Former ‘TLC’ Member Rozanda ‘Chilli’ Thomas Denies Dating Wayne Brady

By Brittany Stubbs

Despite the rumors, Rozanda “Chilli” Thomas and Wayne Brady are not a couple; Chilli denies that they are dating. Although the pair were spotted together in Las Vegas last weekend at the MGM Grand allegedly holding hands, the Whose Line Is It Anyway? comic and R&B singer want to make it clear they’re not romantically involved. “They are not dating, they’ve never dated, they’ve only ever been friends, that’s it,” a rep for Thomas shares with People. “They had dinner together after New Year’s because they were on the same show. They are old friends.”

How do you keep rumors about your dating life from escalating?

Cupid’s Pulse:

So we’re not all celebrities who feel the need to publicly announce and clarify who we are and are not romantically involved with, but there are still times it’s important to avoid rumors starting regarding your personal life. From a professional stand point, for example, you don’t want anything flying around about your dating life, especially if it involves someone in the same workplace. So avoid anything getting escalated:

1. Be cautious of body language: It’s normal for the opposite sex to be affectionate to one another, even if they’re just good friends. But an innocent hug, arm wrap behind the chair, or kiss on the cheek between you and your friend, can be seen as flirting and foreplay to someone else. So be both cautious and mindful of how your body language can be perceived by an outside party. If you are seeing someone but are not ready to share your new relationship with the rest of your social circle, keep the hand-holding, hand-on-knee, and any other body language that might reveal l-o-v-e, behind closed doors.

2. Be careful on social media: So you may think the picture you uploaded of you and [insert name] grabbing dinner and drinks one night is totally harmless; everyone knows you and him are just friends, you believe. But this is false and can actually be used as proof to confirm someone’s suspicions. So if there’s already some possible whispers about you and someone being more than just work pals, avoid posting anything that might add fuel to the fire.

3. Confront the rumors: At the end of the day, the easiest way to dissolve rumors or gossip is by facing them head on. If you know there is someone spreading around something about your personal life, approach them about it and lay out the facts. Approaching them while other people are around is a way to publicly confront the rumors and set the record straight.

How do you keep rumors about your dating life from escalating? Share your thoughts below.

Emma Roberts Is Engaged to Boyfriend Evan Peters

By April Littleton

According to People, American Horror Story costars Emma Roberts and Evan Peters are engaged. Peters proposed to Roberts in NYC over the holidays with a pink gold and diamond ring. The lovebirds have been dating since 2012.

What are some ways to keep your engagement under wraps at first?

Cupid’s Advice:

You’re newly engaged, but you’re not entirely sure if you’re ready to tell all of your loved ones yet. Sometimes, couples just want to enjoy the moment by themselves for a little while and that’s perfectly OK. Cupid has some tips:

1. Keep it a secret: Hiding such exciting news from your friends and family can be easier said than done, but it’s also the simplest way to keep your engagement just between you and your partner. Until you’re ready to tell your loved ones what’s going on in your relationship, keep this bit of information to yourself.

2. The ring: You can’t go flashing your ring around when you’re trying to keep your engagement a secret. When you’re around people who aren’t aware of your relationship status, just tuck away your ring in a safe place.

3. Avoid social media: Even your cryptic tweets or Facebook status can reveal your big secret. Avoid saying anything about you and your partner on any social network until you’ve figured out when and where would be the best time to let everyone know about your engagement.

How did you keep your engagement under wraps at first? Share your experience below.

Back Together? Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez Reunite in Instagram Photo

By Louisa Gonzales

Selena Gomez gazes at Justin Bieber longingly in one of the singers latest Instagram photo posted on Friday January 3. The Instagram photo posted a day after the pair pictured riding segways together on January 2, near Bieber’s home in Calabasas, California. It was the first time in months the on and off again couple spotted out together according to UsMagazine.com.

What are some things to consider before getting back together with an ex?

Cupid’s Advice:

Couples break up and get back together all the time. There are many causes for breakups. For example, maybe the relationship wasn’t healthy or maybe you just weren’t ready for one. Sometimes partners break up because they drift apart, but what happens when you find yourselves drifting closer together once again? Cupid has some advice on the subject:

1.Have you talked and resolved all the issues behind your break up? Any conflicts or issues you may have had should be worked out. As partners you need to be on the same page and know the direction of where you want your relationship to go.

2. Is the romantic connection still there? If both parties still have feelings for one another it might be good to give your relationship another shot. Especially, when you can’t stop thinking about each other and the love is still there.

