Though Christina Milian will be appearing in the holiday movie Christmas Cupid December 12th on ABC Family, she does not plan on being struck by Cupid’s arrow anytime soon.  As the singer/actress told People, there is no man in her life now, and she loves being single.  Christina Milian recently split from rapper-producer The Dream.  The two have an 8-month-old daughter together, and she is her mother’s first priority.  She says, “I’m learning about myself all over again.  And as far as my daughter, I will never bring anyone into her life that I don’t have a real connection with.  I’m going to protect her.  I don’t just bring anyone into my life or her life.”What are some of the perks of being single? 

Cupid’s Advice:

Being in a relationship is wonderful, but being single can be just as amazing.  After all, you have to love yourself before you can begin to love someone else:

1. Embrace independence: Singles can breathe a sigh of relief because the only person they have to worry about is themselves.

2. Self-reflect: Flying solo means you have time to find yourself and figure out what you want from a potential future relationship.

3. Enjoy being alone: You are always your best company.  So if your last relationship didn’t work out, remember it’s far better to be alone than in bad company.