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Sep 30, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Communicate with a Man

Posted In: Experts, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Tripp about how to communicate effectively with a man. As every woman knows (and has been told time and time again), communication is key in any relationship. Here are Tripp’s best three tips for talking to your guy: be direct; be clear and don’t beat around the bush; and never assume. Watch the video above for more great advice!

Related Link: Top 5 Dating Mistakes Woman Make

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What’s your best advice for communicating with your partner?¬†Tell us in the comments below.

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Sep 25, 2014 0

Celebrity Couple Predictions: Ashlee Simpson, Khloe Kardashian and Mama June

Posted In: Experts, Yolanda Shoshana Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Couple Predictions: Ashlee Simpson, Khloe Kardashian and Mama June
Shoshi predicts what's next for newlyweds Ashlee Simpson and Evan Ross. Photo: LRR/FAMEFLYNET PICTURES

By Shoshi

For today’s¬†celebrity couple predictions,¬†we’re looking¬†at three pairs who are in various stages of a relationship: one set of newlyweds, one rebound relationship, and one surprise split.

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Sep 23, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Weekly Show: Flirting Tips

Posted In: Experts, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos video, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to passionate living coach and author Abiola Abrams about how to flirt with men. She shares more than just external flirting tips¬†and¬†describes bombshell flirting as exuding positive, feminine energy. Here are her tips for working on your inner flirt game: be tuned into your inner receptivity; flirt with everyone; imagine yourself as a magnet; and expect a male miracle. When you change your energy, true love will come your way!

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What are your best flirting tips? Tell us in the comments below.

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Sep 18, 2014 0

Celebrity Gossip Columnist Perez Hilton on Dating in NYC: “It’s Raining Men, But It’s Exhausting”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives, Our Videos, Videos

Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Written by Christina DeRosa.

It’s hard to keep up with Perez Hilton, as he’s always on the go trying to get celebrity gossip¬†for his own popular website. But the blogger slowed down for a moment to catch up with CupidsPulse.com at OK!¬†Magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration. During a one-on-one celebrity video¬†interview, he gave us the latest scoop on living a healthy life and looking for¬†love in New York City.

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Sep 17, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Your Must-Have Mantra

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

On this week’s video, Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House discusses your must-have relationship mantra. “‘Here I am.’ That’s it!” she shares. “Not ‘Here I am — am I good enough?’ or ‘Here I am — do you like me?’ It’s confident. It’s comfortable.” If you don’t recognize your own value and worth, then you can never expect a man to do so. Remember that you can only be who you are — and¬†someday, you’ll find a partner who loves you for you.

Related Link: Find the Love of Your Life

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

What is your must-have mantra? Tell us in the comments below!

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Sep 17, 2014 0

Reality TV Stars Deena Cortese and Chris Buckner Talk ‘Couples Therapy’ on VH1

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives, Jersey Shore, Our Videos, Reality TV, Videos

Interview by Ashley Pacifico. Written by Stephanie Salsini.

Fans of Jersey Shore¬†and Snooki & Jwoww recognize Deena Cortese as the hilarious little ‚Äúmeatball‚ÄĚ who is¬†best friends with Snooki. In our exclusive celebrity interview during OK!¬†Magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration, CupidsPulse.com asked¬†Cortese and her boyfriend Chris Buckner¬†about¬†what we could expect to see from them on the reality TV show¬†Couples Therapy¬†as well as their best date night fashion advice.

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Sep 16, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Dating Advice for Women in Their 30s

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima chats with New York City Gal blogger Melissa Braverman about tips for women dating in their 30s.¬†The ladies discuss: the biggest challenges you face as a single woman in your 30s; how to navigate those challenges; the pressure to “settle down” by a certain age; what to do if you get discouraged with¬†dating; and how to stay motivated in your search for love.

Related Link: Abiola Abrams on Insecurity and Dating

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What your best tip for someone dating in her 30s? Tell us in the comments below!

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Sep 16, 2014 0

‘The Bachelor’ Stars Sean Lowe and Catherine Giudici on Baby Plans: “Not Anytime Soon”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives, Our Videos, Reality TV, Sean Lowe - Season 17, The Bachelor, Videos

Interview by Lori Bizzoco.

It’s every Bachelor couple’s fairytale to walk down the aisle after ¬†finding true love on ABC’s hit reality television show. For happy celebrity couple Catherine and Sean Lowe, that fairytale turned into a reality when the couple got hitched in a televised wedding earlier this year. Our executive editor and founder Lori Bizzoco¬†talked to the happy celebrity couple at OK! magazine’s New York Fashion Week celebration to get the¬†scoop¬†on¬†married life, their recent appearance on Bachelor In Paradise, and plans to expand their family.

Happy celebrity couple Catherine and Sean Lowe share some details of their relationship¬†since meeting on¬†‘The Bachelor’.¬†

‚ĶDon’t miss the rest of our exclusive interview! Click here for more.

