New couple alert!  Rumors are flying after Gabriel Aubry and Kim Kardashian were spotted sitting together at an L.A. Lakers game.  A source tells People, “They’ve been dating a little bit.”  Gabriel Aubry’s ex, Halle Berry has already moved on after their split earlier this year, and it looks like the Canadian model is doing the same with Kim Kardashian.  While the curvy reality star was enjoying being single, she had also complained about her lack of a love life. How do you take your time in a relationship?

Cupid’s Advice:

If you want a relationship to last a long time, you have to move at your own pace.  Here’s how:

1. Wait until you’re ready: Don’t hit the milestones in a relationship just because they’re there.  For example, say, “I love you” only when you feel ready.

2. Lighten up: If you just ended a serious relationship with someone like Gabriel Aubry did, don’t get serious again right away.  For now, date without thinking about where it could lead.

3. Don’t use labels: If you want to take your time in a relationship, wait a while to make it official.  Using the labels “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” too early could put pressure on the relationship.