support that is only a phone call away.

2. Take a break: Get your mind off of your current situation by taking a much-needed vacation.  Bring a friend along, or go solo to clear your head.

3. Celebrate with class: Throw a break-up celebration of sorts, but keep it private and low-key.  A public display of anger can come back to hurt you later in life, so it’s best not to go overboard.




Eva Longoria Finds Messages to Tony Parker from Teammate’s Wife

Eva Longoria officially filed for divorce from San Antonio Spurs player, Tony Parker this past week.  The actress was appalled after finding hundreds of inappropriate text messages from the wife of Parker’s teammate whose identity still remains a mystery, according to People.  The Desperate Housewife confided in pal, Mario Lopez, and it’s now been revealed that this is not Tony Parker’s first affair.  Prior to this indiscretion, he cheated with another woman and continued to keep in touch with her on Facebook.  “[Eva] is devastated, she wants us all to know that, but she’s strong,” said Lopez.

How can you tell if your partner is cheating?


Cupid’s Advice:

Time will always reveal the truth.  If you suspect something is going on, follow your gut.  Cupid has some tell-tale signs:

1. His phone book is full: If your partner has many names in their cell phone book that you do not recognize or which are listed by only the first name, this could be sign that they are hiding something or someone.

2. He’s not interested: If your partner begins to lose interest in you either physically or emotionally, one of the reasons could be that he’s getting affection elsewhere.

3. His spending habits change: If you notice unexplained dinners, hotel rooms, transportation services or gifts, this shady money trail could lead to a cheater.




Billy Ray Cyrus Refuses to Discuss Split from Miley Cyrus’ Mom, Tish

Billy Ray Cyrus won’t talk about his “Achy Breaky Heart.”  During a radio interview on Woody and the Wake-Up Call, Billy Ray Cyrus walked out when Woody Johnson brought up the singer’s pending divorce from Tish Cyrus.  When asked about the split, Billy Ray Cyrus said, “Oh man.  You know what bud?  Woody Johnson.  Woody Johnson.  God bless America, God bless our troops.  Woody Johnson, look at you.”  The couple, parents of actress/singer Miley Cyrus, filed divorce papers on October 26, and rumors have been flying about Tish Cyrus’ alleged affair with rocker Bret Michaels.

How do you avoid talking about intimate relationship details?

Cupid’s Advice:

While some couples may be loud and proud, you shouldn’t broadcast every aspect of your relationship.  Cupid has some tips on how to keep the intimacy in your relationship:

1. Prioritize: If you feel the need to dish about your relationship problems to a friend, pick the most important issue and confide in only one friend.  Complaining about too many problems to too many people will bring on a bad reputation.

2. Think before you speak: If you talk about a problem with a friend, it may do more harm than good.  Consider how your words will affect your partner and your relationship before you open your mouth.

3. Be optimistic: Bottling up feelings isn’t healthy, but try to keep things in perspective by staying positive about minor spats.




LeAnn Rimes Has No Regrets About Affair with Eddie Cibrian

After meeting on the set of the Lifetime movie Northern Lights last year, LeAnn Rimes and Eddie Cibrian began an off-camera affair when they were both still married to other people.  In a recent article in US Weekly, the country queen revealed that what happened with Eddie Cibrian is not who she is, but she refuses to live with regrets.  “It happens every day to so many people,” said LeAnn Rimes.  “And if I take away my album sales, my words … you have just another couple.  You had two couples whose marriages didn’t work who really stumbled upon each other and fell in love.”

Is an affair okay if it’s in the name of love?

Cupid’s Advice:

Though some couples are able to work it out after an affair, most of the time an affair marks the end of a relationship.  Though you have every right to fall in love with someone else, try to be fair to your partner and end your current relationship before you start a new one.   Here are some things to consider:

1. Honesty is the best policy: If you have true feelings for someone else that are starting to prevail over the feelings you have for your current partner, it’s time to end the relationship before someone gets hurt.