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Sep 13, 2014 0

OK! Magazine New York Fashion Week Celebration

Posted In: Exclusives, Photo Galleries

By Whitney Johnson

On Wednesday, September 10th, OK! magazine, with the help of 365 Style author Nicky Hilton, hosted their annual New York Fashion Week celebration at VIP Room in New York City. Skechers showcased their latest fashionable collections; Pure Silk presented guests with samples of their new shaving cream; Morgan Taylor garnised guests with trendy nail designs; and Sobieski Vodka, Bartenura Wines and Myx Moscata provided cocktails while Peroni provided beer. Music was by provided by DJ Yo-C.

Check out our photo gallery above for the celebrities who walked the red carpet! For video interviews with many of the stars included, head over to our YouTube channel.

All photos courtesy of Getty Images.

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Sep 11, 2014 0

‘RHONJ’ Star Kathy Wakile Talks Desserts: “Indulge. It’s Not Going to Kill You!”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives, Real Housewives, Reality TV

Interview by Lori Bizzoco. Video by Damian Kolodiy.

Kathy Wakile¬†first captured our hearts as a cast member of¬†Real Housewives of New Jersey, and now, she’s enchanting our taste buds with her dessert line Dolci Della Dea and her cookbook Indulge: Delicious Little Desserts That Keep Life Real Sweet, which was released on September 2nd. Earlier this week, the reality star did a book signing at¬†the Boulevard Books & Cafe in Brooklyn. In our exclusive¬†interview, we got the¬†latest scoop on her decadent desserts, the upcoming season of RHONJ,¬†and life at home with her family.

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Sep 9, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Make a Man Fall in Love With You

Posted In: Experts, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to writer, speaker, and romance artist Zan Perrion about what makes a woman irresistible to a man. Here are five qualities¬†that Perrion says will make a man fall in love: a woman with¬†a certain grace and elegance that implies beauty on the inside and out; someone with a feminine spirit; a woman who inspires him to be the best version of himself; someone who is supportive; and a woman who is completely devoted to him. Watch the video above to find out more about the importance of these traits!

Related Link: Zan Perrion on What Scares a Man Away

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What do you think is the #1 quality in a woman that makes a man fall in love? Tell us in the comments below!

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Sep 4, 2014 0

Sharing Secrets

Posted In: Experts, Melanie Mar Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: Sharing Secrets
Young man whispering secret into a cheerful young woman's ear. Photo: lightwavemedia / Bigstock.com

By Melanie Mar

You all have¬†experiences in life that are so private that¬†you¬†choose to only reveal them to a small group of close confidents. But when you start a new relationship, one of the dilemmas you’ll face is: When is the right time to share your personal secrets with a new love?¬†Sharing your private life can be somewhat anxiety-inducing, whether it regards a previous relationship, a health issue, or a family problem. It takes a lot of guts to share your secrets with your partner¬†with the hope that they are trustworthy enough to embrace what you’re telling them with an open heart and no judgement. Below are four¬†things to consider before disclosing yourself:

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Sep 3, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: The Best Dating Question to Ask on a First Date

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

If you’re insecure about¬†what to chat about on a first date¬†or tired of having boring conversations, then this week’s video from dating coach Laurel House is for you! She encourages you to ask one “magic” question: Why? “That’s it! Why adds so much — it’s the one thing that you can tack onto any mundane subject and suddenly transform it into something that matters,” she explains.¬†Listen up for more great dating tips!

Related Link: Do THIS for Better Dates

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

Cupid wants to know: What’s your go-to first date conversation topic?¬†

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Sep 2, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: 5 Signs He’s Not The One!

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Robert Manni, dating coach and author of The Guy’s Guys Guide to Love, about how to know if the man you’re dating is The One. Here are five signs that he’s not your soul mate: He’s too jealous; ¬†he overindulges when it comes to drugs or alcohol; he¬†has different views than you about money; he doesn’t want to be around your family; and he’s abusive in some way.

Related Link: Robert Manni on How to Be Successful at Online Dating

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

How did you know when you found The One? Tell us in the comments below.

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Aug 29, 2014 0

5 Tips for Meeting Your Partner’s Family Stress-Free

Posted In: Experts, Marni Battista Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: 5 Tips for Meeting Your Partner’s Family Stress-Free
5 tips for meeting your partner's family stress-free. Photo: Rido81 / Bigstock.com

By Marni Battista

You’ve won over the guy, but winning over his family is even¬†more daunting. While your feminine wiles and witty repartee may have tugged at his heartstrings, making a killer first impression and getting the stamp of approval from those closest to him takes a slightly different strategy.¬†Much like a¬†first date, the first time you meet the family doesn‚Äôt always elicit fireworks. But there are ways to prepare, calm your nerves, and set the stage for a wonderful relationship with your fella‚Äôs loved ones. So take a deep breath and let these five Dating with Dignity tips help you relax:

Related Link: Taking Your Partner on a Family Vacation 

1. Understand his family landscape: Relationships between family members are often the most deeply rooted and intricate of them all, so gaining a solid understanding of existing tensions or unconventional family arrangements beforehand will save you from surprise. Schooling yourself on your boyfriend’s step-siblings or tense background with his aunt will eliminate awkward situations and allow you to navigate some major conversational pitfalls.