3. Are your intentions good? If you just want to get back together with your ex lover because you can’t stand the sight of seeing them with someone else it probably isn’t a good idea to reconcile. Make sure you are getting back together for the right reasons. Remember trust your gut, be honest with yourself and follow your heart.

Do you have advice on if you should get back together with an ex or not? Share your tips below.

Demi Moore Dating Musician Sean Friday

By April Littleton

According to People, Demi Moore has a new love! Moore was seen on the beach with musician Sean Friday, 27, while in Tulum, Mexico. “They’ve been hanging out together for months and by all appearances, it seems like they’re dating,” a source said. Moore, 51, divorced Ashton last November.

What are some ways to introduce your new beau to family and friends?

Cupid’s Advice:

Beginning a new relationship is an exciting feeling, but the one thing that can be a little stressful is when it’s time for your new boo to meet all of your loved ones. Cupid is here to help:

1. Start small: Introduce your new partner to only a select few of your loved ones when you’re first starting out. You and your significant other will already be nervous enough. There’s no need to bombard your honey’s personal space with all of your family and friends all at once.

2. Get together: Plan a small outing for some of your friends and family to go to. Maybe an outdoor barbeque or a nice dinner party. Keep your plans low-key so your partner doesn’t feel too overwhelmed with all of the new people he/she is bound to meet.

3. Give prior notice: Make sure you give your loved ones a heads up before you introduce them to your partner. The situation could be a little awkward if they aren’t even aware that you’re in a new relationship. Also, make sure your significant other is comfortable with meeting your family and friends.

What are some other ways to introduce your new beau to family and friends? Comment below.

All-American Rejects Singer Tyson Ritter Ties the Knot

By Brittany Stubbs

The New Year was started with love, as Tyson Ritter and actress Elena Satine tied the knot this Tuesday. It was an intimate affair, taking place in Seaside, Florida, in front of 50 of their closest friends and family members. “We feel very fortunate to have started the New Year this way,” the couple shares with People. “With an abundance of love and happiness together, shares with all of our friends and family.”

What are some compelling reasons to keep your wedding small and intimate?

Cupid’s Advice:

Your wedding is one of the most exciting days of your life. Although it’s tempting to want to invite everyone and their yoga instructor, there are advantages of celebrating with a more intimate crowd:

1. Saving money: Obviously, this is always a great reason to shorten your guest list. With extra money, you can provide more for the people you invite. For example, a nicer meal at the reception, fancier place settings, etc. But saving money isn’t all about the wedding, think about that honeymoon. Even if you have someone paying for your trip, they usually aren’t covering all the meals, drinks, excursions, etc. Consider these details when debating between a small and large wedding.

Related: Couples Tying Knots

2. The more intimate, the more memories: Although a wedding reception is a celebration for the bride and groom, it’s also like hosting a party. You want to enjoy yourself, but you also feel the need to see and talk with all your guests, and make sure everyone is being taken care of. With less people, you can spend more time doing what your wedding is about, celebrating! This allows more time for taking pictures with close friends and family, dancing, and making all those memories your wedding should contain.

3. Less pressure: The fewer people you invite, the fewer people you have to worry about. When you know you’re surrounded by only close friends and family, you’re way less likely to worry about little things like tripping in your dress while you’re walking down the aisle, stuttering during your vows, or messing up during your first dance. A small and intimate wedding takes off the pressure and allows you to enjoy yourself, which is what your celebration is about.

What are your thought on small and intimate weddings? Share with us below.

‘General Hospital’ Star Teresa Castillo Is Expecting a Baby Girl

By April Littleton

General Hospital star Teresa Castillo and husband Shane Aaron are expecting their first child together. “It feels wonderful. This is the most joyous time of my life,” the mom-to-be told People. ” It feels great to finally be able to share it with the world.” The couple have been married since 2008.

What are some ways you can prepare your relationship for your first child?

Cupid’s Advice:

You’re expecting your first child with your significant other and now you’re unsure about what to do next. Keep calm. Now is the time for you and your honey to enjoy this wonderful journey you’re about to embark on. Cupid has some tips:

1. Take classes: Attend classes with your partner that will help you get ready for your new baby. Some of the classes you take will teach you more about breastfeeding, proper care for your newborn and proper breathing techniques when you go into labor.

