By Jessica Conigliaro

After a surprise separation last fall, Danny DeVito and Rhea Perlman are back together, People reports. The two have been working on their relationship for the past few months and seem to have worked through their problems. “They love each other,” says a friend of the couple. “Always have and always will.”

What are some ways to work on your relationship if you’re having problems?

Cupid’s Advice:

You and your partner have been arguing for the last few weeks. You want the fight to end without the relationship ending as well. Cupid’s here to give some advice on how to work through your problems together:

1. Talk it through: Your boyfriend has been having a difficult time at work and takes his frustrations out on you. You of course are fed up with his attitude and want things to go back to normal for you two. Tell your partner how upset you get whenever he yells for no reason. Let him know you understand his work problems and want to help, but yelling will get him nowhere. He will feel comforted knowing he has you to work through his problems with.

2. Remember the good: If you and your love seem to be fighting a lot lately, take a step back from the situation and ask yourself why you are getting so mad. If you can’t think of a solid reason, it is possible you are just getting at each other’s throats for no reason. Remember how happy you are with your man and the fighting should be greatly reduced as a result.

3. Take a breather: Sometimes, the best thing to do during a heated argument is to simply walk away. Before you say or do anything you will regret, tell your man you are going for a walk but will be back for dinner. Make sure he knows you are just stepping away shortly and will be returning. Some time away will allow you to clear your heads and gain a better perspective on the situation.

How do you and your love work through your problems? Share in the comments below.