2. Forbidden love: The secrecy that is often behind an affair can add some much-missed excitement to your love life.  Make sure you have true feelings for your new lover and aren’t just getting caught up in the excitement of it all.

3. We all make mistakes: It’s only human to follow your heart instead of your mind, especially when it comes to love.  If you do slip up, don’t be too hard on yourself, but make sure to come clean to those you care about.

 




Miley Cyrus’ Mom Tish Had Affair with Bret Michaels

Could the reason for the split between Miley Cyrus’ parents be due to her mom, Tish, having an affair with rocker Bret Michaels? US Weekly‘s source seems to think so.  The 17 year marriage between Tish and Billy Ray Cyrus is coming to an end as Billy Ray filed for divorce on October 27.  Michaels was introduced to the Cyrus family back in February when he and teen sensation Miley Cyrus released the duet “Nothing to Lose.”  Since then, Tish was spotted at Michaels’ February 28 show in Los Angeles.  Although reps for both Tish and Michaels deny that there is nothing more than a professional relationship between the two,  Billy Ray is seeking joint custody for his three minor children he has with his soon-to-be ex-wife.

How do you handle the news of a parent’s affair?

Cupid’s Advice:

Dealing with the possibility that one of your parents is having an affair is a devastating blow, no matter your age.  Cupid has some advice on how to handle it:

1. Sibling support: If you have any brothers or sisters you can turn to, they would be your best bet for support.  Families get torn apart and turned against each other when everyone begins to take sides on who’s right and who’s wrong.  Even if you have friends who were in a similar situation, your siblings are the only ones who know exactly what you’re going through.  Lean on them.

2. Know the facts: Sit your parents down together and ask for the truth.   They owe it to you as their child to tell you what’s going on.  You’ll start to hear lots of different takes on the situation from family friends and family members themselves trying to persuade you to take one side over the other.  Knowing the truth will help you disregard other rumors and come to your own conclusion.

3. Find an outlet: Whether it’s finding a counselor or channeling your emotions through another hobby, you’ll need a release from your family situation.  It’s normal to feel a slew of emotions, including anger toward one or both parents.  Rather than taking it out by saying or doing something you may later regret, placing that energy into a hobby will help you take your mind off of things in a healthy way.




Justin Timberlake Reportedly Caught Cheating

Justin Timberlake reportedly cheated on his main squeeze, actress Jessica Biel.  According to Us Weekly, the singer/actor was fooling around behind Biel’s back with actress Olivia Munn this past September.  Munn is best known as a Daily Show correspondent and stars in the upcoming NBC series Perfect Couples. According to an insider, after exchanging numbers with the actress, he “started chasing her immediately.”  The source also adds that Munn resisted his advances, telling him it was a no-go if he was still with Biel.  But Timberlake “has been telling people it’s over with Jessica, even though the reality is he’s just doing it behind her back.”  Timberlake’s rep says the accusations are false, while Munn’s rep refuses to comment on her personal life.  It seems a lot of celebrity relationships are heated these days!

How can you resist the cheating temptation?

Cupid’s Advice:

While we don’t know for certain the details behind Justin Timberlake’s apparent cheating escapade, many men and women in relationships will often find themselves staving off the temptation to cheat. Cupid has some advice to help you work through the urge:

1. Explore your feelings: Ask yourself why the temptation is there in the first place.  While there is nothing wrong with a wandering eye or some harmless flirting, if you find yourself wanting to take it to the next level, your so-called relationship might not be as strong as you originally thought.

2. Think of the future: Before you cheat, take a moment to think about what the future could hold with your partner or spouse.  Is it really worth giving up a wonderful life with someone special just for what you may consider the thrill of cheating?

3. Consider the consequences: If you cheat, whatever relationship you’re currently involved in will most likely end badly.  There is nothing good to come out of cheating, and the devastating consequences could hurt not only your significant other, but also your family and children (if there are any in the picture).

 




Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore to Renew Vows?