2. Ask questions: Don’t be afraid to ask questions throughout your pregnancy. You’ll need to prepare yourself and your partner for the lifestyle change and the only way to do that is through good communication.

3. Make room: You and your significant other can work on the baby room together. Figure out what the colors of the child’s room will be and make sure you and your partner both have equal say on the decisions the two of you make.

How did you prepare your relationship for your first child? Share your experience below.

Olivia Palermo Gets Engaged to Johannes Huebl In St. Barts

By Brittany Stubbs

2014 marked the beginning of an engagement and year of love for Olivia Palermo and Johannes Huebl. While vacationing in St. Barts, the German model popped the question to Palermo, confirms People. The couple revealed their exciting news in an Instagram video, this Wednesday. The video shows Palermo skipping through the palms with the wind in her hair, showing off both the engagement ring and her pure happiness.

What are some reasons to get engaged on a holiday?

Cupid’s Advice:

Getting engaged on a holiday definitely has its perks. Cupid sheds some light:

1. Family and friends around: Getting engaged on a holiday sets up the potential to have more people to celebrate with. With family and friends usually off work, they not only can be close to congratulate you on your engagement, but they can even help be apart of it.

2. More time to celebrate: Who wants to get engaged and then return to work the next day? On a holiday, you usually have a break or some flexibility in your schedule, which allows for more time to celebrate with your lover…which is what everyone wants to do after getting engaged.

Related: Couples Tying Knots

3. Your anniversary will always be special: When the anniversary of your engagement is also a national holiday, you’ll never miss a year of celebrating one of the most important days of your life. You also won’t have to try and move around your schedule or plans every year to recognize your special day, because your job will most likely already allow you the day off (depending on the holiday).

What are some reasons to get engaged on a holiday? Share your thoughts below.

‘Bones’ Star TJ Thyne Proposes to Model Girlfriend Leah Park

By Brittany Stubbs

The engagement of TJ Thyne and Leah Park sounds like it came from a movie! While the couple was vacationing in Cologne, Germany, they were walking the grounds of the castle they were staying when the Bones star popped the question to his model girlfriend, confirms People. Thyne shared photos of the Hollywood-worthy moment, including him down on one knee, and then kissing his new bride-to-be in a candlelit heart in front of the gorgeous castle. As if that wasn’t beautiful enough, they posed in front of a horse-drawn carriage, which Park later shared on Instagram with the caption, “A fairytale engagement.”

What are some ways to make your marriage proposal unique?

Cupid’s Advice:

So not everyone has the luxury to get down on one knee in front of a beautiful castle and then be taken away in a horse-drawn carriage, but there are other ways to make your engagement as special and unique as your love.

1. Skip the expected: While a fancy dinner followed by a velvet box and diamond ring is nice, it’s definitely been done a million times over. So if you’re wanting to make your proposal totally unique, cancel those dinner reservations.

2. Personalize it: There’s no better way to make your proposal unique than personalizing it to the tastes of your partner. Is there a show or activity they love? Why not incorporate a proposal with their hobby? It will not only surprise them, but it will make your engagement all the more special because you combined it with something that’s already special to their heart.

Related: Couples Tying the Knot

3. Take it out of town: So we can’t all fly off the Germany, but why not include your proposal in a weekend getaway? This makes the proposal exciting since it’s taking place somewhere new and/or outside your regular realm. It also gives you both a chance to celebrate the engagement for a day or so. Who wants to get engaged and then return to work the next day?

What do you think makes a marriage proposal unique? Share your thoughts below.

Kaley Cuoco Says Her Wedding Was the ‘Greatest Night of My Entire Life’

By Brittany Stubbs

It was a night from a fairy tale when Kaley Cuoco and Ryan Sweeting tied the knot this Tuesday. Their New Year’s Eve wedding was fire-and-ice themed and took place at Hummingbird Nest Ranch in Santa Susana, California, confirms People. The Big Bang Theory hottie Instagrammed a photo of her and her new hubby engulfed in her pink Vera Wang wedding gown, with the caption, “Greatest night of my entire life.” She also shared a picture of their first dance, captioning it, “Last night I married my sweetheart 🙂 life couldn’t be sweeter.” As the pictures reveal, it was a perfect start to the New Year for these lovebirds.

What are some ways to make your wedding extra special?

