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Jan 2, 2015 0

Another Celebrity Pregnancy Begins as Alec & Hilaria Baldwin Share Baby News Again!

Posted In: Baby Beat, Celebrity Relationships
Cupid's Pulse Article: Another Celebrity Pregnancy Begins as Alec & Hilaria Baldwin Share Baby News Again!
Hilaria and Alec Baldwin are expecting their second child together. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos

By Whitney Johnson

New year, new celebrity baby! It looks like there’s going to be another celebrity kid toddling around soon, because Hollywood couple Alec and Hilaria Baldwin rang in 2015 by sharing their celebrity pregnancy news.  According to UsMagazine.com, in the sweet announcement, the actor holds their 16-month-old daughter Carmen as she touches her mom’s growing stomach. Along with the photo, Hilaria wrote: “The sun has set on 2014 and on my year of daily #hilariaypd ….2015 is going to be very exciting as we are thrilled to announce we are expecting another little addition to our family! (tadasana) #yogapostureoftheday.”

The Baldwins’ celebrity pregnancy news shows they’re ecstatic for their newest celebrity baby. How do you think you should prepare differently for a second child?

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Jan 2, 2015 0

Joseph Gordon-Levitt Secretly Marries Girlfriend Tasha McCauley

Posted In: Celebrity Relationships, Tying Knots
Cupid's Pulse Article: Joseph Gordon-Levitt Secretly Marries Girlfriend Tasha McCauley
Joseph Gordon-Levitt is a married man! Photo: David Gabber / PRPhotos.com

By Whitney Johnson

There’s no doubt that Joseph Gordon-Levitt’s Don Jon character would be disappointed: The actor is now a married man! According to UsMagazine.com, he secretly wed girlfriend Tasha McCauley on Dec. 20 at their home. The star, who is known for keeping his private life to himself, opened to Howard Stern about his relationship, saying “I think I’m a pretty good person and a good boyfriend. Yeah, I just wouldn’t want to be with someone who was disrespectful to me.”

What are some benefits of keeping your nuptials under wraps?

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Dec 30, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Handle a Bad Date

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

With the new year quickly approaching, there’s a good chance that you’ll go on an awkward date during the next 365 days. With that thought in mind, on this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima chats with Jen Kelton, the CEO and founder of badonlinedates.com, about how to handle a bad date. Kelton first explains what she considers to be a bad date and then shares her best dating tips for dealing with someone who’s on the phone too much, who behaves inappropriately, or who picks a fight with another guy. Plus, she reveals her funniest bad date story.

Related Link: Ms. Solomon on 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make with Men

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Dec 23, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Why Do I Keep Attracting the Wrong Men?

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to relationship coach Des O’Connor about why you keep attracting the wrong men. Believe it or not, you already have all of the answers to this question! You need to take a look at your past relationships and see what patterns emerge. Follow these steps when you’re ready to start picking the right men: have  a plan in place; decide what type of partner you want; determine if that type of guy goes to the same places as you; know what questions to ask him; and most importantly, stop wasting your time with the wrong men!

Related Link: Why You Can’t Make Him Love You

It’s time to start being honest with yourself and consider what role you’re playing in attracting the wrong men. Then, it’ll be that much easier to find The One!

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Dec 19, 2014 0

Celebrity Mom Jenna Dewan-Tatum Wonders How Others with Babies Have Time to Wear Makeup

Posted In: Baby Beat, Celebrity Relationships
Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Mom Jenna Dewan-Tatum Wonders How Others with Babies Have Time to Wear Makeup
Jenna Dewan-Tatum wonders how moms have time to do their makeup each day. Photo: Emiley Schweich / PR Photos

By Whitney Johnson

Celebrity mom Jenna Dewan-Tatum always looks her best on the red carpet, but she insists that getting ready at home is a bit more challenging since welcoming baby Everly 18 months ago. Her and her husband may be considered one of the hottest celebrity couples, but this celebrity mom is pretty down-to-earth when it comes to how she feels. According to People.com, the actress recently joked that she doesn’t know how other mothers leave the house with their makeup done, much less keep up with all of their products. “I’m like, ‘How does that happen?’ Everly will actually take it from me and go put it somewhere else,” she shared. “I’m like, ‘Okay, I need that makeup back.’ It’s a whole big circus in our household.”

This celebrity mom has to be creative with her baby to prepare for the day. What are some ways to entertain your child while you get ready?

