By Kerri Sheehan

Singer Beyonce Knowles stepped out in New York City this Saturday to attended Kanye West’s birthday party. She squelched rumors of another pregnancy by sporting a midriff baring black and white striped number, reported UsMagazine.com.

What are some ways to avoid pressure to have kids? 

Cupid’s Advice: 

Don’t let peer pressure force you into having kids. Cupid has some advice about how to stay above it all:

1. You do you: It’s your life so no one has the right to decide when or how many children you want to have. The decision is one hundred and ten percent your own and your partner’s, don’t let other attempt to sway you.

2. Know what you want: People will be able to change your mind easily if you’re not fully sure what you want. Think about the logistics of it all and about how many kids you can really see yourself raising that way if someone tries to convince you otherwise you know your talking points.

3. Follow your instincts: In the end you know what’s best for you. If you get a bad feeling when you think about having more kids, then it probably isn’t for you. Kids really effect a relationship, so it’s understandable to not want too many. Follow your gut, as it knows what you really want.

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