Last night’s episode of The Bachelor featured the four coveted hometown dates and there were a lot of tells when it came to body language. Based on Sean’s behavior, it was obvious to me that he’s attracted to these girls, but he isn’t ready to move forward with anyone just yet. It looks like reality just hit him on the hometown dates that the goal of the show is marriage. He says he’s excited for that next step, yet he’s showing extreme signs of anxiety: heavy breathing, lack of eye contact and shrugging. Sean is more uncertain about his future than ever before.
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By Eleanore Wells
When did Valentine’s Day become such a BIG deal? At some point when I wasn’t looking, it went from being a lighthearted, fun, semi-holiday to another over-the-top, loud, commercial holiday that comes with feelings of annoyance and angst for so many. It’s not really about who you love anymore; instead, it’s about gifts and lavish displays of…well, I’m not sure what.
As a kid, I loved this holiday. I got such a kick out of giving out cards with big red hearts on them to all the people who made me happy. I gave them to my parents, my teachers, my favorite classmates, my playmates and even my mailman. Back then, Valentine’s Day was fun, and it was an excuse to tell the people who make you happy how much they mean to you. Romance had nothing to do with it when I was ten years old.
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Dating Advice from E!’s Famously Single Laurel House on Valentine’s Day
Are you still wondering how to celebrate Valentine’s Day this year? Dating mentor Laurel House admits that this holiday has always been stressful for her (even in elementary school!). In this week’s dating advice video, relationship expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House shares her tips for taking charge and overcoming the disappointment of past years’ unmet expectations. Plus, the dating expert reveals how to have the best Valentine’s Day ever, whether you’re single or part of a couple. Listen up, and you’re sure to discover the perfect idea for tomorrow’s big day!
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Question from Candace M.: My boyfriend and I are both traveling for work on Valentine’s Day, but we don’t want to miss out on celebrating the romantic holiday. How can we share our love for each other in a unique and special way even though we’re miles apart?
Whether you’ve been dating your man for a few weeks or a few years, planning a spontaneous and unique date is never easy. Not only do you have to think of something that you’ve never done before, but you have to find an activity that you’ll both (hopefully) enjoy. And with holidays like Valentine’s Day come an added pressure to please your partner.
Tierra and Sean Lowe in St. Croix. Photo: ABC/FRANCISCO ROMAN
By Jared Sais
Since there were only six girls left on this week’s episode, I really wanted to hone in on each of their non-verbal cues and micro-expressions to determine their true feelings for the bachelor. I also focused a lot on Sean’s reaction to each of them to see how he really feels about the remaining ladies.
They say that scent is one of the primary forms of attraction. Lucky for you, in today’s perfume world, there are so many fragrances to choose from that you’re sure to find one that pleases your partner’s senses. For those of you who have yet to discover a scent that screams (or smells like) “you,” Valentine’s Day is a wonderful time to continue your search. Two fragrances that you must try are Britney Spears’s fantasy twist and Juicy Couture’s Couture La La.
Match.com, the world’s largest online dating site, has released findings from their Third Annual Comprehensive Study on the Single Population called ‘Singles in America.’ This study is the largest and most comprehensive nationwide look at the current 107 million single people in America and their romantic dating habits, sexual practices and lifestyles. Over 6,000 people (from a national and unbiased representative sample) were surveyed and polled. Both coupled and single men and women answered over 200 questions on just about everything: how they meet potential partners, what they want out of a relationship, how they view marriage and more. With help from world-renowned biological anthropologist Dr. Helen Fisher from Rutgers University, findings revealed common myths about both married people and singles and explained the misconceptions of singles’ choices, all while taking into consideration the rise of technology in society and its impact on the dating world.
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By Whitney Baker
If you’re trying to plan the perfect Valentine’s Day date for you and your man, you may be feeling a bit stressed as the holiday quickly approaches. Trying to keep the night low-key but romantic and special, you’ve decided to cook a gourmet meal – paired with a nice bottle of wine, of course — before the two of you enjoy a candle-lit dinner and some alone time at home. Perhaps you want to give your partner a sensual massage as a calorie-free dessert. Wanting to look your best, you’ve also bought a new dress and some sexy heels. But what else can you do to let your love know how much you care?
Jordan Lloyd and Jeff Schroeder. Photo courtesy of Jeff.
By Michelle Danzig and Rachael Moore
Jeff Schroeder and Jordan Lloyd instantly had chemistry when they met on the set of Big Brother in 2009. Building a strong friendship first, they formed an alliance on the show and became huge targets in the eyes of their competitors. “Being friends was our only option. We knew there were some romantic feelings, but we didn’t express them because we wanted to win,” said Schroeder.
But being just friends didn’t last long. After Lloyd defeated the rest of her houseguests, walking away with the cash prize, and Schroeder was voted America’s Favorite Houseguest, their relationship developed into something more intimate. This gradual shift from friends to lovers helped them with their communication skills. As she explained, “We are so open with each other and never hold anything back.”
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By Lori Zaslow and Jennifer Zucher, founders of Project Soulmate
In light of the recent reveal that Dan Marino, CBS football commentator and Miami Dolphins’ quarterback legend, fathered a love child in 2005, we can’t help but wonder…
Why do high-powered men cheat on their wives and father love children without thinking they’ll get caught?