2. Learn their likes: Ever fretted before a first date about what the two of you will talk about? You may be experiencing similar anxiety before meeting the family, but in this case, you have your boyfriend to help you prep. Don’t be shy about pumping him for information about the personalities and interests of those you’re about to meet. Not only will you naturally engage in more thoughtful and free-flowing conversation, but your genuine interest in your partner’s loved ones will score you brownie points with him too.

3. Avoid controversy: No matter how vehemently you and your partner may agree on certain hot button issues, it’s best to err on the side of caution when meeting his family. Sensitive subjects like politics or religion carry with them scores of touchy nuances that could make the conversation treacherous. If you’re worried a certain subject might come up, plan to pre-vet opinions on the issues in question with your boyfriend beforehand in case you need to prepare a PC response or gently nudge him in the ribs to jump in and change the subject.

Related Link: Meeting Your Partner’s Family Over the Holidays

4. Mind your manners: Hold that sailor’s tongue, roll up the sleeves of your sensible yet stylish cardigan, and start setting the table. Your language and overall interaction with his family members will all roll into one well-formed opinion of your character. Of course, don’t go overboard with the manners or sensible clothing to the point where you feel stiff and unnatural. You just want to create a sterling (and well-deserved) first impression.

5. Be yourself: You probably saw this one coming: The best way to succeed in any social situation is to relax and let others get to know the real you. Any time you find yourself getting nervous, remember that the whole reason you’re meeting these people in the first place is because your mate is enamored with you. The more naturally you act, the more likely his family will follow suit.

Marni Battista, founder of Dating with Dignity, is an expert dating and life coach with a 10-step system to manifesting love for yourself and others. You can contact Marni at marni@datingwithdignity.com.

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Aug 28, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: The One Thing Men Want from Women

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Ms. Solomon, who became a dating coach after she realized that dating came easy to her. She didn’t understand why so many women were complaining about finding love‚Ķand in today’s video, she¬†shares¬†some of her secrets with you.¬†So what is the one thing that men want? Fun! It’s really that simple. Here are four ways that you can be more fun:¬†learn how to flirt; be adventurous and spontaneous; radiate a positive attitude; and keep conversation light-hearted.

Related Link: Ms. Solomon Reveals Where to Meet Men

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

How do you have more fun when dating? Share in the comments below.

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Aug 21, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: 4 Signs He May Be Falling for You

Posted In: Experts, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Sandra Fidelis about four signs that your crush is falling for you. You may be looking for something that screams “He’s so into you!” but remember that subtle signals reveal his true feelings too. Here are four indications that he likes you: his actions say he wants you even if his words don’t; he becomes protective of you; he volunteers to do things for you; and he introduces you to his family.

Listen up for more great dating advice!

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Aug 20, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Do THIS for Better Dates

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

On this week’s video, QuickieChick and Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House reveals what two little words¬†will allow you to connect more with your partner and make your next date even better than the last. “‘Me too’ is the universal connector,” she explains. “It’s what allows you to understand and be empathetic with someone else.” It also shows your vulnerability and willingness to open yourself up. This simple phrase reassures your significant other that they aren’t alone, reminding them that they have you during both the good and bad moments.

Related Link: Forget the Bouquet!

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

Try using “me too” on your next date and let us know how it goes!¬†

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Aug 14, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Top 5 Dating Mistakes Women Make

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Tripp about the top five dating mistakes that women make. As someone who works regularly with men and knows what they want in a partner, he’s seen what happens after women make one of these errors: You don’t offer to pay for the date; you act like you don’t care; you don’t show any affection; you talk too much; and you don’t give him a chance to be a gentleman. Taking any of these missteps, especially in the beginning stages of dating, can turn a man off‚Ķso avoid these behaviors if at all possible!

Related Link: Tripp on How to Be More Than a Fling to Him

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

Ladies, what dating mistake do you find yourself making most often? Tell us in the comments below!

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Aug 12, 2014 0

‘Hunger Games’ Star Leven Rambin and ‘True Blood’ Alum Jim Parrack Are Engaged

Posted In: Tying Knots
Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘Hunger Games’ Star Leven Rambin and ‘True Blood’ Alum Jim Parrack Are Engaged
Jim Parrack and Leven Rambin announced their engagement after only a few months of dating. Photo courtesy of Leven Rambin's Instagram.

By Ann Luther

We all saw True Blood alum Jim Parrack’s heartbreak when he ended his marriage to his wife of six years, Ciera Parrack. However, he quickly moved on, proposing to Hunger Games star, Leven Rambin, after only a few months of dating. According to UsMagazine.com, they even made their big news official on Facebook: Parrack changed his relationship status to Engaged over the weekend. The new couple does, in fact, seem very happy in this Instagram video they posted announcing their hiatus from social media. Best of luck to the adorable pair!