Faithful Twitterer Ashton Kutcher has once again revealed his predicament in 140 characters or less, reports E! Online.  Kutcher, 32, told Twitter followers that he and wife Demi Moore, 47, are traveling to Israel to “[Share] Love & Light while in Israel.”  The couple are, “Asking 4 the energy 2 forge bonds with our similarities & find compromise in our differences.”  Kutcher and Moore have recently been facing rumors of Kutcher’s infidelity.  The couple has been taking to Twitter to sort out rumors, posting pictures of themselves in bed together, and thank everyone for their anniversary wishes.  They are expected to renew their vows while in Israel, effectively squashing all rumors.

Why is it good to renew your vows?

Cupid’s Advice:

There are lots of reasons to renew your vows – and you don’t need to be a celeb to do it! Here are some incentives if you and your mate want to relive your vows:

1. Children: Your children weren’t around the last time you got married.  Making fresh commitments will allow for your entire family to take part.

2. Relationship troubles: If you and your partner have been having problems in your relationship, renewing your vows may be the answer.  Reassurance will make your partnership stronger.

3. More fun: Since you got married, you and your partner have earned more money and met more people.  Think of vow renewal as a romantic excuse to throw an even bigger ceremony.  Invite more people, buy an even more expensive dress and even hire a band to replace the deejay this time around!




Married Brett Favre Accused of Hitting on Second Woman

Brett Favre may have to worry about getting sacked by more than just linebackers.  The quarterback for the Minnesota Vikings has been accused twice in three days of cheating on his wife Deanna Tynes Favre, according to RadarOnline.  Earlier this year, sports reporter Jennifer Sterger accused Favre of sending her sexy texts and pictures, but it wasn’t until last week that the National Football League began looking into the allegations seriously.  Less than 48 hours after the NFL announced its investigation, an unnamed masseuse who worked with Favre when he was part of the New York Jets, accused the quarterback of repeatedly leaving steamy messages on her phone.

Is it okay to be attracted to someone other than your mate?

Cupid’s Advice:

Cupid knows that it’s perfectly natural to be attracted to someone other than your mate.  Here’s some suggestions on how to make sure the attraction doesn’t turn into more:

1. Keep talking: Open and honest communication is the key to success in any relationship, so knowing how you and your partner feel about attraction to others will keep suspicion and resentment out of the relationship.

2. Consider the options: If you were to cheat, what would the benefits and gains be?  If you’re in a healthy and lasting relationship, the pros of  a quick fling should be less than the cons of ruining your relationship.

3. Check your relationship: If the positives don’t outweigh the negatives, then you should see whether your relationship needs some revamping.  It may be time to have a serious heart-to-heart with your partner, or it might just be time to end things.




Tiger Woods Porn Mistress Threatens to Kill

It doesn’t look like the drama surrounding pro golfer Tiger Woods will end any time soon.  Devon James, a porn star who admitted to an affair with Woods, apparently threatened Joslyn James, another of Woods’ mistresses, in an e-mail sent to a mutual friend obtained by RadarOnline.  Joslyn accused Devon of stealing from her during the filming of a porn-flick about their affairs with Woods.  The accusation prompted Devon to chastise the friend for not seeing through Joslyn’s “bulls*t” and threatening, “Trust me I swear to you I will kill over this.”

What are the repercussions of cheating?

Cupid’s Advice:

Cupid knows cheating doesn’t always end in death threats, but it usually ends in someone getting hurt.  Here are some of the most common results of infidelity:

1. Loss of trust: Your partner may worry that you’re cheating every time you’re not together, and this added stress could show itself in more fights, less togetherness, and a faster breakdown of the relationship.

2. Create feelings of revenge: Your partner may feel that there is now an unfair imbalance in the relationship, where one partner got something the other didn’t.  This could lead to deep-seeded feelings of revenge that could break apart a once-stable relationship.

3. Messy breakup: Cheating can break apart couples, but because it causes negative feelings and involves taboo topics, it makes the breakup difficult to talk about with family, friends, or children the couple may have together.  This can lead to bitterness and internalized anger, thereby hurting both parties even more.

