It looks like Bachelor winner Vienna Girardi has found new love with Bachelorette contestant Kasey Kahl, reports Hollywood Life.  “Kasey is genuinely a nice, caring, loving person, even when the cameras are off, ” said Girardi.  That’s what makes the difference.  When we’re at home eating dinner or watching a movie, he’s still that sweet charming guy that he is when we’re out in public.  I want someone who is going to love me unconditionally, all day every day -— not just when other people are seeing it.”  Girardi’s dramatic split from ex-fiancé Jake Pavelka on national television taught her to be careful while dating in the public eye.  Kahl is also wary of public television-based romance.  “I told myself I’d never date someone from the Bachelor franchise, but I met her, and everything went out the window,” said Kahl.  “She’s amazing.  No matter what we’ve gone through, and no matter what she’s gone through, I’m here now, and I will make sure she’s the happiest girl ever.”

How do you trust in love again after a bad breakup?

Cupid’s Advice:

After a breakup, it’s all too easy to become cynical.  Here are a few tips to remaining optimistic:

1. Special circumstances: After a particularly nasty breakup, try to keep in mind that mistakes made during your past relationship will probably not be repeated in your future relationships.  Allow each new partner a clean slate in order to get a true fresh start.

2. Other fish in the sea: Even if you believed your ex-partner was ‘the one,’ it’s important to remember that there are plenty of other potential loves out there.  Believe it or not, it is possible to fall in love more than once.

3. You will need time: It would be foolish to expect happiness immediately after a relationship ends.  Recovery takes time, but eventually you’ll be ready to get out there again.

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