How do you know when you’re ready to move on post-divorce?

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Aug 11, 2014 0

10 Celebrity Parents with Twins

Posted In: Exclusives, Features
Cupid's Pulse Article: 10 Celebrity Parents with Twins
Neil Patrick Harris and David Burkta have twins Gideon and Harper. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos

By Whitney Johnson

Nobody can resist a celebrity baby announcement ‚Äď especially when there are two bundles of joy! As if these famous parents aren‚Äôt busy enough with their lives in the spotlight, but they‚Äôre also juggling twins and everything that comes with them: two bottles, two strollers, two wardrobes, and more. Below, we‚Äôve pulled together a list of 10 celebrity parents who were doubly blessed in the baby department:

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Aug 7, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Why He Didn’t Call You Back

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Mr. Locario¬†about the reasons why he didn’t call you back. He explains¬†five possible scenarios, straight from a man’s point of view: He already has a girlfriend; he never really liked you in the first place; he’s scared of or intimidated by you; he’s just a player; or he views dating as nothing more than a game.

Related Link: Mr. Locario on Where Are All the Good Men?!

Remember that sometimes, when a guy doesn’t call you back, it’s for the best. After all, you deserve better than that!

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

How do you handle it when a guy doesn’t call you back? Tell us in¬†the comments below.

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Aug 6, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Forget the Bouquet!

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

In this week’s video from Laurel House, the¬†Screwing the Rules dating coach talks about why¬†it’s the big and little things that create¬†a happy romance.¬†“Relationships aren’t about the high notes. They’re about the in betweens,” she explains. “It’s actually the mundane, the day-to-day, the little things — that’s what a relationship is made of.” You know you really care about someone when you find yourself sending “thinking of you” texts or picking up Kleenexes¬†because you remembered they ran out.

Related Link:  Find the Love of Your Life

House adds, “Just the big things are not enough to sustain a relationship. On the same note, just the little things, while they’re great‚Ķsometimes, you need something a little bigger.”

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!

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Aug 4, 2014 0

10 Signs He’s Not That Into You

Posted In: Exclusives, Features
Cupid's Pulse Article: 10 Signs He’s Not That Into You
Couple eating ice cream at the park. Photo: evren_photos / Bigstock.com

By Whitney Johnson

You have a crush on that cute boy who works in the office next to yours, and after a few weeks of sneaking glances and grabbing lunch together, you’re obsessively decoding every look, smile, and text to determine if he likes you too. If you’re on the fence, it’s easy to make excuses for him or tell yourself that he’s just playing coy, but it’s important to be realistic about a future together. As you’re struggling to figure out his feelings, consider these 10 signs that he’s not that into you:

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Jul 31, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: What Scares a Man Away

Posted In: Experts, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

Ever wonder why the guy you were seeing suddenly stopped calling you, never to be heard from again? ¬†As author Zan Perrion explains on this week’s Single in Stilettos show, you may have scared him away by being too demanding, dramatic, needy, rejecting, or jealous.

Related Link: Zan Perrion on How to Have the “Exclusive Relationship” Talk with Him

Watch the video above to learn how not to make these mistakes with future men!

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What mistake do you make that scares men away? Tell us in the comments below!

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Jul 24, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Insecurity and Dating

Posted In: Dating, Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Singles in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Abiola Abrams, author of The Sacred Bombshell Handbook of Self Love, about insecurities and dating. We all have insecurities, but it’s important to fill those holes of self-doubt so you can be your best self. Remember that he can’t love you if you don’t love yourself. In the video above,¬†Abrams shares her best tips for overcoming¬†insecurities when it comes to dating, including: journaling; writing a list of what makes you beautiful; accepting who you are; being grateful; looking within; and surrounding yourself with positive people.

Related Link: Robert Manni on 5 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves with Men

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

How do you overcome insecurities when it comes to dating? Tell us in the comments below.

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Jul 23, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Turn Him Off with Filler Words

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

In this week’s video, Screwing the Rules¬†dating coach Laurel House shares why using filler words — like, um, well, anyway — will instantly turn a guy off. “You’re not stupid, so don’t act like it,” she says. “Or rather, don’t sound like it.” While it’s natural to want to fill every moment of silence, she encourages you to use this time wisely: “Think about what you’re going to say next.”

Related Link: Communicating About Tough Topics

Watch the video above for more great dating tips!

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

Any tips for avoiding the use of filler words? Tell us in the comments below.

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Jul 11, 2014 1

‘Bachelor’ Alum Jamie Otis Marries Doug Hehner on New Reality Show

Posted In: Celebrity Relationships, Tying Knots
Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘Bachelor’ Alum Jamie Otis Marries Doug Hehner on New Reality Show
Jamie Otis appears on 'Married at First Sight.' Photo courtesy of A + E Networks.

