Arnold Schwarzeneggar and Maria Shriver. Photo: Lee Roth / RothStock / PR Photos
If she’s upset, she sure isn’t showing it! Maria Shriver looked happier than ever when she visited Tra Di Noi restaurant with her kids Katherine, Christina and Christopher; a few friends; and her bodyguard on Sunday night. RadarOnline reported that Shriver hired a high-profile divorce attorney, Laura Wasser, to represent her against ex-spouse Arnold Schwarzenegger. Schwarzenegger admitted to fathering a child by his and Shriver’s former housewife.
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Arnold Schwarzeneggar and Maria Shriver. Photo: Lee Roth / RothStock / PR Photos
By Dr. Judy Kuriansky
After 25 years of marriage to Maria Shriver, Arnold Schwarzenegger revealed that he had been hiding a love child from the public. Arnold’s behavior is a serious insult – and the ultimate betrayal – to Maria, especially having this affair in her household and keeping it a secret for so long.
It will take a long time for Maria to rebuild trust in any relationship, and we now have a deeper understanding of her request on the web. Uncertain transitions in life can be traumatic. As stated in a video shared on YouTube, Maria says, “As you know, transitions are not easy. I’d love to get your advice on how you’ve handled transitions in your own life. It’s so stressful to not know what you’re doing next. People ask you what are you doing and then they can’t believe that you don’t know what you’re doing.”
Maria is reaching out to others for advice on how to transition to the next phase of her life. For many women, Maria’s outreach is reassuring. For a public figure to express that her future is unknown is both a positive and comforting example for those experiencing similar turmoil. Maria now has the opportunity to stand for the empowerment of women by respecting herself, having a high self-esteem, trusting her independence and not tolerating bad behavior.
Dr. Judy Kuriansky is a world renowned radio advice host, clinical psychologist, certified sex therapist, popular lecturer, newspaper columnist, author of many books, including The Complete Idiot’s Guide ® to a Healthy Relationship and saw Arnold and Maria’s love bloom firsthand at their engagement party. To help Maria and women everywhere, she has offered three suggestions to handle transitions in life:
Arnold Schwarzenegger. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos
Lately, the news has been filled with the tragic separation of Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver after a long-kept secret surfaced that the former governor of California fathered a child with Mildred Patricia Baena, a housekeeper and assistant in the family home. This shocking affair, however, also may have resulted in a divorce between Mildred Baena and her former husband, Rogelio de Jesus Baena. The couple split in 2008 over “irreconcilable differences.” According to People, contrary to the birth certificate that identifies Rogelio as the father, the divorce documents between the Baenas do not mention any minor children.
Kelsey and Camille Grammer have been through rough times lately, and now there are even more issues to resolve. Court records reveal that Kelsey, 56, has filed for sole custody of their children, Mason and Jude. “Any statement would be inappropriate,” Kelsey’s rep told People. “The filing speaks for itself.” Papers were filed in LA County Superior Court, which states the <i>Real Housewives</> star would have her children half of their summer and winter breaks.
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Famed serial cheater Jesse James recently defended his bad behavior by pointing out that he’s not the only one, reports UsMagazine.com. The Monster Garage star told Men’s Journal, “I never shied away from anything I did. I took full responsibility. I cheated on my wife. Guess what? So do millions of other men.” The 42-year-old, who divorced Sandra Bullock last year, is currently engaged to Kat Von D.
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Jessica Simpson and Nick Lachey. Photo: Albert L. Ortega / PR Photos
By Tanni Deb
We’ve all had a moment when we’ve stared wide eyed in utter shock at the TV screen after finding out our favorite celebrity couple has split, trying to figure out what went wrong. After all, this pair seemed to be in such a happy relationship!
There will always be famous duos that we think about months (or ever years!) down the line, wondering if they’ll ever reconcile. While the possibility may be a long shot, no one can help wishful thinking. With that said, here are five celebrity couples we would like to reunite:
Arnold Schwarzeneggar and Maria Shriver. Photo: Lee Roth / RothStock / PR Photos
Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver are parting ways after 25 years of marriage. People reports that the power couple, who have four children together, consider the split a mutual decision. “After a great deal of thought, reflection, discussion, and prayer, we came to this decision together,” they say in a statement. “At this time, we are living apart, while we work on the future of our relationship.” Shriver, 55, a TV journalist and a Kennedy, and Schwarzenegger, 63, a bodybuilder-turned-actor-turned-governor, were an unlikely pair from the start, but managed to stay committed to each other despite their differences.