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Dec 17, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: ‘Tis the Season to…Breakup?

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

 

Sure, the holidays are all about kissing under the mistletoe, snuggling by the fire, and walking hand-in-hand as the snow falls. But that’s not all: “From now until Christmas, breakups are steadily on the incline,” dating coach and Screwing the Rules: The No-Games Guide to Love author Laurel House reveals. “In fact, it’s the most popular time of year to breakup. Thankfully, on Christmas, that number actually plummets and picks up again in March.” So why does heartbreak happen so often over the holidays? We want to be surrounded by the people we love; if you don’t truly have those feelings for your partner, it’ll become even more apparent during this busy and stressful time. Listen up for the other reasons that House shares and find out why it’s important to say goodbye now instead of waiting until the new year.

Related Link: Heartbroken? Heal and Move On…Like I Did

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Dec 16, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Move On After a Breakup

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima chats with dating coach and author Abiola Abrams about post traumatic love disorder, which refers to being stuck in the past and unable to heal after a tough breakup. First, you have to identify the signs of this disorder: bed hopping from man to man; spending late hours at the office to avoid dating; jumping into another bad relationship; and being afraid to be alone. If you recognize any of these symptoms in your behavior, it’s time to find a cure, which includes five simple steps. Start by doing a self-assessment; then, list out past relationships and the lessons you’ve learned from them; next, learn how to love yourself unconditionally; additionally, learn more about yourself through the dating process; and finally, take baby steps towards meeting the right man.

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on How to Attract Love in Your Life

Remember that dating is never easy. Despite your heartbreak, don’t get discouraged and just stay focused on finding a healthy relationship with someone special!

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Dec 12, 2014 0

‘Slumdog Millionaire’ Stars Freida Pinto and Dev Patel Breakup After Six Years Together

Posted In: Celebrity Relationships, Tattered Hearts
Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘Slumdog Millionaire’ Stars Freida Pinto and Dev Patel Breakup After Six Years Together
Freida Pinto and Dev Patel breakup after nearly six years together. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos

By Whitney Johnson

All good things must come to an end! According to UsMagazine.com, Slumdog Millionaire costars Freida Pinto and Dev Petal have called it quits after nearly six years of dating. In happier times, the adorable couple considered themselves “soul mates,” but a source confirms that they’ve been over for a while now. “Freida is single and happy,” another source adds. “Friends are setting her up.” Pinto even celebrated her 30th birthday in October with billionaire Siddhartha Mallya by her side.

How do you establish yourself as an individual after being part of a couple for a long time?

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Dec 10, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Busting the Soul Mate Myth

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

 

In this week’s video post, Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House chats with Expectation Hangover author Christine Hassler about soul mates and why she believes you don’t have only one. “Soul mates are anyone that we learn a lesson from,” Hassler explains. “We think our soul mate is this person who’s going to come and make our soul feel whole and complete, but that’s not the case.” She adds, “Your true soul mate is you. Anything you want from someone else is something you’re really yearning to give yourself.”

Related Link: Author Christine Hassler Teaches Us How to Deal with an ‘Expectation Hangover’

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Dec 10, 2014 0

Prince William and Kate Middleton Meet Jay-Z and Beyonce

Posted In: Celebrity Relationships, Forever or Fling?
Cupid's Pulse Article: Prince William and Kate Middleton Meet Jay-Z and Beyonce
Prince William and Kate Middleton met Jay-Z and Beyonce at a Brooklyn Nets game. Photo: FameFlynetUK/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES

By Whitney Johnson

It looks like the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge are enjoying their time stateside so far! On Monday evening, the royal couple attended the Brooklyn Nets vs. Cleveland Cavaliers basketball game. According to UsMagazine.com, Prince William and Kate Middleton “got a standing ovation” when they took their seats during the third quarter, showing just how excited fans are to welcome the pair to New York City. Before the fourth quarter started, the pair met Hollywood royalty when Jay-Z and Beyonce walked across the court to say hello. After the game, they were introduced to players LeBron James and Kevin Garnett, who gave them a tiny jersey for Prince George.

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Dec 9, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Talk About Being Exclusive with Your Partner

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima and dating coach Robert Manni discuss how to talk about being exclusive with your beau. The author of The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love shares five important things to remember when you bring up this subject: make sure it’s a good time to have a serious conversation; do it in person; let him know it means a lot to you; never give him an ultimatum; and remember that it’s about what you both want.