By Sanetra Richards

A new reality show is taking the saying “love is blind” to an entirely new level. As revealed by¬†UsMagazine.com,¬†Bachelor alum Jamie Otis recently married a complete stranger on¬†Married at First Sight. The show¬†includes a¬†line of experts — a sexologist, a spiritualist, a psychologist, and a sociologist — who pair participants with their “ideal” romantic partners. To add to the mystery, the contestants¬†are completely unaware of who their future spouses are until they are introduced at the altar. On Tuesday’s premiere episode, Otis was set to marry software salesman Doug Hehner. Before the nuptials, she was all for finding her soul mate from the experiment — that is, until the moment of truth arrived.¬†“She was freaking out. And it seems like she doesn’t know what’s going on,” the 31-year-old groom said¬†“It was a tense moment.” In the meantime, there were a number of thoughts going through the 27-year-old’s head.¬†“I’m getting married right now to someone I don’t know,” she said in her voice over. “I’m thinking I just made the ‘worst decision of my life’. I am so scared.” Viewers will have to watch next week to see how the rest of their¬†“blind wedding” turned out!

What are some perks to going on a blind date?

Cupid’s Advice:

Going on blind dates may seem kind of taboo in today’s world.¬†However, with the right attitude, you may just find yourself up for the idea. Below, Cupid shares¬†a few benefits that are attached to blind dates:

1. You have no¬†preconceived notions:¬†Typically, when you’re going out with someone for the first time, you already know something about your date, whether it be because you’ve met, talked online, or simply Googled him. But in this case, you probably don’t know anything about your potential partner.¬†Go into the date¬†with¬†an open mind — you never know who you might meet!

Related Link: Why a Blind Date Might Be Good For You

2. You can put your best foot forward:¬†Now is¬†your chance to make a great first impression.¬†The person sitting or standing across from you has no idea what you’re like — they may not even know your last name! So show off your best characteristics and really impress them.

Related Link: Celebrities Who Met on Blind Dates

3. It makes a good story: There are¬†two reactions to the people who go on blind dates: You either laugh at the disastrous horror stories they share, or you “aw” at the romantic endings that sometimes result. Whichever one your blind date ends up being (or if it’s somewhere in the middle), your closest friends will be excited to hear the details.

Have you ever been on a blind date? Share your experience below.

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Jul 11, 2014 0

Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling Are Having a Baby; Pregnancy Revealed

Posted In: Baby Beat, Celebrity Relationships
Cupid's Pulse Article: Eva Mendes and Ryan Gosling Are Having a Baby; Pregnancy Revealed
Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes are having a baby. Photo: Emiley Schweich / PR Photos; Marco Sagliocco / PRPhotos.com

By Sanetra Richards

Yes, you read the headline right!¬†UsMagazine.com¬†reveals¬†a source has confirmed that pregnant Eva Mendes and longtime boyfriend Ryan Gosling are expecting a bundle of joy. The news was¬†verified¬†shortly after rumors circulated around the web about the 40-year-old actress’ seven month pregnancy. This will be the first child for the Mendes and Gosling. In an interview with Ellen Degeneres at the beginning of the year, the¬†Hitch¬†star joked about the pregnancy rumor frenzy that was happening:¬†“It’s so ridiculous,” she said. “It all started because I didn’t want to go through the scanners at the airport. You know those X-ray scanners, which are really creepy? They basically see you naked, right? And not only that, but there’s a radiation aspect to it, so I always opt out.”

What are some ways to keep your pregnancy under wraps? 

Cupid’s Advice:¬†Expecting a baby is quite exciting! You are bringing a tiny human into the world, and there’s no feeling that could possibly compare. For now though,¬†you and your partner don’t want anyone else to know your big news.¬†Cupid has some tips to¬†help you hide your baby-to-be:

 

1. Don’t tell a soul:¬†If you are waiting until you’re further along in your pregnancy to break the news, your best bet is to keep your lips sealed. You can tell a couple of close friends and family members;¬†however, everyone¬†else is off limits!

Related Link:¬†Eva Mendes Gets Giggly Over Ryan Gosling on ‚ÄėEllen‚Äô

2. Avoid hint-dropping:¬†You may be extremely tempted to post cute baby-related things on your social media accounts‚Ķbut don’t!¬†People will¬†probably¬†figure out what you do not want to reveal. Remember, the ultimate goal is to keep this a secret until you’re ready to share.

Related Link: Are You Expecting Ryan Gosling Perfection?

3. Toss the fitted clothing: Use your wardrobe to your advantage! Maybe you have some flowy, shift dresses to wear when out and about; opt for those instead of your tight tees and button downs. No one will suspect a baby bump is underneath.

How do you keep your pregnancy under wraps? Share your suggestions below.