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When it comes to dating and relationships, do you ever feel confused and unsure how to maneuver around the often bumpy terrain? If so, Donna Estes Antebi is here to help. The entrepreneur, patent holder, business consultant, author, blogger and life coach has made it her mission to help women from all walks of life navigate modern-day relationships. Her latest book, The Real Secrets Women Only Whisper has a warning: “Keep this book away from men!” because of her real insight into the nature of men’s minds. She gives women brutally honest advice about sex, love, dating, money, marriage, divorce, cheating, children and everything in between. According to Antebi, “Every single woman who reads it will absolutely utilize one piece of information in there that will change her life for the better.”
We spoke with Antebi via phone last month. Take a look at what she had to say:
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By Tanni Deb and Molly Jacob
Did you ever hear the phrase, “April showers bring May flowers”? Believe it or not, it means something deeper than just storms and blossoming blooms. In life, dark clouds always eventually pass, allowing the sun to shine through. Focusing on the bright side when you’re down can be difficult, but these five famous couples have gone through rough times (in the public eye, no less!) and these celebs are currently doing exceptionally well.
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Brandi Glanville and Elin Nordegren are finally moving on from their bitter breakups. Glanville, 38, divorced actor Eddie Cibrian after UsMagazine.com broke the news that he was having an affair with LeAnn Rimes. Elin Nordegren also knows a thing or two about infidelity. After finding out that her husband, pro golfer Tiger Woods, cheated on her with multiple women, the 31-year-old Swedish supermodel also filed for divorce. Glanville is trying to move on by making an appearance on Bravo’s The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, while Nordegren has been playing the field, most recently dating a banker in Florida.
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Mark-Paul Gosselaar and Lisa Ann Russell. Photo: Lee Roth / RothStock / PR Photos
In the midst of a painful divorce, Mark-Paul Gosselaar and his estranged wife have found some common ground, according to People. The former Saved By the Bell star filed for divorce from wife Lisa Ann Russell in June, citing “irreconcilable differences.” The couple, who were married for 14 years, both filed for joint custody of their children, Michael Charles, 7, and Ava Lorenn, 5.
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Charlie Sheen and Brooke Mueller. Photo: Robert Kenney / PR Photos
They’re no longer hitched! Charlie Sheen’s divorce was finalized Monday, reports RadarOnline. Charlie Sheen and ex-wife Brooke Mueller married in 2008, and share two children together: 2 year-old twins Max and Bob. The pair’s marriage began to crumble after Sheen was arrested for domestic violence charges after attacking Mueller with a knife. Sheen filed for divorce on November 1st, and after waiting the mandatory six months, is happy to be released from his marriage.
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Eddie Cibrian and LeAnn Rimes. Photo: Revolutionpix/FAMEFLYNET
LeAnn Rimes celebrated Easter as a new wife after marrying beau Eddie Cibrian last weekend, according to UsMagazine.com. The 28-year-old actress and singer gushed about her new hubby and his two kids when she tweeted, “Brunch w/my husband on the beach, massages and an impromptu Easter Egg hunt w/ 2 special boys! Perfect day, perfect weekend!” Cibrian, 38, and Rimes met in 2008 on a movie set and famously started dating while married to other people.
Halle Berry, Gabriel Aubry and daughter Nahla Ariela Aubry. Photo: PR Photos Candids
The rumored custody battle between Halle Berry and Gabriel Aubry might be coming to a close, reports People. The duo, who split last April, have been recently engaging the court’s help to solve their issues revolving around their daughter, Nahla, 3. “When there’s a child involved, it’s a relief when you can resolve things in a good way,” says Berry, who also mentioned that the court proceedings have gone well. “Our issues were never about fighting for her. We both know a child needs both her parents. But what I want to say about it is sometimes, as a couple, you reach an impasse. We needed a court and a judge to help us work out some of the delicate issues, and I’m so happy we’ve arrived at that place — because for her sake, this is the best way. We both love her more than life.”
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Leah Messer and Corey Simms. Photo: Gangster#1/Flynetpictures.com
Just six months after the wedding of Teen Mom stars Leah Messer and Corey Simms, the two are filing for divorce. According to UsMagazine.com, the couple had just decided that everything was moving way too fast, especially considering their ages (16). Pre-marriage, Messer said, “I didn’t want to jump into something else and be like, ‘Oh, s**t! What did we do?. Three years ago, back before I was pregnant, I never thought I’d be married now. I was scared because a lot of people who marry young end up divorcing within a year.” Although the two are now in the middle of their divorce, their friends hope that they can work it out.
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David Arquette’s chaotic months are behind him. Arquette thoroughly explained his new outlook on life toPeopleat Hollywood Bites Back on Saturday. ” I went through a really hard time, and my way of dealing with it was just to blow it all up,” said Arquette. “I did act childish[ly], but at the same time I had to — I was really hurt. It was hard for me to deal with this, but what I had to do ultimately was step back and take a look at myself.” The Scream 4 actor went on to say, “I’m really getting in touch with my feelings, and trying to process them in a more appropriate way.”