Related Link: Robert Manni on How to Get a Second Date

Ultimately, it’s a conversation between the two of you. Although you may be focused on sharing your feelings with your partner, be sure to listen to him in return. Pay attention to how he responds. If he says he’s just not ready, respect his wishes and be patient. However, if he says he doesn’t want to be exclusive with you, it may be time to move on.

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Dec 2, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: 5 Biggest Dating Mistakes Women Make with Men!

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Ms. Solomon from TheDatingTruth.com about the five biggest dating mistakes that women make with men. Ladies, here are things you often do that are keeping you single: You think you can’t be beautiful and smart; you always have to prove a point; you lead with your credentials and accomplishments; you can’t give a good sound bite and tend to dominate the conversation; and you put down other women.

Related Link: Ms. Solomon on How to Talk to a Guy

If you can avoid making these five dating mistakes, you’ll have a more successful love life in no time!

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Nov 27, 2014 0

Q&A: Should I Be Concerned About My Man’s Social Network Activity with Other Women?

Posted In: Relationship Experts, Suzanne Oshima, Paige Wyatt and Robert Manni Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: Q&A: Should I Be Concerned About My Man’s Social Network Activity with Other Women?
Upset girl looking at her boyfriend's computer. Photo: Feel Photo Art / Bigstock.com

Question from Jane C.: This guy and I have been dating for a few months now, and everything is going great, but I sometimes get bothered by the way he interacts with other girls on social media. It will pop up on my Facebook Newsfeed that he’s liked a bunch of girl’s photos or commented on some girl’s picture. Should I read into this, or am I just being paranoid?

Related Link: Is It Okay If My Boyfriend Texts His Ex?

Suzanne K. Oshima, MatchmakerWhen you’re dating someone exclusively, it just means that you’re not going to date other people. It doesn’t mean that he can’t be friends with other women or like their photos on Facebook.

However, that being said, his behavior could be inappropriate based on the type of photos he’s liking or commenting on. If the photos are innocent in nature, then I wouldn’t be so worried. But if the photos are sexy or provocative photos of the women and he’s making inappropriate comments, then it’s definitely a red flag that he may have a wandering eye. Not to mention the fact that it’s completely disrespectful to you! If the tables were reversed, I’m sure he wouldn’t appreciate you liking and commenting on photos of other men with their shirts off or flexing their muscles.

It’s not something that I would say you should break up over. However, it is something that you should keep an eye out for.

Paige Wyatt, Reality StarThe way people interact online can give you a good insight to their personality. In your boyfriend’s case, he seems to be flirty and outgoing. He doesn’t think twice when he comments on girls’ pictures or posts on their walls because that’s his personality. He probably doesn’t see anything wrong with it. His online interactions are completely innocent to him because he doesn’t think too deeply into them. Although it may not be a problem to him, it is for you. It’s important to be open and honest with your feelings and opinions, so let him know what you’re thinking. Otherwise, he may never change his behavior.

Related Link: Should I Delete or Unfriend My Exes on Social Networks?

Robert Manni, Guy’s GuyIt’s called social media for a reason. People connect online and socialize. Unfortunately, a lot of guys raised on social media think the way to score dates is sitting in front of their laptops in their tightey whiteys and hitting on random women. And that could be the case here. Without knowing the parameters of Jane’s relationship, it’s easy to condemn this guy for blatantly flirting while he’s dating Jane.

If they’re in an exclusive relationship, Jane might ask why he’s so friendly with these other women. If he’s evasive or she doesn’t buy his answer, she has some choices. She can put up with it (not recommended), return the favor and also flirt online, or start dating other people — at least until he realizes what’s good for guys can be very good for the ladies.

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How do you handle concern about your partner’s social media habits? Share with us in the comments below!

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Nov 26, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Do THIS When Meeting His Family Over the Holidays

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

 

If you’re meeting your partner’s parents or introducing him to your family for the first time over the holidays, dating coach Laurel House is here to help. “There are several things you can do to make that greeting less stressful and actually fun for everyone,” she explains. “You just have to remember to keep the romance and connection alive.” Listen up to find out everything you need to know before your beau joins your family’s Thanksgiving table!