 




David Beckham Fires Back at Tabloid for Prostitute Accusations

Soccer pro David Beckham has proven that actions speak louder than words after he officially denied prostitute accusations by suing the tabloid that published them.  PopEater reports that Beckham is suing In Touch Weekly for featuring quotes from former call girl Irma Nici suggesting that the two slept together in 2007.  The suit alleges libel, slander and intentional infliction of emotional distress.  Beckham has been married to former Spice Girls singer Victoria Beckham for 11 years, and the two have three boys together, ages 11, 8, and 5.

If you’re falsely accused of cheating, what do you do?

Cupid’s Advice:

Sometimes someone close to you might hear or see something that gives them the wrong idea about your faithfulness.  Cupid has some tips on how to clear up the situation:

1. Ask why: If someone started a rumor, talk to that person one-on-one to find out why.  They might just be angry about something, and talking to them will help clear the air and stop them from spreading more false rumors.

2. Reassure him: If you can, get your supposed cheating partner to tell your partner that the accusations are false.  When he gets reassurance from both you and the other person involved, he’ll be more likely to believe that nothing is going on.

3. Show proof: There’s nothing like cold, hard evidence to prove you’re telling the truth.  If the rumors say you went out with your mystery boy on Friday night, but you were with your best friend the whole time, the piece of gossip is officially dead.




Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher Are All Smiles

The rumor mill is straining when it comes to Demi Moore & Ashton Kutcher. Although the much-talked about couple are in the midst of fighting off infidelity banter from critics and fans alike, they seem to be showing a united front, at least in public.  Full of giggles, jokes and all sorts of PDA, Moore and Kutcher were all smiles on the set of Moore’s new film The Reasonable Bunch last week, according to People. “Demi and Ashton got here in the early hours of the morning, and you could hear them laughing and carrying on from inside her trailer,” says a source.  The pair, whose fifth anniversary is quickly approaching, are faced with claims that Kutcher cheated with a 21-year-old.  But if the two are troubled at all by these serious accusations, they certainly aren’t letting on.

How can you stop cheating rumors from circulating?

Cupid’s Advice:

There’s no doubt about it — rumors, especially negative ones, are tough to deal with and difficult to hear.  And the age-old advice, “don’t dignify a rumor with a response” doesn’t always work.  Cupid has some suggestions for ways to halt rumors before they spiral out of control:

1. Prove the rumor isn’t credible:  The people who start rumors want other people to believe they’re telling the truth.  So, they make sure that what they’re saying is plausible.  To stop the news before it spreads, determine what makes the rumor credible in the first place.

2. Keep it simple: One of the worst things you can do in the face of a dirty rumor is to appear defensive and angry.  There’s no reason to let it get that far.  If you have evidence to the contrary, just say, “That can’t be true, because …” and leave it at that.

3. Create a new truth: The reason gossip exists is because it’s fun to know things about other people that they’re probably trying to keep to themselves.  If you find yourself the subject of rumors, introduce a new rumor — one you can control more easily.  People will stop focusing on the old news and put their attention to the new information they just got.

 




Ashton Kutcher’s Lawyer Slams Cheating Rumors

When Star Magazine recently ran an article claiming that actor Ashton Kutcher cheated on his wife of five years, Demi Moore, things got heated.  Kutcher’s lawyer, Marty Singer, recently released a statement to Us Weekly saying, “Star Magazine continuously publishes lies about Ashton Kutcher and many other celebrities.  This is not the first, nor will it be the last time they engage in reckless conduct.”  The article in question featured a quote from a 21-year-old, who said she “made love on his living room couch while Demi was out of town.”  Kutcher had faced previous accusations from Star Magazine.  At the beginning of the month Star reported that Kutcher had a brief flame with a “a sexy, young, 20-something.”  Kutcher took to his Twitter page to protest the accusations.  He tweeted, “I think Star magazine calling me a ‘cheater’ qualifies as defamation of character. I hope my lawyer agrees.  STAR magazine – you don’t get to stand behind ‘freedom of the press’ when you are writing fiction.”What do you do if you’re faced with rumors that your partner is cheating?

