Cupid's Pulse Article: Cris Judd Opens Up About Marriage to Jennifer LopezCupid's Pulse Article: Cris Judd Opens Up About Marriage to Jennifer Lopez

By Maggie Manfredi

It takes two to tango, and Cris Judd is cross stepping back over his relationship with Jennifer Lopez. The choreographer was married to the “A.K.A” singer for 16 months. According to UsMagazine.com, Judd said, “Anybody that would say she doesn’t look great is lying. But you know, I can’t give you the answer as to why her relationships don’t work. I think that it’s that it is work. It’s whether you want to work on it or not. Everyone has baggage and problems. It’s whether you want to deal with those problems. When you sign up to get married, you can’t just walk away.” Judd is now remarried with a child while Lopez has gone through a couple of relationships since the split. The actor reflected on the struggle of dating under the spotlight, saying, “You kind of have to take it and accept it and embrace it. Once you stop fighting it, it smooths itself over. If you try to keep that privacy, it drives you nuts and that’s why people break.”

What are some ways to deal with public pressure in your relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

Romantic relationships are meant to be intimate, shared between two people. However ,in order to be successful, relationships have to sail smoothly both privately and publicly. Cupid has some tips for couples in the mainstream to stay afloat:

1. Make a plan: Do not go out into the world without discussing what will be taking place. Spontaneity is great for any relationship but when it comes to pressure from the public you don’t want any surprises from each other, because there are enough obstacles already set before you both.

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2. You are partners: First and foremost,  be yourself. If you are out celebrating your partner’s accomplishments or benchmarks make sure they feel special and have your full support, without losing sight of who you are in the relationship.

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3. Have fun: There is a reason you are still together, the love is there so the fun should be there too. Work together to make other people’s opinions or perceptions fade away by showing everybody that you know how to have a good time whether you are at home watching television or at a fancy event.

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