Related Link: Laurel House on Meeting Your Partner’s Family Over the Holidays

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Nov 25, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Why You Can’t Make Him Love You

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Duana Welch, PhD, author of Love Factually: 10 Proven Steps from I Wish to I Do!, about why you can’t make a man fall in love with you. Usually, if a woman asks the question, “How can I make a man love me?,” it’s because the relationship is one-sided. It’s impossible to make a man see you as his perfect match if he simply doesn’t have feelings for you. Remember that love is reciprocal — you can’t make him love you if he doesn’t!

Related Link: 5 Signs He’s Interested in You

Listen up to find out what a man looks for in a woman, what a woman wants in a man, and more great dating advice!

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Nov 25, 2014 0

Exclusive Interview: Eric Berniker on Pirate’s Booty Float in Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade: “We’re Excited to Be a Part of That Family Tradition”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives
Cupid's Pulse Article: Exclusive Interview: Eric Berniker on Pirate’s Booty Float in Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade: “We’re Excited to Be a Part of That Family Tradition”
Pirate's Booty unveiled their "Treasure Hunt" float at Macy's Studio. Photo: Mark Tully/Pirate's Booty

By Cortney Cordero

Each year, on the morning of Thanksgiving, many families around the country tune in to watch the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade. This year, the parade embarks on its 88th journey through the streets of Manhattan, but some floats are making this well-known trek for the first time. Pirate’s Booty, an American smart snack food company best known for their rice and corn puffs, is debuting their first float for the event, a pirate ship named the “Treasure Hunt” that measures 40 feet tall, 38 feet long, and 8 feet wide. …Don’t miss the rest! Click here for more.

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Nov 18, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Meet a Guy

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

So many women struggle with the first step when it comes to dating: how to meet a great guy. You can’t just do one or two things and expect the right man to come along; you need to put yourself out there in a variety of ways if you really want to find someone special. On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Tripp to answer this elusive question. If you want to meet men, he recommends that you: go out more; try online dating; make eye contact and smile; compliment him; and always look your best.

Related Link: Tripp on Top 5 Dating Mistakes that Women Make

Listen up for more great dating tips!

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Ladies, what’s your best tip for how to meet a guy? Share with us in the comments below!

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Nov 12, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: How to Make a Guy Fall in Love with You

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

 

At home, you may be the independent woman who fixes that leaky faucet by herself and lights up the grill without a second thought. At work, you may be the boss who oversees a team of employees and keeps everyone in line. While these two roles show off your strength, in order to make a guy fall in love with you, you need to be willing to assert your…weakness. “Yes, men are attracted to confidence and beauty, inside and out. They’re attracted to fun, to enthusiasm,” author of Screwing the Rules: The No-Games Guide to Love and dating coach Laurel House explains. “But if you want them to fall in love, you need to show your vulnerability; you need to surrender; and you need to show your humanity.”

Related Link: Laurel House Reveals Your Must-Have Mantra

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Nov 11, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Best Ways to Start a Conversation with a Man

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

 

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to writer, speaker, and author Zan Perrion about the best way to start a conversation with a man. He’s worked with thousands of men and really knows what they want from women. The problem, he says, with women approaching men to start a conversation is “they’re damned if they do, and they’re damned if they don’t.” If they don’t say hello to that cute guy in the corner, they go home alone because he’s not doing his job and being the man. But if you do make the first move as a woman, even if the relationship works out, you may forever be holding up his end of the bargain. Listen up for more great dating tips from Perrion!

Related Link: Zan Perrion on What Scares a Man Away

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Nov 4, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Are You an Unavailable Woman?

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to passionate living coach and author Abiola Abrams about ways you’re being unavailable and how to attract love in your life. Here are some things you may be doing to block love from entering your life: You’re not really trying to meet the right man; you complain to your friends and family that there are no good men out there; you think all men are cheaters; you think it’s impossible to meet a man because there are more women than men in your city; you keep making excuses as to why you can’t meet someone; you’re stuck in a past relationship; you’re using your looks or work to hold you back; you think men your age just want to date younger women; you think of yourself as a victim; or you’re afraid of the love you deserve, being vulnerable, and/or intimacy.

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

Sure, it’s hard to meet the right guy, but it’s not impossible. If you’re feeling hopeless, it’s time to look inward and consider the advice in the video above!