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Jul 11, 2014 0

Justin Theroux Says He Fell in Love in a “Real, Legit Fashion”

Posted In: Celebrity Relationships, Forever or Fling?
Cupid's Pulse Article: Justin Theroux Says He Fell in Love in a “Real, Legit Fashion”
Justin Theroux says he fell in love in a "real, legit fashion" with Jennifer Aniston. Photo: Andrew Evans / PR Photos

By Sanetra Richards

Believe it or not, according to¬†UsMagazine.com, Justin Theroux says he fell in love in a “real, legit fashion” with Jennifer Aniston.They have a¬†normal, romantic relationship. In the August issue of¬†Details,¬†the 42-year-old¬†Leftovers¬†actor revealed they connected immediately just by reminiscing on a few memories of the “Waldorf grade-schooling they both received.” The two met back in 2007, when mutual friend Robert Downey Jr. introduced them to one another:¬†“He and Jen fell in a real, legit fashion,” the actor told¬†Details,¬†“and he was willing from the jump to make sacrifices.” Since then,¬†Theroux has been sure not to let the attention influence his ego¬†or his¬†relationship.¬†“It doesn’t feel like a hardship; it doesn’t feel difficult,” he explained.¬†“It can be an annoyance, but it’s not the end of the world. You have to center on what its core thing is, which is that you met someone you fell in love with. “

How do you know that you’re truly in love?

Cupid’s Advice:¬†Finding love is one of the greatest feelings of all time. You’ve had your fair share of admirers¬†in the past, but now, you think this special someone is here to stay. And guess what? You may actually be in love! Cupid has some¬†ways to tell if you’re feelings are real:

1. Nothing feels better:¬†Your head is up in the clouds; your heart flutters every time you see them;¬†and you can’t stop¬†daydreaming about the future — all of these feelings are undeniable.¬†A relationship has never felt so great before.¬†So what truly makes this time different? Ask yourself a few questions to see if you have indeed been shot by Cupid: What will I sacrifice for my partner? Do I see a future together? Is commitment an issue? Your responses will¬†let you know¬†if you’re in love or not.

Related Link: Jennifer Aniston Reveals Her Romantic Traditions with Justin Theroux

2.¬†You have¬†a strong connection:¬†You and your partner have developed a foundation that you’re continuing to strengthen. You share the same morals and beliefs, and your bond is unbreakable. If this describes your relationship, the love bug¬†may have bitten you!

Related Link: Jennifer Aniston Throws Birthday Bash for Justin Theroux 

3. There are no comparisons:¬†If you can’t even fathom being with another person and no one else can make you happier, the answer is quite simple. You’re in love!

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Jul 10, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Be Successful with Online Dating

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach and author Robert Manni about how to be successful with online dating. He answers the following questions: What are the three main things men look for in an online dating profile? What should you do if you’re not getting a response? How can a woman contact a man without seeming desperate?

Related Link: Robert Manni on 5 Ways Women Sabotage Themselves with Men

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What is your best online dating tip? Tell us in the comments below.

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Jul 9, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: Dating Red Flags Revealed on Facebook

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

Ever wonder if social media can reveal red flags when it comes to that new guy you’re dating? Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House¬†believes it can! If your partner asks you to unfriend your cute male friends or feels uncomfortable with you maintaining contact with your ex, it’s time for a conversation.¬†“It can really be the ruin of relationships if you let it be,” she explains.

When it comes to your feelings about your partner’s social media habits, it’s important to trust them until you have a reason not to. If you continually fail to trust them, “pretty soon, that person is going to start acting in a way that’s not trustworthy. You’re blaming them for something they haven’t done.”

Related Link: How to Get a Guy to Commit

Watch the video above for more great dating tips!

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How to handle social media issues with your new guy? Tell us in the comments below.

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Jul 3, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Do You Push for Commitment Too Soon?

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Sandra Fidelis about signs that you may be pushing for commitment too soon. Don’t worry — we’ve all done it! In fact, the top reason why a guy ends a relationship after only¬†a few¬†months is because he’s simply feeling too much pressure.¬†In order to not make this mistake, you need to first understand why you’re pushing him so hard. You may be¬†feeling pressure from your friends, family, the media, or even yourself,¬†thanks to your biological clock.

Related Link: Lori Bizzoco: My Biological Clock is Ticking Away!

Next, Fidelis¬†shares four ways to avoid pushing for commitment too soon: Remain present in the moment; make sure you have your own life; don’t think so far ahead; and establish clear boundaries.

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

Cupid wants to know: How do you avoid pushing for commitment too soon?

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Q&A: Is It Okay If My Boyfriend Texts His Ex?

Posted In: Experts, Suzanne Oshima, Paige Wyatt and Robert Manni Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: Q&A: Is It Okay If My Boyfriend Texts His Ex?
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Question from Alex S.: My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. Every once in a while, I’ll see a text on his phone pop up from his ex. He says they’re just friends, and he’s even introduced me to her before, but my girlfriends tell me that it’s weird and that I should ask to read their messages. What do you think?

