Are you trying to keep the spark alive in your relationship?  Try lazy lingerie!  Former Real Housewives of New York City star Bethenny Frankel kept the romantic sparks in her relationship alive this Valentine’s Day with the help of just that.  “You have to make an effort … I actually have a line coming out which is Skinny Girl Smoothers and shapers and they include lazy lingerie.  Because it’s something you wear under a blazer or sweater and then you take off the sweater, and now you have lingerie!” she said in an interview on RadarOnline.  Frankel also spilled more secrets on how she and her husband, Jason Hoppy, keep the sparks alive in their marriage.  “We do date night once a week.  We switch off on who chooses the surprise place we’re going to go and we usually pick some hip place so we can still feel like we’re cool…”

What are some ways to keep the spark alive in your relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Keeping the excitement in a relationship can be tough.  Cupid is here to offer some advice on keeping the romantic sparks in your love life from disappearing:

1. New hobby: Pick up a new hobby that both you and your partner will enjoy.  Not only will trying out a new activity be fun, but you’lll also discover new talents in each other.

2. Surprise him/her: Relationships become dull when they become routines.  Surprise your significant other by taking him/her to a vocation or a play.  Even something as simple as giving flowers will make his or her day.

3. Communicate: Keep the spark alive by being attentive to each others’ needs.  Your relationship and respect for one another will grow as you both continue to share opinions and feelings.

For more on Bethenny Frankel:
Bethenny Frankel: A Place of Yes
Bethenny Frankel On the Hardest Part of Being a Mom
Sex in the Suburbs: An Interview with Bethenny Frankel