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Oct 30, 2014 0

How to Meet A Man on Halloween

Posted In: David Wygant Articles, Relationship Experts
Cupid's Pulse Article: How to Meet A Man on Halloween
How to celebrate Halloween with your partner. Photo: BluIz60 / Bigstock.com

By David Wygant

I know. You’re about to unlock the inner bad girl version of you for Halloween. Some of you love to dress up as sexy school girls. Some of you are even more rambunctious and like to dress up as a naughty nurse. Maybe you’re the dominating dominatrix, the meanest witch, or the cutest little ghost a man has ever seen. That’s what I love about this holiday. It allows the inner woman, that naughty version of you, to come flying out. To you, it’s just staying in costume all night long.

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Oct 29, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Dress Up for Your Man

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

In this week’s video, dating expert Laurel House talks about how Halloween can influence your time spent between the sheets with your partner. “Halloween is a great excuse to dress up, to play a role, to be something a little different, to be edgier, to be sexier, to be more demure, to be more discreet, to be dangerous,” she shares. This idea extends beyond what you wear to that Halloween party too. If you’re in a serious relationship, this is a great opportunity to dress up in a costume for just your man to see. Even if your chemistry is still off the charts, “changing it up is always a good idea,” House explains. “It’s not just about being scary or having crazy teeth. It’s about fulfilling fantasies.”

Related Link: Communicating About Tough Topics

Listen up for her best tips for “adding a little spice” to your relationship!

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Oct 28, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Get a Second Date

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Robert Manni, author of The Guys’ Guy’s Guide to Love, about how to get a second date. It’s easy to get him to say yes to a first date, but securing another night out with the right guy can be a bit trickier. Here are some tips that Manni recommends following: have confidence; don’t drink too much; dress the part; talk about your dreams; have a conversation and really get to know him; and send a “thank you” text afterwards.

Related Link: 5 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves with Men

Of course, whether or not he asks you out again is ultimately up to him, but if you follow the advice above, he’ll be more likely to do so. Good luck!

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Oct 21, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Conquer Your Fear of Talking to a Handsome Man

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Ms. Solomon, dating coach at TheDatingTruth.com, about conquering your fear of talking to a handsome man. We’ve all been there: We’re approached by an incredibly good-looking guy, and before we know it, we’re tongue-tied or babbling, looking down at our feet, and feeling like a fool. Here are a few tips from Ms. Solomon to help you gracefully handle this situation: Talk to every man, not just the attractive ones; have a prop or a conversation topic in mind; and recognize and acknowledge that you’re nervous.

Related Link: The One Thing Men Want from Women

Next time, armed with this advice, you’ll be ready to talk to the hottest man in the room!

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Oct 15, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: What’s Wrong With You?

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Laurel House Articles, Relationship Experts, Videos

In this week’s video, dating coach Laurel House talks to Expectation Hangover: Overcoming Disappointment in Work, Love, and Life author Christine Hassler about a simple question: What’s wrong with you? When faced with that question, what do you think? There’s generally a common theme of “judgment,” says Hassler. “We’re terrible critics of ourselves.” Instead, the answer should be, “Absolutely nothing.” As Hassler explains, “We forget our fabulousness and look to our flaws.”

Related Link: Your Must-Have Dating Mantra

Listen up for more tips on how to recognize your gifts and your uniqueness!

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Oct 14, 2014 0

Real Life Celebrity Duets

Posted In: Exclusives, Photo Galleries

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Faith Hill and Tim McGraw

This power couple doesn't look like they are going anywhere anytime soon. After being married for over 16 years, these country music superstars are proving they're still two of the best in the business. Photo: FPA/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES

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Oct 14, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: He’s Great, But…

Posted In: Dating Advice Videos, Relationship Experts, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Sandra Fidelis about common first date mistakes that women make. So often, we immediately dismiss a guy if we don’t feel an instant attraction to him…but doesn’t he deserve another chance? Here are four things women often think after a date that hold them back from finding love: I want amazing chemistry from the start; I just wasn’t attracted to him; he’s great, but I don’t want to go on a second date; and if I’m not going to date him, I don’t need to be his friend.

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Oct 10, 2014 0

Bobbie Thomas on Date Night Fashion: “If You’re Looking to Have a Good Time, Don’t Be Uncomfortable!”

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By Sarah Batcheller

Style and beauty expert Bobbie Thomas knows a thing or two about fall fashion. First, there’s no need to feel like you have to redo your entire wardrobe. “There’s something for everyone,” Thomas explains in our celebrity interview. “I really like that seasonless style is around, where you can take a spring or summer item — like a bright color or floral pattern — and winterize it.” Of course, the best tip is always confidence. “You need to walk into a situation with…a mission to actually like what you see in the mirror instead of already assuming you’re not going to like that,” she shares.