Answer from Our Love Experts:

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Jun 30, 2014 0

5 Creative Fourth of July Proposals

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Cupid's Pulse Article: 5 Creative Fourth of July Proposals
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By Whitney Johnson

According to WeddingWire, about one third of engagements in the United States happen between Thanksgiving and New Year’s Day. So guys, if you’re ready to pop the question, why not surprise her with an engagement ring on the Fourth of July instead? Make your own fireworks on this red, white, and blue holiday with one of these five creative Independence Day proposal ideas:

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Jun 27, 2014 0

Date Idea: Tour a Chocolate Factory

Posted In: Dating, Weekend Date Ideas
Cupid's Pulse Article: Date Idea: Tour a Chocolate Factory
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By Leslie Chavez

Chocolate and romance are two things that go together oh so well. The sweet, dark candy is considered to be an aphrodisiac and can add a little passion and sensuality to any relationship when used correctly. If you have a sweet tooth, these chocolate-filled date ideas are sure to satisfy it!

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Jun 26, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: Where to Meet Men

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to Ms. Solomon, dating coach and founder of TheDatingTruth.com, about where to meet men. Ms. Solomon is a proactive dater herself, so she knows the best spots to find a good guy. ¬†She even plans specific activities with the intention of meeting someone new! She encourages you to head to the following three places: the men’s department at local stores, hotel bars, and the gym.

Related Link: Jonathon Aslay: Where Are All the Good Men?!

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

Where do you go to meet men? Share in the comments below.

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Jun 25, 2014 0

Screwing the Rules Video Dating Tips: ‘The Bachelorette’ Way to Date Lots of Guys

Posted In: Experts, Laurel House Articles, Our Videos, Videos

If you’re a fan of The Bachelorette, then you know the formula is simple: the Bachelorette (currently Andi Dorfman) starts off dating 25 guys before whittling the group down to her final pick. Using the show as inspiration, in this week’s video, Screwing the Rules dating coach Laurel House shares her best advice for¬†dating a lot¬†of guys. As House explains, “If you want to find your perfect mate, you need to date multiple people at once. How are you supposed to make a decision if you don’t have any choices?”

Related Link: Video Dating Tips: ‘Bachelorette’-Based Ways to Know If He’s Using You

Listen up if you’re ready to date more than one guy in order to¬†meet your soulmate!

For more information about our dating mentor, click here.

What are tips for dating lots of guys at once? Tell us in the comments below.

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Jun 23, 2014 0

‘You & A’ Music Host Clare Galterio on Dating: ‚ÄúGive Everyone a Chance”

Posted In: Celebrity Interviews, Exclusives
Cupid's Pulse Article: ‘You & A’ Music Host Clare Galterio on Dating: ‚ÄúGive Everyone a Chance”
Clare Galterio. Photo: Sean Hamrock

Interview by Brittany Stubbs. Written by Anna Averill.

Clare Galterio is the newest face on the Music Choice Network and host of the hit show “You &A,”¬†where she¬†gets the scoop on today’s hottest¬†artists while listeners play along at home by asking their own questions via Twitter. Galterio has chatted with dozens of chart-topping artists, including Hunter Hayes, NeonTrees, Nick Cannon, and Imagine Dragons,¬†just to name a few.¬†In addition to interviews with musicians, the 30-minute talk show features live performances.
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Jun 20, 2014 0

Date Idea: Visit a Tarot Card Reader

Posted In: Dating, Weekend Date Ideas
Cupid's Pulse Article: Date Idea: Visit a Tarot Card Reader
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By Leslie Chavez

If you‚Äôre strolling around that little beach town you visited for the weekend and looking for something different to do, check out that tarot card reader you spotted on the street. Come on — you know you‚Äôre a little curious! Take a look into the crystal ball and see what the future holds for you and your love.

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Jun 19, 2014 0

Celebrity Couple Predictions: Chrissy Teigen, Jessica Alba and Eve

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Cupid's Pulse Article: Celebrity Couple Predictions: Chrissy Teigen, Jessica Alba and Eve
Chrissy Teigen and John Legend. Photo: Janet Mayer / PRPhotos.com

By Shoshi

For today’s post, let’s look at three celebrity couples with happy and strong¬†relationships — one twosome settling into married life, one duo with two adorable daughters, and one pair of newlyweds:

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Jun 19, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: How to Be More Than a Fling to Him

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On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, dating coach Tripp reveals how to be than just
a summer fling to your new guy. Here are his top three tips if you don’t want him to think of you as¬†a one night stand: don’t jump into bed too soon; show boundaries but still be interested in him; and stop texting and call him instead.

Related Link: Tripp on 5 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Them

Listen up for more great dating advice!

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

Ladies, what do you do to let a guy know you want more than just a fling? Tell us in the comments below!

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Jun 18, 2014 0

Considering Divorce? Ask Yourself Three Questions

Posted In: Experts, Hope After Divorce Articles
Cupid's Pulse Article: Considering Divorce? Ask Yourself Three Questions
Antonio Banderas and Melanie Griffith. Photo: Solarpix / PR Photos

By Janeen Diamond for Hope After Divorce 

‚Äú…great marriages are born when two people decide to come to the party!‚ÄĚ

It’s common knowledge that most of us, at one time or another, will consider divorce as an alternative to a difficult marriage. The truth is  ALL marriages are difficult to some degree, and those of us who long for the fairy tale will be sorely disappointed. I have often said that great marriages are born when two people decide to come to the party! Marriages fail because someone decides the party isn’t all that fun.