Cupid’s Advice:

1. Get the facts: Most rumors are as superficial as the people who create them.  However, the occasional rumor may have some merit.  Don’t accuse your partner of cheating, but don’t completely dismiss it either.  After hard thoughts and questions, if you still deem the claim completely unreliable, then simply leave it alone.

2. Laugh it off: Most rumors are not worth your time.  Sometimes they’re just a sign of jealousy from an outside person who isn’t happy in their own life.  If you have trust then that should be enough to hold you and your partner together.  Laugh off the rumors … sometimes they’re pretty funny!

3. Confront those responsible: While most rumors are trivial, some of them have the potential to seriously harm your relationship and create stress.  If you must stop the rumors, then try confronting the source.  Most people gossip for fun, and they should stop when they see that it has truly hurt you.

 




Naya Rivera Keys Mark Salling’s Car

Glee co-stars Naya Rivera and Mark Salling may have hit a rocky point in their relationship.  Rivera, outraged at Salling’s summertime partying with other women, reportedly egged and keyed Salling’s car.  Though the couple were not officially together, they did go on several dates and have been romantically linked for the past couple months.  An insider told US Weekly that Rivera “went crazy when she read about other girls.”  Rivera reportedly gathered some pals and “trashed his Lexus.”  Salling’s friends also defended him to US Weekly.  Samantha Marq explained, “He’s on top of the world right now and living it up…it’s hard to call it infidelity when they weren’t officially together!”

How can you tell if you’re with a jealous partner?

Cupid’s Advice:

1. Test him: Try being friendly with the waiter, wearing a revealing dress in public or admitting your crush on George Clooney.  If these actions bother him, then he is the jealous type.

2. Proximity: Next time you talk to a guy, try seeing if your partner gets closer to you or is more touchy.  His apparent need to hold your hand or put his hand on your waist should clue you in to his jealousy.

3. Ask your friends: Many times your friends can see things that you can’t.  Chances are that they have been able to pick up on his jealousy-prone behavior if it’s there.




Snooki & JWOWW Tell Sammi the Truth

As of Season 2 Episode 4 of Jersey Shore, nothing has changed between Ronnie and Sammi.  Ronnie continues to act single every night at the club only to go back home and get in bed with Sammi.  While fully aware of what Ronnie is doing, everyone else in the house remains afraid to tell Sammi the truth due to their friendship with Ronnie and their desire not to hurt Sammi.  Though Sammi suspects that something is up and even questions Angelina, no one brakes their silence until JWOWW suggests they write her an anonymous note.  Snooki and JWOWW then go over to an internet cafe to type up the letter detailing all of Ronnnie’s actions with other women so far this season.

Should you tell a friend when their boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on them?

Cupid’s Advice:

No one likes being the bearer of bad news, but when cheating is involved, telling the truth is the right thing to do.  Though your friend may be upset at first, they will be grateful in the end that you told them what was really going on.

1. Friends don’t let friends live a lie: If you were being cheated on by someone who you thought loved you, you would most likely want to know.  It’s usually best to treat others the way you want to be treated.  Think past the awkwardness of the conversation in favor of the greater good.

2. Say it in person: The girls of Jersey Shore were doing the right thing by breaking their silence and telling Sammi the truth.  However, receiving an anonymous note can raise more questions than it answers.  A face-to-face conversation, although difficult, may be the respectable way to go.

3. Be a shoulder to cry on: You are probably telling your friend about their significant other’s infidelity because you care about and respect them.  But your job as a friend isn’t over once you’ve dropped the bomb.  Talk them through their feelings and show that you are there for them both now and always.

 




Tiger Woods & Elin Nordegren Finalize Their Divorce

After months of rumors and scandals surrounding Tiger Woods and his wife Elin Nordegren, the two have called it quits.  “Elin Nordegren and Tiger Woods confirmed today that they have divorced,” Nordegren’s Virginia-based law firm, McGuireWoods, confirmed last Monday in a statement to Access Hollywood.  “The Judgment provides for shared parenting of their two children.”  The former couple released a joint statement to the public reinforcing that their children are their primary concern.  They also added, “We are sad that our marriage is over, and we wish each other the very best for the future.”