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This time of year, the one must-have for every girl’s closet is boots. “Riding boots happen to be my personal favorite because they just look so polished. You could be in leggings and a sweater, and they give you just enough heel, but they’re still so comfortable,” she says.

Thomas shares love advice too and encourages practicality for your date night looks. “If you’re looking to have a good time with someone, don’t be uncomfortable!” she reveals. “Make sure you can move around and wiggle in your clothes. You really want to wear something that you’ll be so comfortable in that you’ll be able to be yourself on that date.”

Related Link: Blake Lively’s High-Fashion Style

Just like you want to find a loyal man, the TODAY Show style editor also encourages you to look for a loyal retailer. She’s teamed up with Kohl’s for their Yes2You rewards program. “In order to really expand your wardrobe, you want to shop smart,” she says. “That’s why I think it’s a really great idea to have a retail relationship as well as a real life one!”

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Oct 9, 2014 0

Q&A: Should I Tell My Friend Her Crush Has Been Facebook Messaging Me?

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Q&A: Should I Tell My Friend Her Crush Has Been Facebook Messaging Me?
What to do if your friend's man is sending you Facebook messages. Photo: dashek / Bigstock.com

Question from Amelia S.: This guy who my friend has been hanging out with a lot will randomly message me on Facebook whenever I’m online. It’s always harmless stuff like, “What are you up to?” but it still catches me off guard. Should I tell her, and if so, what’s the best way to bring up the subject? 

Suzanne K. Oshima, MatchmakerYou know that saying “you’re stuck between a rock and a hard place?” Well, guess what? You’re in a no-win situation! From what you said, it sounds like your friend just likes him and isn’t dating him yet, so “technically,” she can’t get upset that he’s contacting you. Now, I say “technically” because we both know that, if you tell her, she will be upset and hurt.

Now, while you may think that his messages to you are completely harmless, men don’t do things without some sort of intention. Without knowing the entire situation, I’m going to guess that he’s not just looking for a friend and that those harmless messages are going to lead to something more.

So here’s my advice to you: If you truly value your friendship with your friend and have no interest whatsoever in this guy, then I suggest you ignore his “harmless messages”…because it’s just going to lead to a no-win situation for everyone involved.

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Paige Wyatt, Reality StarAbsolutely tell your friend that this guy has been messaging you. If it truly is harmless, he won’t be embarrassed or upset if she brings it up. If he does have an ulterior motive, then you warned your friend, and it’s now her move. It’s much better to be honest with your friends about situations like this one. If you didn’t tell her and she found out, she may get upset with you. If it really is nothing, then what’s the harm in letting her know?

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Robert Manni, Guy’s GuySome say where there’s smoke, there’s fire. In this case, it’s hard not to miss the smoke — but let’s not rush to judgement. When a guy is really interested in a woman, his focus is on her, and he curtails his flirting. Maybe this guy just wants to establish good relationships with his leading lady’s BFFs. Still, I’m not sure if this is the best way to do it. He must know that girlfriends talk. And when friends talk about the curious actions of a guy, his behavior and character go under the microscope. At this point, I’m not sure that’s in his best interests.

As for you, for now, I suggest you either ignore his Facebook messages or keep the exchanges polite. Over time, his true intentions will surface. When they do, you can determine if it’s necessary to let your friend know about his correspondence.

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Child Expenses After Divorce

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Child Expenses After Divorce
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By Michele Sfakianos, RN, BSN for Hope After Divorce

The expenses for caring for children continue to rise, and that doesn’t make it any easier for divorced parents. Each parent attempts to keep their own household going, and at the same time, they often try to share expenses for their children. This may be court ordered or due to a mutual agreement between the parents.

Whether the divorcing couple is a celebrity couple in the public eye or a private couple, the children’s needs and welfare should be the number one priority. You must accept and embrace the reality that your children’s expenses to live will not change. They are our greatest responsibility and deserve the best care and protection we can give them, whether married or divorced. Some divorced celebrity couples, like Demi Moore and Bruce Willis and Reese Witherspoon and Ryan Phillippe, seem to put their children’s best interest ahead of their own as they co-parent together.