Cupid’s Advice:

Your wedding day is one of the most exciting milestones you’ll reach. Everyone deserves for their big day to be as special and memorable as possible:

1. Personalize the details: Instead of just getting a wedding planner to help you book whatever DJ is hot at the time or decide on whatever flower arrangements match the season, make your wedding special by having the details reflect you and your fiance’s relationship and tastes. Was one of your first dates at a concert or a fun jazz club? Why not have your music bring back that special memory from your relationship? What were the first flowers he gave you? Why not incorporate them into your arrangement? It’s those little details that will make the day more special for the both of you.

2. Pick a date that works best for important guests: You can’t satisfy everyone’s schedule, but before you send out a Save the Date based on when a venue is available, consult the friends and family members you couldn’t imagine not having on your big day. After all, they’ll make your day feel more special than any venue or band could.

Related: Couples Tying Knots

3. Make everyone feel included in your celebration: You can only have a certain amount of bridesmaids and groomsmen, but there are still ways to make other people feel included on your special day. Dedicating a song to your guests that are friends from college, or asking relatives or old friends to make a toast are ways everyone will feel involved. Does your fiance have a sibling or close family member that’s not involved in the wedding party already? Why not leave something special at the place they’ll be sitting for the reception. A way of showing how excited you are that you’re now family. The more people involved, the more special and memorable it will be for everyone.

What makes a wedding extra special in your opinion? Share your thoughts below.

Source Says ‘An Engagement Is Coming’ for Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis

By Brittany Stubbs

Could there be wedding bells in the future for Ashton Kutcher and Mila Kunis? Multiple sources tell UsMagazine.com yes! The couple has been dating for nearly two years, and now that Kutcher and Demi Moore have finalized their divorce, Kutcher is most-likely getting ready to pop the question. “They talk about getting married and having kids. An engagement is imminent,” says a source.

How do you determine the right time for a marriage proposal?

Cupid’s Advice:

Getting engaged is not only about finding the right person, but the right timing:

1. Financially stable: Money isn’t everything, but if you or your partner are currently going through a hard time financially, it’s probably not the right time to start planning a wedding. Not only could money problems have influence on the wedding details, but it’s also an extremely stressful time, which is not the state of mind one should be in when getting excited about an engagement.

2. Family approves: If you’ve talked to both your family and their family about an engagement in the near future and they’re supportive, this is a great sign it’s the right time to propose.

3. It’s a stable time in your relationship: Sure, couples will have their fights every now and then, but if you’ve been going strong for a while without any serious fights or having to “take a break,” this is a sign your relationship might be ready to take the next step. Many couples will try and get engaged to fix their problems when they’re going through a rough patch, but their conflicts will still be there at the end of the day. Wait till you feel you and your partner are strong and secure as a couple before popping the question.

What are some others ways to determine the right time for your engagement? Share your thoughts below.

Rumor Alert: Are Miley Cyrus & Kellan Lutz An Item?

By Kerri Sheehan

Rumored fling Miley Cyrus and Kellan Lutz were spotted together on Friday night at the grand opening of Beacher’s Madhouse in Las Vegas. Although they arrived to the event separately, they were seen partying together later on in the night. Is it possible that the two are secretly an item? Could be. According to one onlooker who reported to People, “They talked a very close range for a long time while Cyrus was laughing and rubbing his back. At one point she kissed Lutz’s ear.”

How do you keep your new relationship on the down-low?

Cupid’s Advice:

Navigating a new romance can be tough. Let Cupid help you out:

1. Don’t go wild: A new fling may not turn out to be your next boyfriend, so don’t be too over the top in the beginning. Take things slow and feel out if he’s really the right guy for you.

2. Social Media: Everyone knows that the best sign of a healthy and mature relationship is very little sign of it on Facebook. Keep things low key at the beginning, if you’re really happy about it the whole world doesn’t need to know.

3. Have date night at home: For a famous couple like Cyrus and Lutz, it’s obvious why they wouldn’t want to go out to a restaurant on a date. Staying in for date night can be just as fun as long as you have movies and popcorn to keep you both company.

How would you keep your new relationship on the down-low? Share below.

Vanessa Carlton Ties the Knot with Stevie Nicks Officiating

By Kerri Sheehan

Vanessa Carlton is hitched! The “A Thousand Miles” singer wed singer John McCauley is past Friday. Carlton wore a fitted, long-sleeved white wedding gown, with a purple headpiece and flowers. According to UsMagazine.com, the 33-year-old tweeted, “Married this gentleman two hours ago xo.”

What are some ways to keep your wedding low-key?