Sadly, Melanie Griffith and Antonio Banderas are divorcing after 18 years of marriage. Their news comes after living separate lives due to their conflicting work schedules. They may be saying their split is amicable and ending in a loving manner, but the reality is that they no longer choose to be a couple. They will now have to face dividing their combined fortune, rumored to be worth 50 million dollars.

Related Link: Going Solo Again: Bold New Beginnings

In talking with many divorced individuals, I’ve learned that expectations about sex, money, care taking, adoration, housekeeping, ways to spend leisure time, and a whole bunch of other individual traits are often born out of selfishness, immaturity, and insecurity and sometimes even based on a lack of experience with reality. I hope that doesn‚Äôt sound negative, but the fact is we all bring our own stuff into our marriages, and often, our stuff doesn‚Äôt exactly mesh with our spouse‚Äôs stuff.

I met a couple several weeks ago who, between them, had experienced several divorces. The husband lamented that his first wife had cheated on him, his second wife just wouldn‚Äôt give him enough attention, his third wife couldn‚Äôt accept his children, and so on…

And this is the reason I try and focus on helping people stay in their marriages if at all possible! Because the cycle doesn‚Äôt end. Issues will keep popping up no matter how many times you¬†get married, because it isn‚Äôt about the issues themselves — it‚Äôs about the people in the marriage who are creating the issues. And until we fix the people…the issues will remain.¬†In my opinion, a good counselor could absolutely help a couple facing infidelity, attention deficits, blending families, or any other problem that exists by focusing on the real issues we just talked about — selfishness, immaturity, insecurity, etc.

If you are seriously considering divorce, I want you to spend the next week asking yourself these three questions over and over until you have the answers solidified.

Will I be better off? Will you be better off emotionally? Will you be better off or at least be able to sustain yourself financially? Will you be happier in the long run? Think of these questions in every possible scenario.

Am I okay with the thought of a new life? If you are forced to move from your home, will your kids be okay with a new school and new friends? Will you be able to handle all the added responsibility? Think about all of the changes that will take place for you personally and figure out if, for you, these changes are manageable.

Have circumstances made it necessary for me to end this marriage — affairs or abuse? If the affairs or abuse has stopped, is it possible to put things back together? The roadblock often comes when one partner doesn‚Äôt want to put in the work or seek counseling and do what it takes in order to gain back the violated spouse‚Äôs trust. These are serious problems, and you need to determine for yourself if indeed you will be better off leaving the marriage.

Related Link: Attitude is Key

Divorce is a big decision. Don’t move forward with it until you have exhausted every attempt to fix things in your marriage. Once you are comfortable with your decision, whatever it is, move forward with conviction. I will root for you to go for the save!

For more information about Hope After Divorce, click here.

Cupid's Pulse Article: Considering Divorce? Ask Yourself Three QuestionsJaneen Diamond, author of¬†Save Your Marriage in 30, was a newscaster for KUTV News until 2001. Since that time, she has been actively producing commercials and special programming through her company, Your TV Spot. She has hosted several television and internet productions and has been a spokesperson for several products and companies. She is a leader over the youth in her church and takes a special interest in helping kids stay on track with their lives. Janeen is currently co-creating ‚ÄúTeen Impact TV,‚ÄĚ a website for high school students to give them a creative and emotional outlet. She is a contributing expert for HopeAfterDivorce.org, DivorceSupportCenter.com, FamilyShare.com, and CupidsPulse.com. Follow her on Twitter @janeendiamond and¬†Facebook.

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Jun 13, 2014 0

What Are Some Superstitions You Fear? Try Them Out for Date Night!

Posted In: Dating, Weekend Date Ideas
Cupid's Pulse Article: What Are Some Superstitions You Fear? Try Them Out for Date Night!
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By Leslie Chavez

Friday the thirteenth doesn’t have to be unlucky when it comes to love. In fact, you can turn the unlucky into a few unique date ideas. What are some superstitions you fear? Face your fears and spend the day together seeing how many superstitions you can prove wrong.

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Jun 12, 2014 0

Single in Stilettos Show: It’s Your Fault You’re Single!

Posted In: Our Videos, Single in Stilettos Shows Articles, Videos

On this week’s Single in Stilettos show, founder Suzanne Oshima talks to dating coach Mr. Locario about the reasons you may still be single. ¬†There are five things you should do if you’re ready to find love: You need to take responsibility for your love life; you need to stop being too picky; you need to give him a second chance; you need to be careful about interpreting his actions and words; and you need to¬†take initiative to meet the right man.

Related Link: Mr. Locario on What Attracts a Man

For more information about Single in Stilettos shows, click here.

What’s the first step you take when you’re ready to find a partner?¬†Tell us in the comments below!¬†

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