As reported in US Magazine, Tori Spelling (90210) has been happily married to Dean McDermott (Santa Baby 2) since 2006, when they eloped on a private island in Fiji.  To celebrate their fourth anniversary last month, they invited guests to see them renew their promises of love and they recited their vows in a sandbox while their kids played at their feet!  With what seems like unconditional love, why does Spelling, in her new book, Uncharted terriTORI, reveal her concern that McDermott may cheat on her?

How can you overcome fears of infidelity despite having a strong relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Partnerships are a mix of both good and bad twists and turns, which no one can truly prepare for.  However, fear of betrayal can be prevented with some strategic planning and simple faith.  See how Cupid breaks it down for you:

1. Love: Just show it.  Don’t hide it, and don’t smother the other person.  This should come naturally, and should be enough to keep your mind from your worries.

2. Trust: If you’ve chosen to marry someone, trust should already be ingrained into your relationship.  It’s natural to have doubts; take time to talk to your partner about them.

3. Live your life: All the planning in the world can’t promise faithfulness, but your best defense is to love your mate, and ensure they’re a part of your life mentally, emotionally, and physically.  If they are thinking of you, there won’t be room for others.

For more on Tori and Dean, go to:
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