Cupid’s Advice:

Cupid has some advice for how to keep your wedding low-key:

1. Invites: Keeping the invite list small will ensure that your wedding doesn’t get too over the top. Invite only immediate family and close friends for a more personal affair.

2. Simplicity: There are a lot of weddings that go crazy with decorations, food, and clothing, however a less elaborate wedding can celebrate two people who are in love just the same. Having simple decorations and menu will keep everything low-key.

3. The important parts: Have a talk with your partner about the elements of the wedding that they can’t go without. Once you figure out each other’s priorities you can see what things you can’t forget.

How would you keep your weddings low-key? Share below.

Dwyane Wade Admits to Fathering a Child While On Break from Gabrielle Union

By April Littleton

According to UsMagazine.com, Dwyane Wade confirmed to fathering a child while on a break from fiancee Gabrielle Union. “I had a time, a part in our break, in our pain and our hurt, a blessing came out of it in my life, having a son that was born healthy,” Wade said in a press conference Monday evening. The basketball player and actress have been dating since 2009 and took a brief hiatus to focus on their careers. The couple announced their engagement Dec. 20.

What are three steps you should take after being betrayed by your partner?

Cupid’s Advice:

You just found out that your partner hasn’t been honest with you about a certain situation. Now, it’s up to you make the decision to either try to mend your relationship, or call it quits. Cupid is here to help:

1. Counseling: If you want to work out your relationship, see a professional counselor with your significant other. You might also want to think about seeing your own therapist before you make any steps toward reconciliation. You’ll need to figure out your feelings and if taking your partner back is really the best thing for you to do.

2. Talk it out: When you find out that your honey hasn’t been entirely faithful, confront them about it. Make sure you have some solid evidence before you go to your partner with your accusations. Make sure you’re calm when you talk to your significant other and you have that much needed discussion somewhere private.

3. Break it off: Letting your partner go and moving on with your life might be the best decision you can make. If you don’t feel like you’re in a relationship worth saving, call it quits before you begin to doubt yourself. If you can’t see yourself trusting your significant other again and you know forgiveness it out of the question, there’s no point in you staying with them any longer.

What are some other steps to take after being betrayed by your partner? Comment below.

Robin Roberts Publicly Thanks Longtime Girlfriend After Cancer Battle

By April Littleton

People revealed that Robin Roberts publicly thanked loved ones, along with partner Amber Laign, for sticking by her side through her battle with cancer. “I am grateful for my entire family, my long time girlfriend, Amber, and friends as we prepare to celebrate a glorious new year together,” Roberts wrote on her Facebook. The couple have been together for 10 years ever since meeting through mutual friends.

How do you support your partner through a serious illness?

Cupid’s Advice:

A partner’s illness can put a strain on the relationship, especially if you’ve never had to go through something like this before. But there are plenty of ways to help your love through a rough moment in their live without losing them romantically in the process. Cupid has some tips:

1. Communicate: When it comes to a serious illness, both of you need to help each other come to terms with what’s going on. Your partner will have good days and some bad ones as well. All you really need to do is just be there for them – through it all. Maintain an open line of communication. When you’re feeling down, let your significant other know and vice versa. You’ll only have each other during this difficult time and the illness will surely test the strength of your relationship.

2. Space: Sometimes, you and your honey will want some time alone and that’s OK. Plan one day out of the week where you and your partner ( as long as they’re feeling up to it) can go out and do things on your own. Even if it’s just a short visit to the nail salon or to see a matinee movie, the space will do you both some good.

3. Distractions: Don’t avoid the illness altogether, but it is a good idea to work on some other activities that kind of distract from the bad situation. Spend some time with mutual friends or maybe go for a few walks every once in a while. Whatever makes your partner happy will also make them feel better physically.

What are some other ways to support your partner through a serious illness? Comment below.

Khloe Kardashian Says She’s ‘Excited for This Year to Be Over’ Post-Divorce Filing

By April Littleton

According to People, Khloe Kardashian is ready to start fresh in 2014. “I’m excited for this year to be over with,” she told U.K.’s Cosmopolitan. The Keeping up with the Kardashians star filed for divorce from Lamar Odom earlier this month, but she’s determined to look on the bright side of things. “I don’t regret anything about my life. My life has made me who I am at this moment, and I’m very happy with who I am,” Kardashian said. “No matter if it’s great, disgusting, beautiful or ugly, it happens and it makes you you. Life is about how you process things.”

What are some ways to cope with a recent breakup?

