Thomas Edwards, founder of The Professional Wingman, answers an age-old question in this video interview with Single in Stilettos founder Suzanne Oshima: What are men attracted to when you’re out? The dating expert reveals how to give men signals that you’re interested; what men are looking for; why men aren’t approaching you; how to give a guy your number without seeming desperate; how to tell a man you’re not interested; and more. Listen up before your next night out!

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Tell us: What do you think guys are attracted to when you’re out?