Related Link: Ryan Phillippe Says He’s ‘ Proud’ of How He and Reese Co-Parent

Routine check-ups at both the doctor’s office and the dentist are essential for your children. One of the parents should have both medical and dental coverage on the children, as the cost of this type of preventative care out of pocket is very high. If one of your children have an emergency for either place, it can be a bill you have to pay for a very long time.

Childcare is another expense that can add up when a divorce takes place. Perhaps one of the parents was the caregiver, and now both are in the workforce. The parents should decide on a childcare provider together. It may be a licensed facility, a nanny, or even a family member. The cost of childcare should be second to the quality of care that your children are receiving.

Inevitably, there will be additional expenses for your children. Who is going to pay for school clothing and supplies? Many parents who pay child support assume that they pay enough for such items with that monthly check. Yet it may be just enough to help the family with food and shelter. You don’t want your children to go without due to lack of money.

Many children love to be involved in extracurricular activities as well. It can be sports, dance, or clubs. There will be expenses involved, including special clothing and shoes needed and even enrollment fees. Parents need to be willing to share these expenses so that their children can take part in such events.

Related Link: Helping Your Child Through Divorce

Summer is also a time when there are more expenses for children. They may want to go to swimming lessons, camping, or even to a summer camp. All of these things cost money, and someone has to pay it! Some feel the parent who makes more money should cover the cost. This is up to the parents though, as many want to do everything 50/50. Problems could arise when one parent can’t afford their share.

As you can see, there are plenty of additional expenses to consider for your children when you are divorced. Make sure you are willing to discuss these expenses with the other parent. You always want to do what’s in the best interest of your children. Bottom line: Get as much in writing as you can when it comes to who will cover expenses. This way, everyone involved knows what to plan for.

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Child Expenses After DivorceMichele Sfakianos, RN, BSN, is a Registered Nurse, Life Skills Expert, Speaker and Award Winning Author. She is the owner of Open Pages Publishing, which includes her series of “The 4-1-1” books on Life Skills, Step Parenting, and Surviving Teenhood. Michele is a contributing expert for HopeAfterDivorce.org, DivorceSupportCenter.com, FamilyShare.com, and CupidsPulse.com.

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Single in Stilettos Show: 5 Signs He’s Interested in You

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Mr. Locario about how to know if a guy is interested in you. Here are the top five signs to look out for: He can’t stop staring at you; he calls or contacts you in some way; he wants to show you off to his family and friends; he tries to make you laugh; and he acts nervous around you. Don’t miss the rest of Mr. Locario’s advice in the video above!

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Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Decide to Fall in Love

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On this week’s video, Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House talks about what it means to decide to fall in love. If you keep going out with great people but you’re just not feeling it, it might be because you’re choosing not to be open and available. “You have to decide to open your heart. You have to decide to be vulnerable. You have to have conversations that express vulnerability,” she explains. Otherwise, your relationships will continue to be one-sided. Listen up for more great dating advice!

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Sep 30, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Communicate with a Man

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Tripp about how to communicate effectively with a man. As every woman knows (and has been told time and time again), communication is key in any relationship. Here are Tripp’s best three tips for talking to your guy: be direct; be clear and don’t beat around the bush; and never assume. Watch the video above for more great advice!

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Celebrity Couple Predictions: Ashlee Simpson, Khloe Kardashian and Mama June

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Couple Predictions: Ashlee Simpson, Khloe Kardashian and Mama June
Shoshi predicts what's next for newlyweds Ashlee Simpson and Evan Ross. Photo: LRR/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES

By Shoshi

For today’s celebrity couple predictions, we’re looking at three pairs who are in various stages of a relationship: one set of newlyweds, one rebound relationship, and one surprise split.

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Sep 23, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Weekly Show: Flirting Tips

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos video, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to passionate living coach and author Abiola Abrams about how to flirt with men. She shares more than just external flirting tips and describes bombshell flirting as exuding positive, feminine energy. Here are her tips for working on your inner flirt game: be tuned into your inner receptivity; flirt with everyone; imagine yourself as a magnet; and expect a male miracle. When you change your energy, true love will come your way!

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

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Celebrity Gossip Columnist Perez Hilton on Dating in NYC: “It’s Raining Men, But It’s Exhausting”

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Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Written by Christina DeRosa.