Cupid’s Advice:

Breaking up with someone you care about will unleash a swirl of emotions you didn’t know you could ever feel all at once. Some people know how to deal with these feelings in the right way, while other may need a little guidance to help them get through it. Cupid is here to help:

1. Get in shape: There’s no better way to get over a breakup than by getting yourself back in the best shape possible. By going to the gym, you’ll be letting out some of your frustrations in a positive way. By the time you’re officially over your ex, you’ll be looking better than ever.

2. Busy bee: Keep yourself distracted until you can work out your feelings in a healthy way. Continue to work as you usually would, and spend more time with your friends and family. Maintain a schedule that works for you and try to keep contact between you and your ex as limited as possible.

3. Vent: Don’t let your emotions build up inside you. If you’re feeling upset or sad about the end of your relationship, talk to someone you trust about the situation. You can ask for some useful advice or maybe you just need someone to hear you out. Either way, some of your good friends or close family members won’t mind helping you out in your time of need.

How did you cope with a recent breakup? Share your experience below.

Dean McDermott is Accused of Cheating on Wife Tori Spelling

By Brittany Stubbs

After seven years of marriage, it doesn’t look like Dean McDermott and Tori Spelling are living their happy ending. UsMagazine.com reports that McDermott cheated on Spelling with 28-year-old Emily Goodhand while promoting his gig as host of Chopped Canada in Toronto on Dec. 6th. After meeting Goodhand through friends that day, McDermott invited her up to his room at the Fairmont Royal York Hotel where she claims they had sex. “He told me he and Tori had a sexless marriage,” says Goodhand, who stayed the night with him the following night as well. “I believed him.”

What are some signs that your partner is cheating?

Cupid’s Advice:

Being cheated on by someone you love is extremely hurtful. While you want to trust your spouse, if you’re wondering if they might be cheating, look out for these signs:

1. Credit card activity: If you have access to your partner’s bank account and notice there’s a number of charges that don’t make sense, this might be a red light. For example, dinners at nice restaurants, hotel reservations, etc. Are your partner’s credit card bills no longer sent to your house or visible to you? This might be another sign to question.

2. Sketchy phone behavior: Do they have a passcode you don’t know? Do they step out to take calls, text under the table, or take their phone with them to the bathroom? These might be signs that they’re hiding something.

3. Their appearance has changed: According to the Huffington Post article “Cheating Signs: 10 Classic Signs Your Spouse May Be Cheating,” one of the first signs that should make you suspicious your partner might be cheating is if he or she is suddenly dressing much better out of the blue. If your partner is notorious for running around town in sweats and is all of a sudden putting more effort into dressing up and getting ready, it could be a sign there might be someone new they’re trying to impress.

How have you discovered someone cheating? Share your experiences below.

JWoww and Fiance Roger Matthews are Expecting First Child

By Brittany Stubbs

Another Jersey Shore alum is pregnant! Jenni “JWoww” Farley is expecting her first child with fiance Roger Mathews, UsMagazine.com confirms. Farley, now in her second trimester, revealed her pregnancy news to family and friends in a Christmas card that showed off a sonogram image. “We couldn’t have wished for a better gift this Christmas! Happy Holidays from our growing family to yours! Love, Jenni, Roger and arriving July, 2014 Baby Mathews.” Farley also shared the big news on her website. “We wanted to share this exciting news with you all first because you have been a part of our lives these past few years and seen the love between Roger and me develop and blossom,” she told fans.

What are ways to prepare your relationship for a child?

Cupid’s Advice:

Whether you’re newly engaged or have been with your partner for several years, having a child is a huge step in any relationship. Though beautiful creatures, a child will challenge and push you to your limits. The best thing you can do for your relationship when expecting a child is knowing what’s ahead and preparing yourself for the future:

1. Expect change: It’s no longer just you and your significant other; you have a new family member to take care of and think about. And this member doesn’t care how much sleep you got before, how you gave up your home office for a nursery, or the weekend getaways you can no longer go on. Accepting early on that there will be changes in your lifestyle will make the transition easier.

2. Prepare yourself for the worst: Being a parent is difficult, especially in the beginning. You’ll often feel over-worked, sleep deprived, and helpless at times. This can lead to fighting and even feeling disconnected from your partner. Knowing that this is normal and just a phase, can keep you from over-analyzing it, adding to your stress.

3. Budget for your baby: Setting financial boundaries ahead of time can prepare you for the costly reality of a child. Discussing specific sacrifices you each will make – whether it be giving up trips to the nail salon or a membership at the golf club – can reduce financial worries for both of you.