The celebrity lens can make relationships look frivolous. Two year courtships disintegrate as easily as a pair of worn-out running shoes, and headlines of “Betrayed,” “Cheating,” and the big “D” – Divorce – along with paparazzi shots of miserable stars fill the newsstands daily. Divorce is an issue Cupid’s Pulse takes seriously, and who better to talk about it than Judge Lynn Toler from the popular TV series Divorce Court? As a celebrity divorce expert, she has more than enough experience to offer solid, real-world advice for our readers.
For the past five years, Judge Toler has been the host of television’s longest running court program. A Harvard graduate, she has written two books, including My Mother’s Rules – which not only shares the wisdom of her mother, but takes an honest look at her childhood as the daughter of a man who struggled with both mental illness and alcoholism. She has seen divorce firsthand countless times and has been part of the messy situations that can arise when two people who took vows of love are now each other’s worst enemies. We asked Judge Toler for her perspective on divorce, relationships and Hollywood couples. Take a look at what she had to say:
Arun Nayar and Elizabeth Hurley. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos
This past Friday, Elizabeth Hurley filed for divorce from her husband Arun Nayar. According to People, Hurley blames the divorce on husband, Nayar’s “unreasonable behavior.” What seems to be confusing to the public, however, are the photos that surfaced in December of Hurley kissing an Australian cricket star, Shane Warne, outside a restaurant in London. Hurley took the opportunity to explain herself via Twitter, saying, “For the record, my husband Arun and I seperated a few months ago. Our close friends & family were aware of this.”
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Brooke Mueller and Charlie Sheen. Photo: Juan Rico/Fame Pictures
Sometimes it’s easy to forget that in the middle of the media frenzy, Charlie Sheen and wife Brooke Mueller have two young boys to worry about. E! Online reports that the soon-to be divorced couple have finally reached a custody agreement for their 2-year-old twin sons, Bob and Max. According to a source, Sheen gets the twins every other weekend and after four months, if he passes a drug test, he gets to see them up to four days a week. In addition, both parents must have nannies present at all times.
Claire Nolan and Chris Pontius. Photo: Chris Hatcher / PR Photos
Jackass star Chris Pontius has split with his wife of nearly seven years, Claire Nolan, reportsUsMagazine.com. Nolan filed for divorce last week in L.A. County Superior Court. The couple share no children.
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Tish Cyrus and Billy Ray Cyrus. Photo: Albert L. Ortega / PR Photos
In a shocking announcement last week, Billy Ray Cyrus told the ladies of The View that he had decided to drop the much-publicized divorce between himself and wife, Tish. The 17-year marriage that spawned teen sensation Miley Cyrus was in danger of dissolving last year when the Cyruses filed for divorce, citing “irreconcilable differences.” After seeing how much the divorce was hurting the family, Billy Ray decided to call it off, reports RadarOnline. “I dropped the divorce. I wanted to put my family back together,” he says. He also cited communication as one of the their biggest problems, and added, “I think for the first time me and my entire family are finally communicating with each other.”
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Jennifer Esposito and Bradley Cooper. Photo: Flynet Pictures
Hangover 2 hottie Bradley Cooper came clean last week about his four month marriage to Jennifer Esposito during a Howard Stern interview, reports UsMagazine.com. Cooper, who has been linked most recently with Renee Zellweger, tied the knot with Esposito back in Decemmber 2006 and, according to Cooper, the two decided amicably to divorce in March of 2007. Cooper told Stern, “The good thing is, we both realized it…Sometimes you just realize it.”
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It’s official: Eva Longoria is over Tony Parker. The Desperate Housewives star was recently spotted smooching new beau Eduardo Cruz at an L.A. restaurant, according to RadarOnline. Longoria split from San Antonio Spurs player Tony Parker in November 2010 after three years of marriage. The 35-year-old actress has rebounded with singer (and Penelope Cruz’s brother), Eduardo Cruz, 10 years her junior. Last month, Eva tweeted that she is ready to move on. “Starting over is hard to do, but life goes on. I pray for strength, courage and wisdom on my new journey.”
Ashlee Simpson and Pete Wentz. Photo: Janet Mayer / PR Photos
A simple divorce may be easier said than done when it comes to Ashlee Simpson and Pete Wentz, reports People. The pair announced the end of their two year marriage last month when Simpson filed for divorce. Initially, the couple made a joint statment saying, “We remain friends and deeply committed and loving parents to our son Bronx, whose happiness and well-being remains our No. 1 priority.” Now, Wentz has filed a divorce response in Los Angeles. Simpson had orginally filed for divorce requesting sole custody of their two-year-old son. Wentz’s request seeks joint custody. Since the divorce proceedings still fairly fresh, it’s difficult to say whether or not a custody battle is in the works.