Sean Lowe and the ladies at Lake Louise. Photo: ABC/DAVID GRAY
By Jared Sais
Since this episode is the second one this week, let’s jump right into it…
Catherine
So we finally got to see a one-on-one date with Sean and Catherine, and it looks like I need to add her to my top picks. I think Catherine has something no other girl has to offer. She is fun, cute and sexy — she’s a triple threat. Or better yet, she’s a quad threat since she also had a sad story to tell.
When Sean talked about her during his interviews, he really lit up. His eyes widened, and he had a smile from ear to ear. Also, remember from one of my previous articles that, when Sean is really, truly happy, his vein shows on his forehead, either near his eyes or above it. That happened again last night, so I know that he was very happy with his time with Catherine.
Ryan Seacrest and Julianne Hough. Photo: GTRES/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES
By Whitney Baker
While it’s tempting to think that celebrity couples never experience the ups-and-downs of real life, that’s not always the case. Like everyone else, they must survive personal heartbreak, career letdowns and various forms of rejection – and they must do it all in the public eye. Of course, being a Tinseltown twosome means that they have money and means to overcome their stressful lives, perhaps by doing one of the activities below.
Sean Lowe on Monday's group date. Photo: ABC/Rick Rowell
By Jared Sais
I had a big problem with Sean this week. Maybe it started when he gave the rose to Tierra over Jackie. Did anyone else actually scream at the television? He’s incredibly clueless to Tierra’s true colors. Sean, wake up! You’re a wreck, so you’re picking a girl who is a wreck herself.
I really questioned the bachelor when he said, “I don’t want to be naïve. I want people to tell me these things.” Whenever someone tries to tell him something negative about someone else, he sends her home! In doing so, he’s eliminating the girls who truly care for him and giving roses to the girls with a ton of issues. At least tell me that producers have a role in the eliminations to make me feel better.
Lindsay Yenter and Sean Lowe with Sarah Darling. Photo: Matt Baldwin/ABC
By Whitney Baker
Having been a longtime fan of The Bachelor, rising star Sarah Darling loves when her fellow country music artists make special appearances on the show. As many of you saw last night, Darling was that lucky singer on Monday’s episode, performing a surprise concert in Whitefish, Montana, on Sean Lowe’s one-on-one date with Lindsay Yenter.
Why being too picky is ruining your relationship. Photo: monkeybusinessimages / Bigstock.com
By Whitney Baker
When it comes to finding the love of your life, it’s important to know what you want. Even so, having a checklist that you refuse to deviate from means you could miss out on meeting Mr. Right. And if you’re already in a relationship, you may be looking past the good stuff about your man because you’re too hung up on the not-so-right things that you wish you could change. Below are a few reasons why being too picky is ruining your relationship. Pay attention and think about what you need to do before you sabotage your chance for love.
Jason Trawick and Britney Spears. Photo: KM/FAMEFLYNET
By Marni Battista
The latest news in Hollywood is Britney Spears and Jason Trawick’s somewhat long-anticipated breakup. The couple met when Trawick was Brit-Brit’s talent agent, and he gradually transitioned to her beau post-Keven Federline divorce. The two had been engaged for just over a year, and we presume one of their resolutions must have been to start off 2013 single.
Dating Advice from E!’s Famously Single Laurel House on Staying on the Top of His Mind
Even if you’re not on The Bachelor, there’s a good chance that your new man is already dating another girl — or maybe even a few other girls. How can you stand out in a crowd and capture his heart? In this week’s dating advice video, dating expert and E!’s Famously Single dating coach, Laurel House tells us the do’s and don’ts of making him think about you when you’re not together…and even when he’s with someone else.
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For this week’s analysis of The Bachelor, I focus on identifying lies and true feelings rather than my top picks for Sean. Read on to see if you agree with my assessments of Selma, Tierra, Amanda, Sarah and Leslie H.
Selma
Throughout her one-on-one date with Sean, Selma was incredibly close to the bachelor: they locked their hands together and wrapped their arms around each other. She was literally draping herself over him. Proxemics, or the study of space, indicates closeness, and there was definitely a strong attraction between these two.
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Your best friend introduced you to a cute guy last week, and he asked you out to dinner on Friday night. Since you haven’t spent much time with him yet, you’re not sure what he’ll think about your constant trips outside for a cigarette. You definitely don’t want to interrupt your night together…but it is almost impossible for you to refrain from smoking for more than an hour, and it’s silly to do it for someone you hardly know.
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There isn’t much time left before Valentine’s Day, and if you’re anything like the staff here at CupidsPulse.com, we are always looking for unique ideas to celebrate the holiday. Recently, we stumbled upon a very cool way to have a memorable night with your significant other or best girlfriends. It’s called Wine Battles, and we have a feeling it’s going to be a hit once more people hear about it.
If I had to admit my celebrity fashion crushes, Kate Beckinsale would be at the top of the list. Not only does this mother have amazing fashion sense, but her effortless beauty is a showstopper in every weekly magazine.
This first look (image above) is perfect for a day date in the city. A simple tee and vintage-washed jeans will make you appear simple and chic, while some great gold accessories and dark polish will help you catch his eye.
The next outfit shows off the best of spring fashion with a muted print blazer, cropped jeans and dark accessories. Take a cue from Kate’s street style, and pair our favorite spring blazer (below) with your comfortable cropped skinny jeans to step out for a great spring date.
Happy couple at dinner. Photo: iofoto.com / Bigstock.com
By David Wygant
What qualities does a woman desire most in a man? Confidence? Humor? Good looks? No, what a woman wants from the man she is dating is for him to behave like a gentleman.