What are ways you’ve prepared your relationship for a child? Share your experiences below.

Are Ashley Benson and Ex-Boyfriend Ryan Good Dating Again?

By April Littleton

According to UsMagazine.com, Ashley Benson and former flame Ryan Good might be dating again. The pair were seen together Friday, Dec. 20. at the Boom Boom Room in New York City. “Ryan and Ashley were kissing each other all night,” an insider said.

How do you know whether to get back with your ex or not?

Cupid’s Advice:

You and your ex might have mixed feelings about each other, especially if the two of you are still in each other’s lives. Should you try to rekindle the flame? Would giving love a second chance hurt the friendship the two of you managed to develop? Cupid has some tips:

1. Still on good terms: The breakup between you and your ex wasn’t too bad. In fact, you and your former flame are still really good friends. If things ended on a good note, there is still a chance the two of you can make things work. You know where it went wrong, so you should be able to fix it.

2. Can’t get over it: When you think about the love lost between you and your ex, you’re filled with regret. Sometimes, you don’t realize what you have until it’s gone. If your ex spends a lot of time with you, then he/she is obviously not over you either.

3. You’re still in love: If you’re still in love with your ex and believe you can fix the mistakes in your relationship, then give it another chance. The heart wants what it wants and you ignoring your real feelings will only make the situation worse.

How did you know whether to get back with your ex or not? Share your experience below.

‘Supernatural’ Star Jared Padalecki Welcomes Second Son

By April Littleton

According to People, Jared Padalecki and his wife Genevieve Cortese Padalecki welcomed their second son Sunday, Dec. 22. “My amazingly strong wife home-birthed a happy and healthy baby boy last night. Please send love,” the Supernatural star wrote on his Twitter. The couple are already parents to Thomas Colton, 21 months, and married Feb. 2010.

How do you prepare differently for your second son than your first?

Cupid’s Advice:

Preparing for a second child is just as difficult it was the first time around. Not only will you have to find a way to manage your money to fit the needs of four people rather than three, but you’ll also have to prepare your first child for what’s to come as well. Cupid is here to help:

1. Communicate with your first child: If your first child is old enough to understand what’s going on, let them know about your new bundle of joy. Create a sense of excitement for your daughter/son so they won’t feel threatened by the idea of having a sibling. Let them know that when the baby comes, they’ll be able to help out by reading bedtime stories, changing diapers and just being the best older brother/sister they can be.

2. Look through the closet: Before you go out and buy new baby items, look through some of the old clothes and toys you already have from your previous pregnancy. If the baby is the same gender, you can reuse almost everything you already have.

3. Budget: You already have a little family. You’re just bringing in a new addition. To prepare yourself for the added expenses a second child will bring in, you need to come up with a set budget. Along with the everyday items you spend money on, you will now need to figure in diapers, bottles, etc. to the equation.

What are some other ways to prepare differently for your second son than your first? Comment below.

Gabrielle Union and Dwayne Wade Get Engaged

By Kerri Sheehan

Gabrielle Union and Dwyane Wade are getting hitched! The 31-year-old NBA player got down on one knee for the 41-year-old actress this past weekend in Miami, Fl. Wade slipped an 8.5 carat diamond ring by Jason of Beverly Hills onto Union’s finger. According to UsMagazine.com Union tweeted a picture of the diamond stunner followed by, “Maaaaaannn… I’m floatin! Thank you SO much for all the love, well wishes & support!”

How do you make sure your marriage proposal is a surprise?

Cupid’s Advice:

Every woman dreams of the perfect proposal. Let Cupid help you act out her dream.

1. Surprise yourself: Try keeping the ring on you at all times for a couple of weeks and then popping the question when you’re truly feeling inspired and in love. By surprising yourself you’ll guarantee that the bride to be will be surprised too!

2. Enlist help: Asking your family and friends to keep the secret will help you plan a proposal to remember. A scavenger hunt with you waiting at the end is a common, yet special wedding proposal.

3. Don’t leave a trail: If you really want to pull off a surprise wedding proposal then don’t leave a trail for your girl to follow! If she suspects anything out of the ordinary then she will likely snoop around a little and uncover your secret.

How did you propose? Share below.