How can you find love again after a divorce?

Cupid’s Advice:

Moving on from a commitment like marriage can be a slow transition.  Once you’re back in the dating world, the idea of love can finally start to take form again.  Cupid has some tips to help you along:

1. Over it: Before venturing into the dating world, make sure you aren’t still licking old wounds.  If the divorce papers or breakup discussions are finalized, then treat whatever is left of the relationship the same way.  Otherwise, you might be setting yourself up for future pain.

2. Don’t rush: There’s no need to hurry into a new relationship.  Many people rebound quickly and become deeply involved too soon after their divorce or breakup.  Sometimes it can lead to dating someone similar to your ex.  Make sure it feels right before becoming too committed.

3. Changes: If you’re dipping your feet back into the waters of dating, chances are you have a new outlook on life and a new attitude to go along with it.  This might be a good time to submit to a makeover, too!  During a serious relationship, many people have a tendency to let themselves go.  Now is a great time to fit and try out new fashions. Have fun with it!




Ronnie & Sammi Still Struggling at the ‘Shore’

And the drama continues!  After drunkenly carrying on with countless girls at a Miami nightclub in season two’s first episode, Jersey Shore reality star Ronnie returned home to cuddle up with ex-girlfriend, Sammi.  When Sammi asked if he had been with any girls that night, he lied, answering no.  The two seemed to rekindle their romance during last week’s episode when Sammi held Ronnie’s hand as he got a tattoo.

Is it possible to fully restore trust to a relationship after lies are uncovered?

Cupid’s Advice:

Lying and cheating most often marks the end of a relationship.  However, if the guilty party is truly sorry, and shows it through their actions, then the relationship may still succeed:

1. Repeat offenders: Past behavior is always the best predictor of future behavior.  In a case like this, one does not apologize with words, but with actions.  Those who mean their apologies won’t make the same mistake twice.

2. Don’t be too trusting: Sometimes, one party wants so bad to trust the other that they ignore the obvious.  When it comes to being in a healthy relationship, one should always keep in mind the saying,”Fool me once, shame you you; fool me twice, shame on me.”

3. Getting past it: If the cheater shows true remorse and bends over backwards to make things right again, their partner shouldn’t continue to hold their mistake over their head. If they want the relationship to work, both people need to leave the past where it belongs.




Jesse James Wins Custody of Daughter

Monster Garage host and Sandra Bullock’s ex, Jesse James, won physical custody of daughter Sunny on Tuesday, reported E! Online.  James and his ex-wife Janine Lindemulder have gone through a tug-of-war custody battle over their child, specifically because James wanted to take Sunny to his home in Austin, TX.  The reason?  James told the judge that he wanted Sunny to live close to Bullock, who has a positive influence on his daughter.  Sunny will remain with her mother until the end of the summer, and will then head to Austin with James.

How can you make a move a smooth transition for a child?


Cupid’s Advice:

A big move can be a very traumatic experience for a young child, particularly in the case of a family being split up.  James has the right idea in taking Sunny to a spot where she already has roots – thanks to Bullock – but there are other key steps to help the child settle in and start a new life.

1. Lay groundwork: By keeping a child involved in the moving preparations, they will feel more in control of the move.  This will enable them to not feel as if they are being forced from their home, and make them more open to new arrangements.

2. Make it quick: Drawing out goodbyes before a move and the move itself can lead to a more upsetting experience for a kid.  Plan the move so it runs smoothly before setting it in motion, and have a goodbye party to make leaving people seem a lighter affair.

3. Nesting effect: By nature, people are nesting creatures, who like to have their own space where they can create a home.  Children have those same needs.  Let them pick their room and have a say in how it’s laid out, painted, and decorated.  This will, again, give them a feeling of control.