It’s hard to keep up with Perez Hilton, as he’s always on the go trying to get celebrity gossip for his own popular website. But the blogger slowed down for a moment to catch up with CupidsPulse.com at OK! Magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration. During a one-on-one celebrity video interview, he gave us the latest scoop on living a healthy life and looking for a relationship and love in New York City.

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Sep 17, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Your Must-Have Mantra

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On this week’s video, Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House discusses your must-have relationship mantra. “‘Here I am.’ That’s it!” she shares. “Not ‘Here I am — am I good enough?’ or ‘Here I am — do you like me?’ It’s confident. It’s comfortable.” If you don’t recognize your own value and worth, then you can never expect a man to do so. Remember that you can only be who you are — and someday, you’ll find a partner who loves you for you.

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Reality TV Stars Deena Cortese and Chris Buckner Talk ‘Couples Therapy’ on VH1

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Interview by Ashley Pacifico. Written by Stephanie Salsini.

Fans of Jersey Shore and Snooki & Jwoww recognize Deena Cortese as the hilarious little “meatball” who is best friends with Snooki. In our exclusive celebrity interview during OK! Magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration, CupidsPulse.com asked Cortese and her boyfriend Chris Buckner about what we could expect to see from them on the reality TV show Couples Therapy as well as their best fashion dating advice.

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Sep 16, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Dating Advice for Women in Their 30s

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima chats with New York City Gal blogger Melissa Braverman about tips for women dating in their 30s. The ladies discuss: the biggest challenges you face as a single woman in your 30s; how to navigate those challenges; the pressure to “settle down” by a certain age; what to do if you get discouraged with dating; and how to stay motivated in your search for love.

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

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‘The Bachelor’ Stars Catherine and Sean Lowe on Celebrity Baby Plans: “Not Anytime Soon”

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Interview by Lori Bizzoco.

It’s every Bachelor couple’s fairytale to walk down the aisle after  finding true love on ABC’s hit reality TV show. For happy celebrity couple Catherine and Sean Lowe, that fairytale turned into a reality when the couple got hitched in a televised wedding earlier this year. Our executive editor and founder Lori Bizzoco talked to the happy celebrity couple at OK! magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration to get the scoop on married life, their recent appearance on Bachelor In Paradise, and their celebrity baby plans.
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OK! Magazine New York Fashion Week Celebration

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Sep 11, 2014 0

‘RHONJ’ Star Kathy Wakile Talks Desserts in Celebrity Video Interview: “Indulge. It’s Not Going to Kill You!”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives, Real Housewives, Reality TV

Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Video by Damian Kolodiy.

Kathy Wakile first captured our hearts as a cast member of Real Housewives of New Jersey (RHONJ), and now, she’s enchanting our taste buds with her dessert line Dolci Della Dea and her cookbook Indulge: Delicious Little Desserts That Keep Life Real Sweet, which was released on September 2nd. Earlier this week, the reality TV star did a book signing at the Boulevard Books & Cafe in Brooklyn. In our celebrity video interview, we got the latest scoop on her decadent desserts, the upcoming season of RHONJ, and life at home with her family.

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Sep 9, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to writer, speaker, and romance artist Zan Perrion about what makes a woman irresistible to a man. Here are five qualities that Perrion says will make a man fall in love: a woman with a certain grace and elegance that implies beauty on the inside and out; someone with a feminine spirit; a woman who inspires him to be the best version of himself; someone who is supportive; and a woman who is completely devoted to him. Watch the video above to find out more about the importance of these traits!

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Sep 4, 2014 0

Sharing Secrets

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Sharing Secrets
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By Melanie Mar

You all have experiences in life that are so private that you choose to only reveal them to a small group of close confidents. But when you start a new relationship, one of the dilemmas you’ll face is: When is the right time to share your personal secrets with a new love? Sharing your private life can be somewhat anxiety-inducing, whether it regards a previous relationship, a health issue, or a family problem. It takes a lot of guts to share your secrets with your partner with the hope that they are trustworthy enough to embrace what you’re telling them with an open heart and no judgement. Below are four things to consider before disclosing yourself:

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Sep 3, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: The Best Dating Question to Ask on a First Date

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If you’re insecure about what to chat about on a first date or tired of having boring conversations, then this week’s video from dating coach Laurel House is for you! She encourages you to ask one “magic” question: Why? “That’s it! Why adds so much — it’s the one thing that you can tack onto any mundane subject and suddenly transform it into something that matters,” she explains. Listen up for more great dating tips!

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