Rachel Zoe Welcomes Her Second Son

By Kerri Sheehan

Rachel Zoe and her husband Rodger Berman welcomed a second son into their family this weekend! The celebrity stylist turned fashion designer added another baby on board with son Kaius Jagger Berman. According to People, 42-year-old Zoe announced via Twitter, “So excited to welcome our baby boy into the world … he’s 7 lbs., 12 oz., beautiful, healthy and we couldn’t be happier,”

How do you prepare for your second child versus your first?

Cupid’s Advice:

Preparing for your second child can be confusing. Let Cupid help you out:

1. Siblings: Make sure the older siblings are mentally prepared for the new addition to the family. They are the ones who will notice the change in the family dynamic so prepare them for the change.

2. Work together: You and your partner should keep the division of labor very egalitarian. If one feels like they are taking over most of the work then communicate that to the other.

3. Prepare the house: Adding another child likely means turning a room into a bedroom. Put together the nursery ahead of time so you’ll be ready when baby comes along.

How would you prepare for your second child? Share below.

‘Glee’ Star Dot-Marie Jones Ties the Knot

By April Littleton

According to People, Glee star Dot-Marie Jones married her longtime girlfriend Bridgett Casteen Saturday night at their Los Angeles home. Close friends of the lovebirds were invited to the celebration. Jones proposed to Casteen during the Gay Days Anaheim weekend in October.

How do you know when you’re ready to marry your partner?

Cupid’s Advice:

Marrying a significant other is a huge decision to make. Many factors should be considered before you take your first steps down the aisle. Cupid is here to help:

1. Similar goals: You and your significant other need to have some common interests. How many kids do you want? How important is having a career to your partner? What will the two of you be willing to sacrifice in order to have a stable life together? If the two of you can’t seem to agree on any answers to the questions above, then you might not be right for each other.

2. Unconditional love: You love everything about your honey. All of the little odd quirks your partner has brings a smile to your face and you wouldn’t change a thing about him/her. Marriage takes work and commitment, but being with the love of your life will only seem like a burden if you can’t accept all of who your partner is.

3. Family and friends: Your loved ones opinion of your companion should weigh heavy on your decide to marry or not. You don’t want to be with someone who doesn’t get along with your close friends and family. Some of your loved ones may not dig your honey, but the majority of them should have a positive attitude toward the thought of the two of you tying the knot.

How did you know when you were ready to marry your partner? Share your experience below.

Daphne Oz: “It’s Such an Adventure Being Pregnant”

By Whitney Johnson

Like any mother-to-be, Daphne Oz has been excitedly preparing for her upcoming arrival. She recently took a big step and picked out baby furniture at Delta’s Children showroom in New York City.

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“I’ve loved every minute of being pregnant. It’s such an adventure, and everything feels so new and exciting! Since we don’t know what we’re having, I’ve been designing the nursery in all neutrals — white, creams and grays — with lots of plush textures and soft things for baby,” The Chew co-host recently told Celebrity Baby Scoop. “My mom has been helping me, which is so much fun as we create a welcoming environment for the newest addition to our family.”

Kris Jenner Says Kim Kardashian and Kanye West’s Wedding Will Be Big

By April Littleton

Looks like Kim Kardashian might be planning another huge wedding extravaganza. “We have a pretty big family,” Kris Jenner told People. “I don’t think it will be two people in a chapel, if you know what I mean!” The couple, who got engaged at a San Francisco stadium in October, haven’t set a wedding date yet. They currently live with Jenner, along with their daughter, North West.

What are some ways to decide how big your wedding should be?

Cupid’s Advice:

Big or small? Simple or extravagant? The overall style of your wedding is ultimately up to you and your partner, but there are some things you should keep in mind before you make your special day a free-for-all to all of your family and friends. Cupid has some tips:

1. Budget: How big your wedding is should be based on how much you’re willing to spend. If you plan on going all out, then the obvious choice would be to invite as many people as you want. However, if you’re on a tight budget, a small ceremony and reception might be the only thing you can afford after you add up the rest of the wedding expenses.

2. Family and friends: Think about how many loved ones you and your partner have altogether. Whether it be because of personal or money issues, not everyone will be able to attend your wedding. Make sure you and your honey create a priority invite list for people who are close to you and immediate family. Fill up the guest list as needed, but you don’t need to invite acquaintances or co-workers you barely speak to.

3. Privacy: You won’t get to enjoy the benefits of an intimate, private wedding if you invite many people. If that’s not something you’re concerned about, then make sure everyone knows about your special day.

What are some other ways to decide how big your wedding should be? Comment below.